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Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Denial o... - 3/13/2005 10:08:24 PM   
JulioBsAs


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I have ready in many Webs and some documents that insist: Any woman can Control his man if she Control the sex!

What do you think? Is that real or not? It's true the sentence "No man can scape from a girl who chastitized or denied his orgasm? What technikque you use with your partner with this porpouse?

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/13/2005 10:18:05 PM   
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Of course woman can control a man's orgasms and sex. where have you been julio? I have never heard the quote you posted but yes sure, okay.

I control many of my slaves orgasms and release by putting them on release restriction and I like to use the cb2000/3000. My slaves love it. I have one slave that is going on his third month with it on. What can I say, he loves the damn thing.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/17/2005 6:51:19 PM   
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I had a sub that had a cb3000 and he made comments all the time about how erotic it was to have it on. To be controlled in his mind and not to be controlled by his sex. They are much more in tune to what a Mistress's wants and needs are when they are in chastity and not led by their manhood. Which we all know is what leads men in the first place. Take that away from them and all that is left is the mind play.

Hope that helped

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/18/2005 7:04:42 PM   
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JulioBsAs

It depends on what head the mans letting rule him.


HAHAHAA! I couldent resist!

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/19/2005 2:56:05 PM   
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LOL very true!!!!! the majority of the men always think with the little one LOL

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/28/2005 7:07:57 AM   
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I wholeheartedly agree. Orgasm control is the key. It works like magic and it is a lot of fun for the Domme.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/28/2005 12:05:17 PM   
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Control the little head & you control the whole body.... seems to be true in most all cases

Oh if Mothers had only taught this to the little girls as they grew up instead of "win a man's heart through his stomach"

LOL

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/28/2005 3:17:54 PM   
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quote:

Oh if Mothers had only taught this to the little girls as they grew up instead of "win a man's heart through his stomach"


LOL! Makes it a lot less important that I can't cook :)

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/29/2005 1:11:29 PM   
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My question for an experienced Domme is can orgasm control of a man, be so complete as to train him in the art of fellatio? To me, that would be the ultimate test of true control for a truly heterosexual male. Completion of this task would confirm true ownership.

If this is accomplished, my next question is, how does this now change the nature of the relationship of the Domme and her sub? It would seem to me that necessarily a change would occur,, with this transforming event. Would not the Domme completely and totally own this sub? What would be the next step?

Curiously curious.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/29/2005 3:18:53 PM   
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Orgasam denial is a wonderful tool. A man is really attached to his pecker, it was their first toy. When a dominant takes control of that toy they pay really close attention to every little thing you say. It a huge mind f*ck when what has always been their personal and close property now becomes yours. It only comes out for your whim, your pleasure, and your entertainment. If it is locked away they cannot even get a full erection, plus, they have to sit down to urinate. It makes them more malleable in the hopes that you may have mercy and let them out. Well, that it my 2 cents
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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/29/2005 8:30:14 PM   
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It's true I would say. Oh and yeah I dont just think with my dick, im passionate about other things and I have many other interests than just pussy. :P If I dont like you at an emotional level, you cant control me. That is how it goes, plain and simple.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/30/2005 4:33:51 PM   
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Yes you can control a man using orgasm control. I have done this before, and plan on doing it again. It's one of the most exciting things I have done (well, among many exciting things ;) )

Fieldflower

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/30/2005 4:58:01 PM   
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The funny thing about enforced chastity is many men seem to crave it as Orgasm Denial website shows.

At first it seemed odd to me that orgasm control was such a large part of F/m relationships. Though I’ve told the woman that I worship I’d accept it if she chose to use it we’ve never felt the need.

Possibly because I’m too romantic (for my own good) I’ve never felt ruled by my penis. It took me a long time to understand it as an ultimate form of power over the ordinary male.

For me that many men crave it is the interesting aspect. Like masochism it is making a man suffer by giving him what he wants.


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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 3/31/2005 12:52:45 AM   
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Chastity does help make a male compliant and the longer he is in a device the more intense touch and other sensations can become. Several devices exist from Neosteel male Chastity belts to male package devices like the CB2000 or CB3000. Additionally, chastity piercing along with jewelry like Lori’s Tube chastity devices can be very effective when properly used.

