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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:38:17 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		I think it depends on whats actually happening....my ex used to embarass me all the time...kinda got to the point where it also made me really horny....dont know that I can really explain it.....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:38:19 AM   
ocilla


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Status: offline 		yeah that good idea of taking care of one toys and loved ones is very sensible. 

Eoin...wow!  how cool is that.  Not only the peice you wrote and sited so beautifully but the enitre set up.  Is that the myspace kinkyqueer thingy?  I had no idea it could be so rich....that is very cool.  and means I have a bunch of work to do I supose...hmmmm

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:39:09 AM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		I think what is the hardest part to digest (re: humiliation) is the word itself.

Sure, hateful, harmful degredation isn't something anyone would really bring upon themselves (well, generally speaking... there are many out there that really enjoy that) but I think what most people speak of when they talk about humiliating another person is the playful "picking on" that we all engage in... even vanilla folk engage in playfully putting down people.

So try thinking about playful aspects that are considered humiliation & not focus on what is considered hard degredation.

Just a tilt on prespective

accentuate the positive

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 10/9/2007 9:40:36 AM >

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:41:47 AM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		feeling warned.

feeling loved.

feeling tired.

feeling trusted.

feeling awww..... "beautiful lights" refers to the youngest of UMs...and the lighted fake Jack O' Lantern sitting in the entry way....awww....she says "It's bwetiful lights, Mom" hehe

"Her house" maybe.  Our Rainbow Room.  Definately.  I have a catalog coming from FLORS per Ocilla's suggestion....the carpet in the Rainbow Room HAS to go.

Love, darling, sweets..find me on IM please.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:43:49 AM   
ocilla


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ORIGINAL: NewJustlookin

Don't worry Ocila I really don't get it at all. I mean the thought of just total embarassement. I can see why Dom love it because it probably funny in thier eye's. But to  a Sub. I guess some like it. Maybe for attention. or Just to make Dom happy. But I just don't get.


Curiously New, it is one of the most requested and sited prefered activities of male subs...the key seems to be that it must be very tailored to the individual.  There are places where being taken down a peg or two is apparently a total turn on...I guess they are feeling that no one is giving them boundaries or they feel guilty about certain things they "get away with".  But there are aspects that one is really truely sensitive about that if targeted can be quite damaging...so it seems to require a good bit of self knowledge to work well.

Yeah, Ghita...if the conditioning is there ongoing such that he gets turned on but ridiculing and then hot sex happens....then one would begin to repspond eventually.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:45:05 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		anyone got any good online journaling site suggestions? Something fairly easy to use.....I need something new...my old one just isnt cutting it anymore..Im frantically trying to cut and paste my old entrys before I lose them.....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:46:36 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		there are lots of aspects to kink that I really dont get at all....Ive learned to just shrug.....and often leave the room at fetish parties...lol....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:46:37 AM   
trappedinamuseum


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Status: offline 		mmm..lunchtime!  What's everybody having?

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:51:48 AM   
ocilla


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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion

I think what is the hardest part to digest (re: humiliation) is the word itself.

Sure, hateful, harmful degredation isn't something anyone would really bring upon themselves (well, generally speaking... there are many out there that really enjoy that) but I think what most people speak of when they talk about humiliating another person is the playful "picking on" that we all engage in... even vanilla folk engage in playfully putting down people.

So try thinking about playful aspects that are considered humiliation & not focus on what is considered hard degredation.

Just a tilt on prespective

accentuate the positive


Thanks Passion!  I totally get the teasing apsects and truely enjoy it...kind of pranksterish, verbal wit and banter...yep that is fun. 

One of my really good vanilla friends years ago finally pulled me aside after I was confused by a boy pulling back after there had been some playful verbal sparing....my friend also a fella let me know that I just about always come out on top in such situations resulting in stunning the fella into to silence and discomfort and that I might need to dial it back a bit.  He was right I discovered when I paid more attention....but that was in the land of vanilla mwuah ha ha ha.  No paying attention and modulating was great advice.  Thank god for good friends who will tell ya what you need to hear some times.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:53:30 AM   
ocilla


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ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

anyone got any good online journaling site suggestions? Something fairly easy to use.....I need something new...my old one just isnt cutting it anymore..Im frantically trying to cut and paste my old entrys before I lose them.....


