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Gorean Men and Masters - 5/16/2007 5:31:38 PM   
aeaa


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Greetings Masters & Mistresses,
Greetings girls,
 
aea would like to approach the above terms in perhaps a different light of sorts. It has been debated that a slave must be owned to be a slave and/or that a slave is a slave owned or not.  aea begs for that particular topic to be left behind for the moment.
 
It has been said that a man need not be a Master to be a Gorean man. 
 
People use different things to define Gorean men, but aea believes that a majority consensus is usually reached that a man must have knowledge of Gor and must hold Gorean beliefs and values to be considered "Gorean."  Otherwise, men who behave unwittingly with similar or same beliefs, without knowledge of Gor, are considered Gorean-like in their nature.

That said, aea would like to offer a thought shared with her some time ago, that thought being in the context of men owning females:
 
A man need not have knowledge of Gor to be a Master, he need only to have knowledge of women.
 
aea begs views of this statement to be shared within the same context of men owning females, please.  she begs to know what sort of knowledge men might have of women, how and where it was acquired, and if it continues to grow and expand. aea knows that men will come to know their own slaves, but she begs to know in broader terms if men who have owned women, do own women or intend to own women feel that they have a deeper insight and understanding, a higher knowledge of women than other men.
 
aea wishes you well.

 I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness.....I dont mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh God, as a woman i want to be Dominated. Anais Nin
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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 3:10:55 AM   
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greetings girl:

As I am not a man.. perhaps my view is not pertinent.. however I would say this..  A man need only true knowledge of himself in order to be a Master. All else is secondary. Mastery in its core is not about the ability to master another rather an ablility to Master oneself first.

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 6:55:15 AM   
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Greetings Sylverdawn,

Well said.
Well said, indeed.

I wish you well,
Maahsatti

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 9:03:57 AM   
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Howdy Girlie,

I used to have a tussle in my mind with this very subject, men and masters, males and men, blah, blah, blah.....nI don't so much anymore thanks to a post that Leonidas made once. I know I am a man, a maleman, not a mailman though. I did move a UPS trailer one time, but it was empty and had no mail contained within.

Why do I think I am a Gorean man? It has mostly to do with the fact it's the umbrella I hold over my head. My heads identify as such and we wear these colors proud enough as our own. It has to believe with my believed ideals and what they mean to me. Beyond that I'm sure Websters has a definition of what man is that suits the purpose hear. I'll post something that Leonidas said once as it pertains to master within the ownership intent, if he don't like my repost he can moderate it if he chooses, but it is something I found very helpful in my thought process.

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Quote by Leonidas...


Men have a natural drive and inclination to assert dominance, and establish and defend territory. They are built for it, both physically, and in their mental and emotional makeup. They are the natural masters of our species.

Women are naturally inclined to admire and submit to male dominance. They want to live within his territory, under his sovereign rule, and decorate it. They are simply built for it, both physically and in their mental and emotional makeup. They are the natural slaves of our species.

Are the above statements true, or false? Neither, of course. They are generalizations. We as Goreans believe that they hold true for men and women taken as groups. They could be absolutely false, however, when applied to any given man, or woman. Does that necessarily mean that the man or woman for whom the generalization does not fit is confused or doesn't know their place? No, not really. They may genuinely be an "exception that makes the rule". They could also be a product of social conditioning, the point of which is to make both men and women distrust their natural inclinations and desires. It would take a wiser man than me to tell the difference at a glance.
It is the "morality of masters" that we, as Goreans, believe in, not Male Supremecy, sometimes aka (the Natural Order). The notion that having a cock entitles you to mastery is about as 180 degress from Gorean philosophy as you can get. If you were born with one, mastery is your birthright, but a birthright that still must be claimed. If you are not fit to claim it, you will not. Period. If you would be equal, you must become equal, not just protest that you are. A man may be a slave. He may only be fit to be a slave, and rightfully a slave. He may not, however, attempt to impose the morality of slaves upon me. By choosing to live on his knees, he has acknowledged himself not an equal, and I will not regard him as such.



Now with all that said, I do believe a man can master a good many things in his life including himself. So what is a man versus a master, how many bites does it take to get to the center of a tootsie roll tootsie pop....The world may never know...

Serve well,

Bull
 
 


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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 1:02:10 PM   
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Thank you Bull for finding interesting and relevant commentary, and thank you Leonidas for writing what I think is a really excellent summary of Gorean beliefs.

