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Sinergy -> RE: The Switch Reality (6/6/2004 8:15:27 PM)
quote: I was looking for long term 24/7 and She new that then one day She got collard and left~ I admit maybe all Switches arent like that but I was warned and did not see the whole picture~ I suggest you not take your own personal experience with one switch and apply it to an entire population of people. Switches are their own person, and each one is going to be similar or different from others. What you end up with in a relationship (my opinion here) is what is negotiated in good faith by both parties. And renegotiated in the future. Be well, Sinergy

MsAdriane -> RE: The Switch Reality (7/5/2004 8:45:14 PM)
I am a switch. I came out into the lifestyle online first. I have been RL for three years. I spent nearly two years trying to bury the submissive in me, because I was told I was not "a real Domme" if I submitted to anyone. Switches have a unique set of needs. I am Domme about 80% of the time. When I do submit it is usually only sexual submission, although I do venture out of the bedroom on occasion. I can not submit to just any Domme, she has to have a certain charisma, a certain way about her. She definately has to lean toward the butch side. It's not easy being a switch, because many in the lifestyle don't understand it. For My own self, I think having a r-ship with another switch would work best. Someone who is mostly submissive, but occasionally likes to Domme. This is My take on it, your milage may vary....

trueneutral0 -> RE: The Switch Reality (7/14/2004 8:33:26 PM)
LOL dread

Sinergy -> RE: The Switch Reality (7/15/2004 12:02:31 AM)
quote: It's not easy being a switch, because many in the lifestyle don't understand it. I would venture to say that being a switch it threatens those who are not truly comfortable in their lifestyle affiliation, and seek to beat you down to prove to themselves that such a thing (identifying with both ends of a flogger) is possible. To paraphrase, the problem is not that they dont understand it. The problem is they do understand it all too well and it frightens them because of what it signifies to their inner demons. Sinergy

suni -> RE: The Switch Reality (10/24/2004 4:32:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: knees2you [:D]Ok everybody here is what I meant~[8\|] Any new sub Who is sub/slave only,! Should not look for longterm in being collard by a switch. "Not gonna happen" Sincerely, eyesofAslave~[;)] [image]local://upfiles/19655/B8A0CBE805504CF19929B580BB27F86D.jpg[/image] well i am not new by any means BUT being Collared with a Switch LongTerm Does Happen ~ i Know bcuse i am There and plan to be . Respectfully , suni

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