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AquaticSub -> RE: do you really feel scared in rape play? (7/3/2007 10:44:47 AM)
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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly
I don't think Master is really into the mindfuck type of thing. This is one thing we do differ on and I don't see it changing. I love it, I love someone getting inside my head and screwing with it.
I know that he understands what a rape scene is, but he can't seem to bring himself to do it to me. He knows he has free reign to do what he wants to me, including leaving marks, bruising, even bleeding, but he doesn't. I do need this once in a while, but I haven't figured out how to get him to understand it. I think although he can be a sadist, he isn't one most of the time...where as I am a masochist the larger part of the time, and want something more gentle on occasion.
I would even be all for him bringing another man or two in (even that I don't know, as long as he did) and getting them involved. I know that would put me truely in that mindset of being raped, and I am pretty sure I would love it.
I think when you are asking a man to do a rape scene, you should try to be patient. You asking him to do what his mother, his sisters, his female friends, all the women he cares about are terrified of having happen to them and what he would always try to protect them from. I've been very fortunate in that Valyraen has no problem seperating this from a real rape, but I can understand that it is harder for other men. From my understanding, a desire to be raped in play is fairly common among women. Perhaps if you got a book on common sexual desires and have a talk with him about it he will feel more reassured?
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