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Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/14/2004 5:32:56 PM   
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I was browsing through the posts and I saw a thread on chastity piercings, but it seemed to relate to female piercings, so I decided to start a thread on male chastity.

I have yet to find a safe and effective way of keeping my slave in long term chastity.

We have tried all the cages and tubes and none were effective.

We are considering a Goethals belt, but he has some back problems and I am not sure that the pressure in that area would be a good thing. He is also in the process of losing a bit of weight and the belt wouldnt be that adjustable, so it may be more of an option then.

We assumed the only really effective way to keep a boy in chastity (aside from the goethals) would be to use piercings. We found these http://www.chastitytube.com/device.html Chastity tubes which we thought might work, but they all required a piercing. Since I am not fond of the PA piercings I decided frenum and guiche would work best.

We went down to andromeda (local piercing place in nyc, I highly reccomend them) and spoke at length to the Master Piercer there.

He said that the tubes, and male chastity piercings are not effective because the skin can be torn very easily. Especially the frenum. He said the skin was very thin and that if he tried to have an erection wearing the tube it would still pull against it enough to possibly tear. It may not happen the first few times, but eventually it would probably happen and may cause damage.

After speaking with 2 more piercing experts, one in San Fransisco and another in NYC we decided piercing would not be very effective at all.

My question is, has anyone found any effective and safe way to keep a male in long term chastity?

I would love to know of other experiences with male chastity both positive and negative. I have read quite a bit on the subject but would love to learn more.

Also, does anyone here use the Goethals belt and what have your experiences been with it?


Thanks,

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/14/2004 6:05:08 PM   
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quote:

I have yet to find a safe and effective way of keeping my slave in long term chastity.


I guess just telling him "no" is not working? ;)

But to answer your question, putting a chastity device on myself seems a bit counter-productive, and while I have enjoyed orgasm control with my submissives, I have not
done much chastity stuff with them.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/14/2004 6:44:15 PM   
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Where oh where is iwill at a time like this..lol

Chasity seems to be a fetish of his, and I believe he has tried various methods. When he decides to drop back in I am almost sure he will have different options to bring to the table.



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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/14/2004 9:26:42 PM   
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Was it Mistress Marlena or just Marlena Bobbit? No matter, a simple reattachment and John Wayne was soon in a porn flick... no long term chastity solution by whacking it off.

It's hard to keep a good man down.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/15/2004 5:37:53 PM   
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As one who's unbelted record is three weeks, um, "No" has limitations. (The spirit is willing, etc....)

I tried finding the site, but can't find it amongst the chaff right now. Email this guy GENEO921@aol.com <GENEO921@aol.com>. The FemDom Chastity Device is real low security, but impossible to put back on without you knowing. It needs no piercing, and does not even use the balls if he has a high set you have not stretched to a normal length yet. (Ball sacks vary, guys, trust me OK?)

Like all devices, check it often. He may need to modify it so the morning wood is just uncomfortable not excruciating. (Trust me, that is important.)

I'll read the rest now. Sorry if I duplicated what anyone else said.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/15/2004 5:49:46 PM   
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I hate to disapoint you (and Mod3), but depending on the definition of long term, no.

Think of Gorillas. They have a problem at zoos because anything a human hand can do a Gorilla hand can undo. The same holds for any chastity belt.

If by long term you are talking years, and the guy knows it, he will eventually find a way. It may include a trip to the E.R., but he will find away.

If it is just one more day that lasts a couple years, and the guy is a moron and never figures it out, anything you tried would work. Apparently you don't play with morons. (Get stupider subs!)


If by long term you mean months, and the sub is into it, anything will work. (Just not just saying "No")

Excuse me, I have to go masturbate.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/16/2004 1:58:09 AM   
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There is a permanent piercing I have seen twice.

It's fairly severe, quite harsh, and has life long consequences (such as sitting to pee from that point on), and outside of bolt cutters, is unescapable.

I have yet to recommend it, as I think it's suitable for very few in all reality. Usually I merely relate it to watch the knees slap together cuz that makes me giggle, lol.

But yes, it IS possible - and as long as they are being milked - still healthy to some degree, though I will not fully back that claim of health.

Even though the fellows I saw that had it had them for decades - with no real issue.