I believe that this particular view is a selective filtering of existing data through a personal and cultural lens.  It is the most natural thing in the world to believe that since I feel this way and I am wired this way, my subjects must be too.  This natural human tendency shows up even in animal research.  It's actually one of the biggest problems that science is saddled with, since there is by definition no such thing as a human researcher, academimc or experimenter who doesn't have a personal "lens".  So the bar is set high, and a lot of effort gets put into keeping data as pure as possible, uncontaminated by personal interpretations.  And results of that process can be sterile and divorced from reality, and no more relevant to real people and the way we live our lives than the most biased of interpretations.

Like Leonidas, and like every other human alive, I also have a personal and cultural lens.  It seems obvious to me that the data I'm looking at with regards to human history, evolution and social/gender dynamics points to markedly different conclusions.  I live my own life by the principles suggested by those conclusions, and all is well for me and mine when I do that.  Leonidas (and presumably other Goreans) do the same, and they get the same good results even though their conclusions are completely different.

What can we conclude from this?  Perhaps that ultimately human beings do best when they have choices.  And possibly not much else. 

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 4:22:42 PM   
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Greetings Master Bull,

Thank you for your response, Master.  Indeed Master Leonidas' words struck a chord inside of this one as they have often done over the years.
 
aea did wonder though if a man need only know himself, his beliefs, and possibly his environment in order to master, or does he need to know the nature of that which he is mastering and to what degree? 
 
aea wishes you well, Master.
 
And well, she wishes....

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 4:43:41 PM   
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It has been said that a man need not be a Master to be a Gorean man.
A man need not have knowledge of Gor to be a Master, he need only to have knowledge of women.

greetings aeaa,
in reading these two statements back to back a girl thought that the term "Master" has two separate meanings and thats why there is a discrepancy in these statements in her opinion.
If a Man is a Gorean Man, yes he is a Master only to those in comparison who address him as such. To a FC, that gorean Man wouldn't be a "Master" he would be another Free Man, Husband, Spouse, To a FW, he might be on occasion as great respect called Master, but ultimately to a FW he is still a Man.
Second, a Gorean Man can follow the philosophy, can hold the gorean ideals to heart, and can learn and live the way and not own slaves. If a Man does not own a slave, then in comparison to who he is with he is Not a Master, but once either he obtains a slave, or has a slave within the vicinity who is then serving him in such way he would be addressed as "master"

A man need not have knowledge of Gor to be a Master, he need only to have knowledge of women.

True, look at the other side, there are still "Men" there are still "Masters" and they are not gorean, they can call themselves anything from BDSM, to D/s whatever lable they wish, they still have the "mastery" skills and the knowledge of their women that they own. They may train them in ways different to what goreans do, yet they still have women yeilding to them and submitting themselves over to that Master. You don't have to be Gorean to be a Master.

hope that helps aeaa, thank you so much for asking this question, can't wait to read more responses..
sincerely,
justina, a potato

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 4:50:39 PM   
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Tal aeaa,

Now pet, we both know the answer to that question don't we. If fact,  it doesn't matter whether or not a man knows his subject to simply master it in some way. I assume you are speaking about the female being mastered. Clear it up if I assumed incorrectly. He can comquer to some degree and get positive results by merely insisting that his property obey and beat it or punish in some way if the results are not to HIS standard. So yes, he can master something to a certain degree with only knowing what he wants from the subject of contention.

Yet, there is the perfect mastery, or obtaining absolute obedience and optimal performance from the property as well. One can drive and drive a car, have only a small operational awareness and get a certain degree of performance for a certain amount of time. BUT, as we both know, if a man wants the best possible perforance out of his car, or his slut he can do himself a tremendous favor by studying his subject, understanding it and in effect esatblishing the perfect mastery of the beast, or his car.

What were we talking about, sometimes I get side tracked?

Serve well,

Bull

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 5:15:06 PM   
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Greetings Master Bull...
 
... looking at those arms... hrm... that chest... umm... yes, what were we talking about, Master? 
 
aea would beg to know that if a man needed to beat and punish a woman to get results is this mastery? Or is this bullying?  Maybe aea is getting off track herself now.
 
aea would think that indeed for optimum results knowledge would be something pertinent to mastering of anything - be it a delicious piece of exquisite slave meat or a sleek, smooth Lamborghini.
 