Chastity is half-mental/mind games and making the man a subject the other fun is playing with alternative sensations. The key if you want enforced chastity is picking a device that works well for a few days and does not allow him escape attempts. After all, it is the duration that builds the yearning, submissiveness, pre-cum drool, a bit of emasculation, control, and do anything for you desire, can’t help himself, drop to his knees giddy passion. Allegedly, men that have never been ‘wet’ during foreplay can become prone to foreplay-wetness as the prostate builds up due to the lack of release. Other fun can be gained with non-orgasmic milking after the man has been in the chastity belt for a while.

If a man really wants to feel controlled, putting an effective chastity device on him can help keep his mind in that realm. For women think about not being able to touch an erogenous zone to erotic completion for days while that same area is being adorned with a new foreign garment that focuses your attention on that spot. Now imagine being reminded every time you go to the bathroom, that someone else controls a part of you. As you know, men go through various states of arousal and position throughout the day so every time the wearer tries to out grow his confines he will feel the held and captive feeling of the device locked on him. You can tell him every time he feels this held/pressure feeling it is your hand on him guiding him to do your wishes. Tell me is that not powerful?

Now once he has been in it for a while you can play with him in so many ways.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/2/2005 8:45:32 PM   
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I don't have personal experience, but i've talked to alot of people involved in chastity. I think if you lock up a non-submissive man, it will just make him angry, and if you don't let him out he'll find somebody to cut of the device for him.

I think if you lock up a submissive man who lives and has sex with you it will make him extremely horney all the time and wanting to get into your pants. It can be very nice for a woman with high sex drive who gets turned on seeing a man frustrated.

I think that a couple of months, it's fun for both people. As time goes on, it becomes much more fun for the woman, and only fun for a submissive man knowing he is making the woman happy. There must be something that keeps the man in the relationship long term if his orgasms are going to be rightly rationed.

A woman who doesn't want a long term relationship can probably find a string of men to lock up and ration sexually until they
get tired of it. It could be lots of fun if that's what the woman wants.

It can be a great way to change the habits of the man wearing the device, although maybe less so for a Mistress who hardly ever l lets her sub cum. I talked to one woman who just liked to put a locking gag on her sub when he begged for release. Her sub was allowed to cum only every 6 weeks or so.

I have read that lesbian sex is typically better than straight sex for a woman because woman understand their partners body better. Putting a sub in chastity is a way to make straight sex just as good or better than lesbian sex because they focus more on the woman's pleasure knowing they aren't going to get release.

I don't know if any of this holds all the time, it's just my perspective of what happens. If a woman is interested in
male chastity and has a willing sub, I'd say to go for it because many key holders give it a good review.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/5/2005 6:58:54 PM   
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Chastity can be a great tool. There are some drawbacks to using devices 24/7, however. I have found that I just can't sleep through the night while wearing one, though I have tried many times.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/6/2005 1:02:33 AM   
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i am another one chiming in, if a dominant woman owns my orgasm and that aspect of my sensuality, she pretty much will wrap me around her finger.

i have had more limits pushed by a Mistress controlling my orgasms and my desires. It is sort of a domination of my testosterone.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/10/2005 6:49:19 AM   
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My mistress took the keys to my CB3000 (secured with a PA) yesterday. It will be at least a week before I see her again, and the torment is incredible. I haven't had an orgasm since last Monday and I am just aching for one. I have not gone this long without an orgasm my whole adult life. My mistress is having me write sentences as a condition of even discussing release. The sentences are a half page long and I have to write it 200 times, so that's 100 pages of handwriting. She also is going to have a can of dog food (Hill's Science Diet) for me to eat before the device comes off. She may take the sentences, make me eat the dog food and then mail me the keys in another week or so. I am just trembling at the power she has over me right now. Exquisite. So little effort on her part.

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/10/2005 8:46:21 AM   
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I am looking for a chastity belt for my Sub he is very well endowed and enormous bollocks is there such a device that can accomodate him?

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RE: Can a Woman easely Dominate a man using Orgasm Deni... - 4/10/2005 11:35:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sunmoon888
She also is going to have a can of dog food (Hill's Science Diet) for me to eat before the device comes off. She may take the sentences, make me eat the dog food and then mail me the keys

Make you eat dog food??? Yes well to each their own, but to be honest I would find nothing exhilerating at making someone do something that is so unhealthy.

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