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2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 9:21:08 AM   
shyinini


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I am serving my Sir with another submissive, whom I did NOT know.
Both of us are required to service His cock at the same time. 
 
During my aftercare, He asked if I in anyway felt as if...."i am NOT sharing my Sir's cock with you!"  Upon asking why, He said He thought that was my behaviour and my attitude.
I told him contrary to what my actions looked like, my thoughts were....OK how are we gonna do this?  We both laughed.
 
So I ask those of you who have served a cock with another submissive....
when you are both kneeling in front of the Dominant, both are told to service his cock and he gives no direction but to both do so at the same time....

do one of you take the lead as in telling the other what to do?
does one take the cock and one the balls, switching positons?
or do you just sort of do what the other isnt??

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 9:31:19 AM   
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For the situation i was in, i was thinking the same thing as you..."how do we do this?"...but for the actual servicing i can honestly say that no lead was taken, it was more a "tend to what the other isn't able to at that moment" *smile*

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 9:55:20 AM   
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For the situation i was in, i was thinking the same thing as you..."how do we do this?"...but for the actual servicing i can honestly say that no lead was taken, it was more a "tend to what the other isn't able to at that moment" *smile*



 me too!  What else could I do?  First time for everything !   

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 10:21:11 AM   
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This is why you need to have him explain his expectations- he can't just expect you to read his mind and that was a silly order to give without any additional direction.

Generally what happens is one takes the balls and the other takes the cock, and you can switch off as desired.

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 10:27:40 AM   
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This is why you need to have him explain his expectations-

I knew his expectations !!  Thank you very much. 
he can't just expect you to read his mind and that was a silly order to give without any additional direction.

Twas NOT a silly order.  I happen to KNOW WHY He didnt give us specific directions.

Generally what happens is one takes the balls and the other takes the cock, and you can switch off as desired.


Thank you for the last bit of information.  Tis what I expected would happen, but the other sub didnt seem to realize that.....
 
what would you have done?
 
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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 10:51:44 AM   
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I'd have looked at him, perhaps a bit blankly and asked "Is there a particular way you want that to happen or not?"

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 10:57:24 AM   
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I think it depends on what your Sir enjoys, also...I had a Sir who enjoyed licking alot more than either of us actually trying to fit any specific part entirely into our mouths. Its alot easier when your just looking for a spot to lick, not fighting over whos working on which part...

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 11:23:54 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shyinini

I am serving my Sir with another submissive, whom I did NOT know.
Both of us are required to service His cock at the same time. 
 
During my aftercare, He asked if I in anyway felt as if...."i am NOT sharing my Sir's cock with you!"  Upon asking why, He said He thought that was my behaviour and my attitude.
I told him contrary to what my actions looked like, my thoughts were....OK how are we gonna do this?  We both laughed.
 
So I ask those of you who have served a cock with another submissive....
when you are both kneeling in front of the Dominant, both are told to service his cock and he gives no direction but to both do so at the same time....

do one of you take the lead as in telling the other what to do?
does one take the cock and one the balls, switching positons?
or do you just sort of do what the other isnt??

Sirs cumslut 


Basically we both switched off, although my owner definitely gave direction by just grabbing either of our heads/hair.  But for the most part we either switched up or both licked up and down the shaft from our sides.  We also french kissed around the head of his cock simutaneously. 

In the absence of direction from your dominant why don't you just say to her, okay you take X and I'll take Y?

C~

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 11:34:20 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

Its alot easier when your just looking for a spot to lick, not fighting over whos working on which part...

ghita amati


He didnt give direction cause He wanted to see if I would be territorial over "my/His" cock. 
It;s how, he says, he examines the depth of submissive when with another unrelated sub.  If I didnt end up territorial and fighting over his cock but really shared...twas a good thing.
 
The other sub did do more lickin on the shaft.... and the whole face was a bit bigger than mine so staying in the middle was sort of...well would go up or would ya go down?  please?   LMAO

Would any body have talked it over the the other sub first?
Just wondering...
 
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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 11:36:37 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

Basically we both switched off, although my owner definitely gave direction by just grabbing either of our heads/hair.  But for the most part we either switched up or both licked up and down the shaft from our sides.  We also french kissed around the head of his cock simutaneously.  THAT is an awesome idea for next time...  THANK YOU  C~

In the absence of direction from your dominant why don't you just say to her, okay you take X and I'll take Y?

C~


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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 11:47:29 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: shyinini
Would any body have talked it over the the other sub first?
Just wondering...

I do, but that's before anyone's even naked with eachother.  This is after dozens of threesome (plus) experiences and knowing the good, the bad, the ugly, and a lot of lessons on how to make things go smoothly.

