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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 9:05:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

Greetings, NorthernGent.

Of course we can all be wrong.
The majority is wrong more often than not, IME.
Sometimes subtly wrong, sometimes very blatantly wrong.
What you are talking about is not spirituality, but rather simple, blind faith.
And that is a shortcoming that atheists are as frequently guilty of as religious people.



Hi Aswad,

Genuinely, I don't know a single person who would describe him/herself as an athiest, so I wouldn't know how they act/behave/think. A tiny minority of people I know are either Christians or Muslims, and 99% simply do not care: I'd estimate they have more pressing issues to deal with.

I take your main point, though: it's unhealthy to take any idea as the one true way.

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 9:15:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: StellaByStarlite

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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent


Personally, I don't believe or disbelieve, and I wouldn't say I'm athiest or agnostic; I really do not care whether or not a god exists.



Hello, NorthernGent. =)

I do believe the term for that is "apatheism". Which could be atheism by default. If we apatheists were to actually care enough to answer one way or another.

Cheers ( lol),
Stella


Hi Stella,

'Just realised I can't even spell the word.....shows how much I know about atheism.

If there is a god at the end of all of this, well, I'll be the first to congratulate him on his humility: keeping a low profile all of these years, when he could so easily have taken untold amounts of credit for creating the lot of us.

In the meantime, I'll continue down the "apatheist" route :-)




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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 9:35:33 AM   
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Personally, the religion or spirituality of a dom means little to me. I care more about whether they will try to force their religion on me or not. I had dom who said he couldn't marry me unless I was a devout christian (I don't have a religion) and in the end, things didn't work out. As long as they aren't trying to make me believe in one "right" path, I'm fine. However if kids ever come into the picture (which I doubt since I don't like kids), we may have to come up with a compromise.

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 9:38:18 AM   
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Religion matters not in my book! Besides religion and sex and BDSM or D/s do not mix. Case in point The Priests they continue to arrest as pedophiles and more and for sexually abusing women and children. No Religion does not mix with sex, or BDSM or D?s in any manner in my book and if it does include children or not, no kids , no religion please.

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 10:27:11 AM   
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Hi, Stella.

I'm not looking to poison anyone's oatmeal, atheist or not.
And it's only a low blow if he doesn't respond.

That said, I agree with what you said, pretty much. I have no problem with people who do not believe in anything. I have a problem with people who believe in nothing. You see the difference, I hope. Absence of faith is fine with me, on every level. Presence of a faith in the lack of validity of faith, however, is as pure as hypocrisy gets: it's a clear contradiction.

Do I have a faith? Yeah, I do. But I keep my eyes open. When someone is bleeding to death, I don't stand around and say "he'll survive if G*d wills it", I do something about it instead. If G*d wants him dead, he'd better let me know in no uncertain terms, or kill the guy himself, or I will go by my own understanding of things. I believe we have been given free will and a causually organized universe for a reason, and that we are meant to relate to the world around us for ourselves. G*d is mostly pointing the way.

Do I use science and rational thinking? Yes, most certainly. But I quite understand the epistemology and philosophy. A lot of atheists are choosing to believe in their prejudice, not science. Science is not applicable beyond its problem domain. It is an antinomy. To scientifically disprove the existance of anything beyond our physical world requires the ability to observe the outcome of falsifiable experiments outside the physical world. It is a contradiction.

While more of a rhetorical argument, we will be able to simulate intelligent life in time. If we do that, there will be a point in time when the beings in the simulation are going to start wondering if there is anything outside their universe, what created their universe, and why they exist. In short, they will be looking for us, regardless of whether we have interfered in their world or not.

Similarly, for all I know, G*d could be asking the same questions, and whether we are a high-school science project, a cluster of pets, entertainment, an attempt at answering the questions via recursion, or something else entirely, is not something I could even begin to speculate about.

I have my own beliefs about what things are like, but I recognize them for what they are: beliefs. A lot of those who believe in nothing fail to recognize that as a belief in itself. That makes it hard for me to peg them down as rational people. I peg them as closed minds that believe in their own prejudices. Simple as that.

Those who are without beliefs, however, I consider rational.

Whether someone has a faith that differs from mine doesn't matter to me, as long as they can respect my right to mine, and leave it at that. If they can do that, we can drink beer (though I prefer cider; beer actually does taste a lot like piss) or shoot some pool or whatever. Hell, I'm basically something along the lines of a Christian, and I've had friends who were Satanists, no problem. Dating a pagan? No problem.

So I agree that it's really that simple.


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 10:32:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Besides religion and sex and BDSM or D/s do not mix.


Raven Caldera would probably disagree with you, being a FTM priestess of Kali and a lifestyle M/s person who engages in tons of kink and edgeplay, lectures on how religion and sex and BDSM fits, and writes books about these topics. As would those who see slavery in spiritual terms.

You are allowing some past bad experiences with certain people to rub off on their group.

I don't want to be held responsible for what some wifebeating redneck does...


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 11:03:32 AM   
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Well, this is actually a topic that I've considered long before I even knew of Gor, and it's a tough one for me, regardless. I think that, to even consider someone's request to be collared by me, they have to be very open. If I cannot take someone to church with me, if that person will never consider learning about a relationship with Christ, then I'm not going to take them in.  

