Domspaintoy
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ORIGINAL: Faramir It's really, really simple. The answer to "when does punching your sub/slave in the stomach or anywhere become an acceptable BDSM past time?" is "Whenever those two consesnting adults choose to." It's their life, not yours. I mean, the ludicrous hypocrisy of a person with the nic "Domspaintoy" carping at other people's SM kink, prating on and on about safety and abuse, is OFF THE FUCKING HOOK. It's a wonder you haven't been struck down by lightning. Safety? Hey, let me a make a wild, wild ass guess. One of you carping about this--I would never trust a person who wanted kink X--likes breath play. Holy fucking ignorance--you people think stomach punching is dangerous? You punch someone in the gut, your hitting their intestines. You'd have to really, really wallop someone to damage them. I've had about 20 Superfights/Tuffman fights over the years, three rounds apiece, and fuck, maybe 200 rounds of serious pick-up and sparring. I was trying to hurt them, and I know in those thousands of punches a few hit someone in the gut, not with their abs tensed, and nobody had a ruptured intestine. It's conceivable that a strong man could haul off and hit a woman hard enough to hurt her, sure. And I could slap a woman full-force, I suppose, with a locked wrist and break her jaw. And you could do electrical play near organs and hurt someone. And you could do.... Hey, listen, pot, please meet kettle. Everything you do, a vanilla person thinks is sick, dangerous, and if they were judemental like you, would think indicated you were not competent and able to give consent. You like being judged because what you do is different? You're just like a judgemental vanilla biddy clucking her tongue. Oooooooooo! dont need to say much more really do i! did you miss the question marks?. im not or certainly didnt intend to judge anyone, i said i wasnt my bag, each to their own, one mans kink etc. i am all for freedom of choice but i personally do not like punching, i believe its a fine line and all manner of instruments and hands have being used on my body in play but not a fist (unless its being inserted, lol), im perfectly entitled to say i disagree with it and is also said IF something had happened to the woman who had given birth recently she wouldnt be classed as not being in her right mind because thats how it would be presented against the man. simple. But then im in the UK Really, is there any need for such a response?. i asked a question because it interested me enough to hear different views and because i dont understand the reasoning behind it, also to me a punch is a violent act and i find it difficult to equate a punch with erotic and thats not being ignorant or cackling its being honest, i dont get it! To punch a female in the stomach/abdomen area is highly dangerous everyone knows that surely? it only takes one punch etc, thats the one they would pick over with a fine toothed comb in a court of law not the 200 odd others before it. im all for safety obviously but we all know there are people in this lifestyle who profess to be Doms that are abusers we have all read/heard about them and its those people or their potential subs who need to be aware its not necessarily a safe practice to partake (=take part) in. if i read many different views for punching then it may be that i may alter my view because i will have been educated by those that know, (i doubt it because its an act of violence to me). Faramir you may well have perfect experience of such activities but it doesnt mean you can shove it down my throat *grin* also you know nothing of me so please do not judge me or my nic. people should learn to read before they comment in such a vehement manner. But then theres another word for that .... Take Care dpt.
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