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"Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 12:49:05 PM   
maggiepie


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Status: offline 		"sub has met her One and now needs help traveling to be with Him for eternity....please throw good karma into the circle and help me to Master's side"
"not asking for money but only time and transportation...email me on the site for details i need to get from Salt Lake Utah to Seminole Alabama..i need to move my belongings and myself and 2 cats...i also know Seminole has been pretty much distroyed in Hurricane Ivan but that is where my home is to be.. please help me get home and settled for thanksgiving and christmas...i just need to go home"

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 12:53:15 PM   
jillwfsub4blkdom


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Status: offline 		maggie,
good luck in getting assistance with the move. you are very fortunate to have found the One.

jill

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 1:07:45 PM   
sweetpleaser


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Status: offline 		Good luck to you. When I moved from Utah to Florida I sold my furniture and paid for UPS to ship the rest so it didn't cost me anything. Then you need only get yourself and your pets to Alabama. Isn't your Master able to help you? If you do not have a car, can he come pick you up? Maybe he could share the responsibility. JMO.

Please be careful.

ann

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 2:40:27 PM   
January


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Status: offline 		maggie,

Some people are able to move free by driving a car owned by someone who needs the car transported to another state. College campuses are often full of ads asking or offering to do this.

That being said, I hope the Mods delete this thread. IMO it's begging. It also equates submissive with helpless victim.

January

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 3:23:23 PM   
masterzpet


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From: Idaho
Status: offline 		Good luck to you... but, shouldn't your Master be assisting you?
IMO it is just as much his responsibility as yours. No way in hell would I move across the country to someone who wouldn't even help get me there.

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 3:41:19 PM   
jillwfsub4blkdom


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Status: offline 		i just wanted to give the board a little background on maggie's situation. maggie is doing this as a last resort. maggie isn't new to collarme. maggie is a regular in chat and is gracious enough to op the room hours and hours on a daily basis. maggie had made plans for someone to help her but the other individual backed out on her at the last moment. maggie's Master is unable to help either because His home and belongings have been decimated by the hurricane. maggie feels very uncomfortable about approaching the board with this. she was only hoping that the community would help her instead of the negativity and bashing.

jill

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 3:58:29 PM   
sweetpleaser


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Status: offline 		Thank you jill. I guess some of us are overly cautious for our fellow members. I was worried that she was moving to be with an online Master who wasn't interested in helping her. My feathers get ruffled if I think someone will be taken advantage of.

ann

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 4:01:38 PM   
masterzpet


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Status: offline 		Jill, I don't feel anyone bashed her. I know I certainly wasn't.

Sometimes what we want to do and what we can do at the moment are two different things.
It sounds to me like now isn't a very good time to be trying to move when neither party has the means or capability to do so.

Just my opinion of course and since I am new here, maybe I don't know all the story. All I could comment on was what was posted.

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 4:30:51 PM   
January


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jillwfsub4blkdom
she was only hoping that the community would help her instead of the negativity and bashing.


I offered her help, jill. No, I didn't offer her money. No free ride, either. I offered her a possible solution. As did others. Is my suggestion "bashing" because it would involve work on her part? I don't think so. Not unless she's begging.

Now to give YOU some background: IMO, a sub is an adult. Adults do not ask strangers for "help" so they can meet their mate. My opinion won't change because you buy into the romantic/sentimental notion that some random union between subbie and master is going to be perfect--or forever.

bdsm requires more cold-eyed common sense than vanilla realtionships--not less. You yourself should know that very well.

January

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RE: "Help this subbie find her way home" - 10/5/2004 5:33:40 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		Hi maggie, i remember you from the few times i've been in the chat room. I wish i could help. Good luck with your move.

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