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 6:52:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad

quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Besides religion and sex and BDSM or D/s do not mix.


Raven Caldera would probably disagree with you, being a FTM priestess of Kali and a lifestyle M/s person....



Leaving out the BDSM element, there is also Tantra to consider.
 
K.
 

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 7:27:17 PM   
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Greetings, Kirata.

Thank you for reminding me. It certainly is.

For that matter, Daoist H'sien practices encompass sexuality, as well, though less directly so.


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 7:32:59 PM   
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A belief in something greater than ourselves is important to me, and it's something I look for in a prospective partner.  I'm  a Buddhist/pagan/Quaker melange, so I'm not holding out for someone who has the same beliefs as me!  Rather, I'm looking for someone who is low on dogma, high on ecumenalism, and who shares the belief that there are numerous ways to touch divinity.  Fundamentalists of any stripe (this would include atheists) would be right out.

Regarding the sex and religion don't mix comment ... one of the reasons I became interested in BDSM was the intersection of sex and spirituality. 

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 8:47:18 PM   
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Fast Reply:


Am I in the Gorean section of the boards?

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 8:54:30 PM   
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Toto, I don't think we're in Kansas anymore!

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/12/2007 8:55:03 PM   
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arf arf!!

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/13/2007 3:31:28 AM   
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Tal Orion. 

I think a lot of the replies were from people who came from the Recent Posts scroller.

That said, the topic is a valid question per se, but a lot of the replies are not addressing the topic. If you feel I have strayed away from the topic at hand, please let me know where you feel I have done so, and I will attempt to rectify the problem. Others will hopefully do the same, though there is some common ground when it comes to the matter of how people of different faiths relate to each other.

In the interest of bringing it back into context ...

Everyone, it might be useful to qualify whether your advice relates to Free Companions, or to those considering whether to become kajirae or not. Technically, those who have chosen to become kajirae have foregone the right to freely practice their faith, so any comments on that situation might be best to confine to the matter of how to productively manage any difficulties that may arise from an insufficient understanding of this.

I hope that was appropriate, Orion.

Regards,
al-Aswad.


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/13/2007 4:33:20 AM   
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Greetings

quote:

Personally, the religion or spirituality of a dom means little to me. I care more about whether they will try to force their religion on me or not. I had dom who said he couldn't marry me unless I was a devout christian (I don't have a religion) and in the end, things didn't work out. As long as they aren't trying to make me believe in one "right" path, I'm fine. However if kids ever come into the picture (which I doubt since I don't like kids), we may have to come up with a compromise.


Many vanilla pepole do this to, demanding their future husband or wife convert to their faith. Many religions demand it. i do not like it, but i do understand those that do. It can however ruin a relationship and that is sad.

i wish you well


< Message edited by nephandi -- 8/13/2007 4:35:53 AM >


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/13/2007 4:41:45 AM   
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Greetings Master

i am sorry my last post was of topic to. To stay on topic, for me the most inportant thing to make the proble of religion for a slave as small as possible would be to find a Master whit similar opinions. A slave is vunerable when it comes to religion as a slave give away her right to choose. If her Master demanded that she worship Elvis, ideally she should fall on her knees and give humage to the King.

i know it are never a guarentee, but i think one of the most inportat things to consider when a potensial slave are still free and seeking a Master is to find one that belive as her do about religion or that you belive will let you keep your own faith.

The question then becomes, if he do not, what will you do. If your Master demands that a slave change her religion to his, or some other faith, would she obey. For me, i think i would run. There i nothing more inportant in my life, then my faith, and honerable or not if somone threathen it, i would run.

But that is a dificult situation one best be avoided by very carfully selecting who to subit to.

May i wish you well


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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/13/2007 4:59:42 AM   
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Fast reply:

Oh I don't know, maybe just mention the word Gor at least once and it may fit the section guidelines.

Something like this.

Someone that identifies with Gor, usually has a set of virtues, morals and ethics of a certain way. Since there is quite a bit of those throughout the books, you should find a diversity of it in those of the Gorean culture. Whether these developed with or without religion, would not matter as much, as do those of the person's Home Stone have similar values and beliefs. Those values would bind them together. Even if the values are not similar, in a Master/slave relationship, as long as they are not in opposition, the relationship may still work.

Now if the slave put their religion, before their Master, there would be a problem. This should have been revealed and discussed before the girl begged a collar, and the owner accepted the girl as property. a slave of the Priest Kings, could not be owned by another, though they could serve them. Some may wonder why I mentioned the Priest Kings, it is because that is Norman's way to express a higher authority. It may have been an emulation of God, Nature, Life, whatever, but he included the Higher Power in the series, though I agree with Leonidas, from a post a few months back, he cheated by creating and using the Priest Kings as he did, but that would be for another topic.

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RE: How much does religion matter to you? - 8/13/2007 5:07:37 AM   
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Greetings Master

Thank you for your reply. i know this is something i struggle whit inside. my Master accsept it but for me i feel very conflicted over the fact i have to set my religion over my Master. i made that dedication to my faith along time ago and sometimes i feel it would make me a hyocrite or a very not fuctioning slave as i would always have to keep this part of myself for myself. Like i said i have been lucky and found a Master that accsept this but it still makes me feel like i can never compely surender and it do create a conflict inside of me.

May i wish you well


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