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AAkasha -> Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/15/2005 8:18:15 PM)



I'm curious. As a het femdom, I find that the availability of heterosexual femdom porn is sadly lacking when it comes to videos and pictures that really focus on the submissive. Because most of the people buying the porn are men, the focus is usually on the femdom -- and the sub is an afterthought.

I like to look at hot men in bondage situations, men struggling etc -- so I have found that gay male bondage porn is perfect for me -- for example www.tieguyuk.com and www.extremeboyz.com -- the focus is almost all on the handsome struggling submissive and his bondage situation.

What do submissively-kinked females look for in porn? Do pictures or videos turn you on, and if so, do you find yourself attracted to just the situations or the reactions of the sub? Do you look for a sub you can relate to? Or, is the ultimate turn on a very hot dominant man whose style, demeanor and look you like?

Akasha



Lepidoptera -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/15/2005 9:50:11 PM)

I'm a submissive female (and mostly lesbian) and oddly enough my favorite porn are those 30 second clips of hardcore hetero anal : ). Can't stand any other kind of video for masturbating material.

Second on my list is written bdsm fiction, the really crazy stuff you'd never do in real life.



harmony3709 -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/15/2005 11:49:55 PM)

I must admit that I haven't seen a lot of porn, kinky or otherwise. But I have definitely seen some clips or even a whole movie here and there that really had me jazzed up. The only thing they had in common was that they were similar to either play I had participated in or play I had seen, but not necessarily what was going on or what they were specifically doing, it was the attitude of the Dom/me, and the reaction of the submissive. I tried watching some that seemed like instruction videos and those just bored me. But put in the emotion, along with the struggle and response to pain that at least appears real, and that changes everything for me.


Be well and play safe,
harmony



PenelopePitstop -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 9:06:47 AM)

I read.... Nancy Friday or the Story Of O.

On the rare occasions I see porn that actually has some artistic merit, it's generally kidnap scenarios and the buttmachineboys. lol



femdom4u2besub -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 9:17:58 AM)

Tanya Hyde's series of fetish porn is worth taking a look at. As a female director she brings more to her films. And then of course being fetish in nature they deplict some very interesting and hot scenes. My personal faorite is Hotel Hyde...



darkinshadows -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 10:03:06 AM)

I do not know if I can say that porn 'turns me on'... but it definately has its advantages.

One mans porn is another mans art I find. Some of my paintings have been called art, by others porn - its all in the eye of the beholder.

Cheap 70s type porn is a complete nono when it comes to anything for me...lol

I like the old 1900s 'porn' - cards and pullouts and seaside voyeuristic flip-and-click.

1950's pin up girls are much more stylish and erotic that 1990s page three girls.

I love arthouse movies - french, danish and german mainstream films are much more beautiful 'porn' alternatives than the emanuelle type 'debbie does dallas' porn.

What does it for myself is black and white photography or other photgraphic artists like -

Steven Speliotis

Craig Morey

Jim Martin

Fantasy art by

Luis Royo
(My hero!)

Hajime Sorayama

...kinda gives you the 'gist'... my actual preferences go on far more...


Peace and Love

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fourpeas -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 10:21:47 AM)

I like to read as well. I read something somewhere that many women prefer to read rather than to watch... ? I don't remember where I read that but I enjoy that. I enjoy reading anything that's sexy. In terms of watching porn... I don't really enjoy it... most of it that I have seen is incredibly staged and I am more attracted to natural things... seeing a couple passionately making out in public or even animals, and the way animals approach sex is far more sexy to me, because it's real. I would prefer to watch a couple just make out as long as they were really into it.



sub4hire -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 12:06:16 PM)

quote:

What do submissively-kinked females look for in porn? Do pictures or videos turn you on, and if so, do you find yourself attracted to just the situations or the reactions of the sub? Do you look for a sub you can relate to? Or, is the ultimate turn on a very hot dominant man whose style, demeanor and look you like?


I've never much cared about porn as a whole. Depending on what time of my life, if you knew me you may say otherwise.
Although porn to me has pretty much stayed a constant...in my life. It could not exist at all and I would not miss it.

When I was little my dad would have the magazines. I used to love going into his room getting the magazines out. To check out the sex toy ads. I remember in high school a friend of mine laughing at me asking me why I wasn't interested in the nudity and only the toys.

Today, I will go to a strip club with my dom. I just adore rating silicone jobs. Frankly I've never seen a good one. To me a good one should look semi natural. Not like two balloons strapped to a chest.

As far as the male penis goes. Nothing there I haven't seen a million times already.
It definately is what is inside a person that makes me aware they exist rather than their exterior looks.

Generally in porn it is all staged anyway. Even in bondage porn. I have a few friends in the business of making movies. Good money but hardly worth it in my opinion.
There just isn't a lot there worth seeing.