Thank you as always, Master.
 
aea

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 6:33:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx
If fact,  it doesn't matter whether or not a man knows his subject to simply master it in some way. I assume you are speaking about the female being mastered. Clear it up if I assumed incorrectly. He can comquer to some degree and get positive results by merely insisting that his property obey and beat it or punish in some way if the results are not to HIS standard. So yes, he can master something to a certain degree with only knowing what he wants from the subject of contention.


That don't work any too good with critters, and humans are just more complicated critters. 


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Yet, there is the perfect mastery, or obtaining absolute obedience and optimal performance from the property as well. One can drive and drive a car, have only a small operational awareness and get a certain degree of performance for a certain amount of time. BUT, as we both know, if a man wants the best possible perforance out of his car, or his slut he can do himself a tremendous favor by studying his subject, understanding it and in effect esatblishing the perfect mastery of the beast, or his car.


Well spoken, and it definitely applies to beasts whether they have two legs or four (or none).

Just a perspective from the critter side, which may or may not have anything to do with either Gorean men or Masters.


< Message edited by Najakcharmer -- 5/17/2007 6:34:52 PM >

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 6:45:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: aeaa

Greetings Master Bull...

aea would think that indeed for optimum results knowledge would be something pertinent to mastering of anything - be it a delicious piece of exquisite slave meat or a sleek, smooth Lamborghini.
 
Thank you as always, Master.
 
aea


greetings aeaa;

Doesn't this kind of contradict what aeaa has said in the other thread? About knowing someone they have mastered?

well wishes,
sabba{CB}

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 7:41:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx
If fact,  it doesn't matter whether or not a man knows his subject to simply master it in some way. I assume you are speaking about the female being mastered. Clear it up if I assumed incorrectly. He can comquer to some degree and get positive results by merely insisting that his property obey and beat it or punish in some way if the results are not to HIS standard. So yes, he can master something to a certain degree with only knowing what he wants from the subject of contention.

That don't work any too good with critters, and humans are just more complicated critters. 



I'll agree, but it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I do think I expressed indirectly it wouldn't be as effective as the latter example, but it does happen, even if not all to well. I like to use this analogy with that type of mastery style, it will work just fine until you destroy the spirits hope or until it is more afraid of something else than it is you. I think you can draw from my thoughts this would not be a preferred method of mine, I have though seen men that had girls that this is how it was, no emotion envolved, just enforced slavery. My attempt was to demonstrate the method is in fact up to the man, egffective or not.

It might be good to mention that in a society, as ours is with consensual slavery, it will most likely be a very short lived mastery. I have said it before, and I'll gladly repeat it, I do believe that the slavery that we in this form of domination must in fact be more accomplished than our brothern in the novels.


quote:

Yet, there is the perfect mastery, or obtaining absolute obedience and optimal performance from the property as well. One can drive and drive a car, have only a small operational awareness and get a certain degree of performance for a certain amount of time. BUT, as we both know, if a man wants the best possible perforance out of his car, or his slut he can do himself a tremendous favor by studying his subject, understanding it and in effect esatblishing the perfect mastery of the beast, or his car.


Well spoken, and it definitely applies to beasts whether they have two legs or four (or none).

Just a perspective from the critter side, which may or may not have anything to do with either Gorean men or Masters.



I hope that clears up what I was saying now, I was perhaps not explaining what I was thinking earlier.

Live well,

Bull

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RE: Gorean Men and Masters - 5/17/2007 8:58:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx
I'll agree, but it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I do think I expressed indirectly it wouldn't be as effective as the latter example, but it does happen, even if not all to well. I like to use this analogy with that type of mastery style, it will work just fine until you destroy the spirits hope or until it is more afraid of something else than it is you. I think you can draw from my thoughts this would not be a preferred method of mine, I have though seen men that had girls that this is how it was, no emotion envolved, just enforced slavery. My attempt was to demonstrate the method is in fact up to the man, egffective or not.


Yes, you are absolutely right.  You can choose to do it that way even if it gets bad results.  If you try to train a marine mammal with force, they'll stop responding to you at all even if you beat them to death, and they will also stop eating and die.  Try it on a big cat and you'll probably get killed.  In dogs it can work but tends to produce unstable animals that are not safe to be around, and that don't enjoy being around people.  With humans, they tend to either walk away from the situation or they become broken and crushed of spirit, a miserable abuse victim rather than a vital, loving, well managed slave.

Thank you for the clarification of your perspective.

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