Something about it just makes me hesitate though - I'm not sure why.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/16/2004 8:30:26 AM   
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okay Shade, quit teasing us and describe it already - or dont you want to have the fun of getting all those knees slapping together?

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/16/2004 12:38:30 PM   
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Is it the one needing a foreskin?

The fore skin and thvery back of the ball sack are pierced. A link of some sort is connected between them. I've never seen it.

Getting bolt cutters would be to easy, and please don't think that does not cross the suibmissives mind.:)

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/16/2004 5:11:54 PM   
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No it's a rather large and thick metal ring.

It enters through the urethral shaft at the opening, travels DOWN and exits at and traugh the base of the penis shaft.

If you got hard, your penis would be froced into a circle until it stopped.

Even if removed, it meant you would be sitting to piss.

It was fairly extreme.

Then again I've noticed that the most extreme players I've met in my experience are the older gay leathermen, so yanno, there ya go.

Still, I can't see myself having that done to someone - and I'm sure the doctors and nurses and such would have a field day with it to some extent.

It had been done on each decades before I met them, and neither had any health issues, but I'm sure there has to be some potential bad side effects as a possiblity.

But it looked durn near inescapable to me, and a thousand times more tamper resistant than the devices I've seen being sold.

Bit too extreme for my personal tastes, though I'll admit it was interesting to see.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 4:42:20 AM   
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Shade - thanx - and yanno it didnt make my knees clap together or my balls try to climb into my stomach - sounds like an extremists version of a prince albert piercing to me

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 9:50:57 AM   
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It sounds like a strange PA though I cant see how it wouldnt tear. I would have to ask the piercer what it is.

yeah... bolt cutters would be an option, but I dont think they would work on the goethals.

Have any of you ever heard of a belt made with kryptonite metal? The stuff they make the kryptonite locks from?

Or at least have any sort of idea how difficult would it be to make one?

That wouldnt be able to be clipped.


Just random absurd thoughts.

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 10:30:24 AM   
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Erm... I'm way out of my element on this one... but...

If such extreme measures are being taken to ensure chastity, why not go with a more time honored solution of simply performing a castration? Remove the 'root' as it were, and you remove the bulk of the drive?

Just a thought...

Stephan

(Shuddering about Shade's evil tube...thing......yeah...)


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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 10:50:03 AM   
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Remove the 'root' as it were, and you remove the bulk of the drive?


Removes a bulk of the fun as well!

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 11:16:07 AM   
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I thought that was why god invented D cell batteries?

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 11:30:18 AM   
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I thought that was why god invented D cell batteries?


That would imply the *bulk of fun* is intercourse Sir. What about the fun of torture? You can no long whip a cock that isn't there. Sure, it takes care of the chastity issue, but would you cut off a clit to deny cumming by a female? What happens when one day your want to make her cum until she passes out? Your *permant* solution for one aspect has cause permanent side affects for other possibilities :)

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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 12:22:07 PM   
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Male chastity has been an interest of mine for some years. I see you have found the Lori tube which is the most secure and least restrictive device I know of but it does require a piercing to be effective.

There is one other option that is very effective and is much like the front part of the Goethals. It is airport friendly and very lightweight and does not require a piercing. It can be used with the same person if they lose or gain weight. This is a link showing its construction and application.
http://ms.ha.md.us/~tammad/over21/chastity/umcd/

I have experience using the CB series. While not totally secure they are very effective if the scrotal ring is sized correctly. With all devices, cleanliness and prostate health is very important. When I was a keyholder, I cleaned and milked the sub every two weeks. Much to his suprize, he also found out that I could cause him to orgasm without using his cock at all ;)

Pls let me know if you would like me to send you my list of links on this topic.

Enjoy,
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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 12:24:31 PM   
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Why remove the drive at all? Having the drive there and unfulfilled is the point, grinzzz. By the way, drive can be moderated by administration of female hormones if that is desired. No need to nip and tuck.
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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 12:25:42 PM   
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Exactly!!! And a male can be made to cum over and over until he passes out as well. Such fun to do, WEG.
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RE: Male Chastity Belts and Piercings? - 6/17/2004 12:51:11 PM   
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quote:

belt made with kryptonite metal?

Lex Luthor made one for Superman!

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