As far as something turning a person on. It would have to be a particular fetish for the individual. They are more apt to want to see that and get a reaction than watching two females if they are not bi themselves. So, as far as that goes it would vary by individual.



kisshou -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 12:11:42 PM)

I can't speak for all submissively kinked females but for myself it is the situation that turns me on. My favorite porn movie is about a girl who gives deep throat to two guys at the same time, with some suspension bondage thrown in.

totally hot and yummy, mmmmmmmm


PS has anyone else seen the bang bus porn movies? are those girls really amatuers or am I naive?



BobcatsLilMinx -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/16/2005 12:26:07 PM)

I prefer reading to watching... my favourite place at the moment is the Forced/Non-consent area on literotica.com.
Regardless of whether I watch it or read it, I like seeing girls in forced scenarios... one man or many, raping, hurting, humiliating, enslaving (etc) a girl. The crueller they are with her, the more excited it makes me. Hard limits remains scat/blood/piss though - an instant turn off, the second it shows up.



Lepidoptera -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (5/17/2005 3:34:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BobcatsLilMinx

I prefer reading to watching... my favourite place at the moment is the Forced/Non-consent area on literotica.com.
Regardless of whether I watch it or read it, I like seeing girls in forced scenarios... one man or many, raping, hurting, humiliating, enslaving (etc) a girl. The crueller they are with her, the more excited it makes me. Hard limits remains scat/blood/piss though - an instant turn off, the second it shows up.


I actually really enjoy Taylor Rain, because she isn't one of those porn stars that makes the fake O faces... she's always got her forehead all wrinkled up- she does a lot of anal, DP, ATM, and really rough too, so for me it's like watching rape, because no one could possibly enjoy what those guys to her unless they WERE a masochist : D.



Janelass -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 9:58:38 AM)



I prefer reading to watching... i too am a big fan of the Forced/Non-consent Ihttp://www.asstr.org/ has many great stories. .. the kinkery the better .. most things i whould never consider doing in real life. but can be very hot to think about. ,, Movies just don't do it for me .. the mind makes up better pictures.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 10:29:33 AM)

quote:

What do submissively-kinked females look for in porn?


this submissively-kinked female doesn't look for porn.

quote:

Do pictures or videos turn you on

not really.....this slave prefers live action. the best porn this slave has ever witnessed has been live and thankfully Master prefers watching live acts or participating in live acts, to watching on-screen.

quote:

is the ultimate turn on a very hot dominant man whose style, demeanor and look you like?

Absolutely, and this slave can think of, picture or observe face to face no style, demeanor or look hotter than that of Master's!

quote:

One mans porn is another mans art I find. Some of my paintings have been called art, by others porn - its all in the eye of the beholder.....original: dark~angel


this slave agrees with you on that point, some of this slave's creations have been considered art or porn or pornographic art as well. but porn for turn-ons sake holds no interest for this slave.



slavegarnet -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 11:37:25 AM)

Oooops! Sorry everyone...wrong screen name! I was signed in as my sister sub...sorry Garnet :-S

Kittie
x



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 11:39:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: slavegarnet
I like the Angel and Spike pairing best even though they're both guys! Maybe it's because they're vampires, the writers can get away with doing so much more with them.

Angel and Spike play off eachother wonderfully...although Spike is a million times hotter and cooler than Angel.



KittieSummers -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 11:44:08 AM)

This was originally accidentally posted under the SlaveGarnet name...

I don't actually get turned on by watching porn. I like to read it. I like BDSM fiction and also Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Angel the Series fan-fiction really does it for me, though I don't like any other fan base. Strangely, as I am a lesbian submitting to a Mistress, I like the Angel and Spike pairing best even though they're both guys! Maybe it's because they're vampires, the writers can get away with doing so much more with them.

I also love torture scenes, which is another reason Spike and Angel are so good for me to read. Vampires are so much harder to kill than humans!

I also write Fan-Fic (not always Angel and Spike I hasten to add) :-) gotta love the stuff!



darkinshadows -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 3:17:54 PM)

hmmmmm spike - now there is a man who would make a great sadistic slave... ok, 'nuff fantasizing.... someone slap me...
[:D]

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KittieSummers -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 3:39:23 PM)

Gods! Now I'm horny!

Grrrrrrrrrr.

Edit: Just noticed you like Royo, Angel! Me too! I have loads of pictures saved on my computer! I also like some other fantasy artists but Royo is definately the best!



darkinshadows -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 4:02:11 PM)

Horny over spikey baby? - lol, ditto!

Royo? - lol, ditto again!
Such an iconic fantasy artist and a huge influence on my work.

Peace and Love


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littleone35 -> RE: Porn for female subs? What do you watch? (6/23/2005 4:29:29 PM)

i seem to be th th minaroity here but porn does not do much to me ti ould rather partcipate then watch it ot read it



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