Check with Insty....his site is constantly getting richer and deeper...he may have something in the works....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 9:55:37 AM   
ocilla


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ORIGINAL: trappedinamuseum

mmm..lunchtime!  What's everybody having?


turkey cheddar on wheat.  yawn but will work.  Speaking of which I need to get to work.  been wallying around here this morning getting myself behind on work stuff....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:01:16 AM   
GhitaAmati


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ORIGINAL: trappedinamuseum

mmm..lunchtime!  What's everybody having?


processed deli meat...roast beef and turkey with cheese stuff from same deli and frenchs honey mustard....all on processed white bread from merita...oh wow is Daddy ever gonna be mad at me...sigh...oh well....Im drinking water instead of pepsi...so thats gotta be a plus....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:02:28 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Speaking of lunch, better get myself in gear. Heading out to visit my adoptive sister and her girlfriend this afternoon and to catch up on things with them! They just got back from spending the past month with their new Daddy and will find out all abouut it  LOL.

Just briefly popped into KQ and was surprised at the changes! Will have to wait until later to check out the new changes and ask a few questions. Have a good day everyone, hugs and smooches until I return!


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:04:21 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		My personal webspace on KQ: This is just me transferring old articles of compatible theme to the idea of KQ. It's old content... nothing new yet.

And definitely not ready for prime time.

It's held together by an ultra-minimal CMS engine that is driven by a non-relational database. The page templates are designed to be drag-and-drop compatible with PostNuke's "user level" options.

Speaking cryptically: well, there's a number of people who are on here that would maybe want to see it first before seeing it elsewhere... That'd be the "project people." Everyone else, I think it's a nifty if slightly academic explanation of why I'd get up on stage in full on Lizard King (Queen?) invocation mode while wearing a snappy pencil skirt and heels...

Articles: Cliff, this is what I was saying about tone and style. But you're the editor - I'm just a potential contributor.
Style: Jules, chartreuse goes really well with black... cf. Absinthe restaurant in SF.

Donna: It's good that you feel that much all at once... and I'll get on IM as soon as it starts.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:06:48 AM   
trappedinamuseum


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Everyone has a better lunch than me.  This corn chowder is just not doing it for me...but, I'm saving the calories for a bag of cheetos later...

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:07:26 AM   
MstrssPassion


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ORIGINAL: ocilla
Thanks Passion!  I totally get the teasing apsects and truely enjoy it...kind of pranksterish, verbal wit and banter...yep that is fun. 

One of my really good vanilla friends years ago finally pulled me aside after I was confused by a boy pulling back after there had been some playful verbal sparing....my friend also a fella let me know that I just about always come out on top in such situations resulting in stunning the fella into to silence and discomfort and that I might need to dial it back a bit.  He was right I discovered when I paid more attention....but that was in the land of vanilla mwuah ha ha ha.  No paying attention and modulating was great advice.  Thank god for good friends who will tell ya what you need to hear some times.


I too have a hard time with some forms of "humiliation" that some people engage in but that's when I have to remind myself, different strokes for different folks" & so long as they don't attempt to impose their kink upon me... its all good.

I had one case years ago where I had to set boundaries at a play party because this couple's kink invaded my personal space.

Part of their scene involved him writing some rather crude, derogatory messages & words on her body & after they finished their scene he had her go walk around the party's social areas so that she could display his "art". When she approached my table where myself & several friends were sitting she wouldn't leave until she had everyone's attention. She stood there hopping slightly on her toes, waggling her breasts with the foul graffiti. I got up, went over to her top & told him that I would prefer he reel her in just a bit because I didn't particularly care for the intrusion.


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:08:49 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		omg Im so stupid.....OK...I own tons of webspace....have my own page builder software....why the hell havent I just built my own journaling site instead of using someone elses for the past two years?....

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:09:56 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well.....you seem fairly insightful at this particular instant.

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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:12:24 AM   
NewJustlookin


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RE: Arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggghhhhhhhhhh! - 10/9/2007 10:12:26 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		oh hush ron...it was one of those lightbulb moments ok....

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