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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/25/2007 8:30:20 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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To the OP..I think that when any ex of any kind contacts a person, they may become a bit ruffled..not because they are tempted to be drawn back in..but because as with an ex factor..they send a ripple of painful memory in an otherwise contented time..so hence you need to deal with that ripple of old pain or anger or frustration and know that it truly is in the past and can no longer hurt you..Tempting

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/25/2007 10:22:38 PM

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In my three years with my Master, nothing has tempted me away from him and I do not foresee that ever happening.

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 4:49:37 AM

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Considering you don't care about the man, you sure seem to be spending a lot of time caring.

Only an idiot would block LA, don't forget the best advice is often the least welcome. I can't imagine there is a poster here you could respect that wouldn't say the same thing.

I agree, if you are truly looking for sound practical advice LA is the best. Why have it on the boards if all you want to hear is your own opinion

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 7:07:10 AM

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It really hurts when you find that someone you love doesn't love you in the manner you had assumed. It's betrayal, short and sweet. But, bluntly: if you continue to choose men who cheat on you and do these things that you don't like, perhaps it's not the men, but your process of choosing them. Look at the common factors about how you choose, then change them. You'll never get something different if you keep doing the same thing.

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 1:21:26 PM

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All right i didn't read anything past the original post, but here is my 2 cents. I apologize in advance for all the male bashing.

There is a reason i am for the most part a anti-social hermit. Humans as a race are assholes and bitches that care very little for another and only serve to better themselves. You should assume right away every man meet wants nothing more then to have sex and will stab you in the back. You should always assume this no matter how long are with him or how much you love him. The reason being when you are with him you are happy b/c he has not betrayed you. When he does betray you are not hurt b/c you expected it.

Men please do not lie and say there are nice men out there or that you are a nice guy.

Don't think i am one sided either. It's just that this topic doesn't require me to enlighten people on the ways of women. Plus i will admit i am more knowledgeable on men because i am one.

DO NOT get with the guy that wrote to you. He cares nothing for you and is just desprate so he is trying to manipulate you.
Good luck, i do hope you find a man that isn't a complete asshole.

Have a great weekend,
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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 1:29:15 PM

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Why would you even bother talking to this guy if you are owned by someone else? Cut your losses and block him out of your life otherwise you may mess up what you have now. Why give a flying fuck what he does, he is history let him stay buried there.

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 2:54:21 PM

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I think that so far, everyone has made pretty good sense out of the situation. My thoughts are closest to Tempting and to Lashra...

Part of what kept you up is the "ruffle" factor: An ex coming into your life and leaving a text message or a phone message or sending you a letter that speaks of deep things that have not been discussed or even thought of in a long time ruffles what may be a relatively calm sea that you are on now.

And I told my um almost the same thing that Lashra said...my um was pregnant with what is now my first grandchild. She received a text message from her former...an asshole if ever I saw one but she could not see it at the time and still doesn't get it always now...and she was all atwitter over it. I told her that it was done...had been done...the guy had gone to jail and was now looking for a soft place to land AND I asked her how she would feel if her present guy (the father of my grandchild) was to be receiving text or voicemail messages from HIS ex? She had to admit that she would not like it "but Dad...I really loved him"..."yeah, I know you did honey but you are carrying this man's child. Do you not love him?". She got it...and proceeded to block him from her phone and I sincerely hope from all other areas of her life.

One thing to be friends...if you can manage it and have reason to be...another for things that should have come up then to come up now.

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RE: >> insert eye catching, mind blowing title &l... - 7/26/2007 4:53:34 PM

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I would not be tempted i have ex play partners that xontact me and i just say no. Like i told Master yesterday why would i want silver whrn i have gold?.

If i did not have my wonderful i would never submit to a master who is already taken. Why would i i want all the time and attention he can give me, and if he had another that time and attention would be curtailed. Anyway i don't poach.

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