I think suggesting that how a chick shares sucking a cock somehow shows a depth of submission is really whacked.  Instead of having clear expectations, making everyone feel welcome and included and having it be an experience for everyone to enjoy- you're left hanging on your own, unsure of what to do, afraid of making a mistake and then if you look like you lunge for too MUCH of the cock, your level of submission will be judged as lacking?

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 11:57:01 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think suggesting that how a chick shares sucking a cock somehow shows a depth of submission is really whacked.  Instead of having clear expectations, making everyone feel welcome and included and having it be an experience for everyone to enjoy- you're left hanging on your own, unsure of what to do, afraid of making a mistake and then if you look like you lunge for too MUCH of the cock, your level of submission will be judged as lacking?


To each their own LA. 
Tis NOT the way you dom, tis NOT the way you teach, tis NOT the way you examine......   ....His style isnt yours.
Telling me He is silly and doesnt do it YOUR way makes Him any less in the way He teaches, dominates and examines me as His submissive?  
 
 
Have a glorious day LA !!   I know I am !!
 
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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:04:43 PM   
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Master directed for the few hundred times. then one day he just said to "service him"
we were well synchronized by then.
master's first test for me was to wait with him for his number one girl . i didnt know it at the time of course that it was a test. more attention was given to her and i had to serve her as i served him. the fact that i didnt becomes jealous was expressed to be what was expected.
one of the latest sessions i became jealous of his kissing her , i saw that he kissed her more and more, i didnt care if he fucked her i just couldnt get past the kissing.
kept me awake for hours. morning i confessed on my knees. master held me and said it was ok , will happen from time to time. i just have to talk with him about it.
bcause i'm in love with a poly i will experience this more . really helps for master to care and know i am human and weak sometimes.

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:22:49 PM   
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Back off, LA.  He told her what he wanted her to do.  She understood why he wanted her to do it.  She also understood why he didn't give her any details.  It worked out.  She's happy.  He's happy.  What else matters?  She was asking for other people's experiences, not commentary on the relationship she has with her master.

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I think suggesting that how a chick shares sucking a cock somehow shows a depth of submission is really whacked.  Instead of having clear expectations, making everyone feel welcome and included and having it be an experience for everyone to enjoy- you're left hanging on your own, unsure of what to do, afraid of making a mistake and then if you look like you lunge for too MUCH of the cock, your level of submission will be judged as lacking?

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:31:31 PM   
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Well when two slaves crave my cock, I make it a contest,each one getting so many slurps, yes they count and switch off,working hard to claim the "prize" that master will give one of them...OF courses they share Masters liquid delights, by swaping hot wet kisses ,,

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:33:08 PM   
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I'm sensing a real need for practice here in order to, um, help you serve your master better. So, here's what I'm willing to do. We can all practice on me. I'm figuring we should get a lot of practice in at once, so perhaps we should get five or six women together, and you can all practice the "how we do this" question, and because I'm such a helpful person, I'll be quite willing to let you practice different ways to fulfill the needs of that question.

That's just how good a guy I am.


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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:33:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster
Back off, LA.  He told her what he wanted her to do.  She understood why he wanted her to do it.  She also understood why he didn't give her any details.  It worked out.  She's happy.  He's happy.  What else matters?  She was asking for other people's experiences, not commentary on the relationship she has with her master.

Anyone who posts knows that what they say can and will be used in ways other than what migh be desired- you've taken that liberty yourself on numerous occasions.

Yes, in this instance it seems that they worked it out.  I'm sharing my experience to give suggestions for her and others who made read this thread, as well as commentary.  Deal.

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:49:01 PM   
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I think I agree with LuckyAlbatross on this one: a clear explanation of what's expected during the course of a scene or session can help to mitigate confusion in advance, or, where previous explanation is not forthcoming for some reason, then guidance can also be helpful.

If the scene was intended to "test" something, I would have at least made mention that that was what I intended. There will always be times when something doesn't work right--someone once said, "if you can't laugh during sex, then what's the point? Aren't we supposed to be having fun?")--but I know that I always feel awkward and inadequate when I fail to follow and/or meet expectations, and then find a lack of direction on top of it.

This conversation wouldn't even be happening right now if, in that instance, everyone knew what was happening from the get-go: a question of style should be asked by the dominant, in my opinion. (I, for one, am very particular about oral sex, and I can't imagine anyone saying, "well, you know, just do whatever you feel like.") Whose responsibility is it to instruct whom in this situation--and, consequently, whose responsibility is it to do the research?

Furthermore, may I stress the importance of constructive criticism?  Stating that a dominant lacks something in his/her style shouldn't be taken as an affront--to the contrary, it should be taken for what it's worth and used in a constructive way, "for future reference."


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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:49:10 PM   
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OOPS watch the language folks I just got bombed by "11"  for saying BUZZ OFF can you imagine that smiles..

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RE: 2 mouths, one cock - 6/26/2007 12:54:15 PM   
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Perhaps 11 is not aware of your affinity for Buzz Lightyear.

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