barelynangel
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Mons,
There is going to come a time when you will have to stop being a victim. You make yourself a victim -- no one else. Most of your posts here are based on how you are somehow a victim in some aspect. I honestly find it amazing based on the issues you have in your writing that you have not learned to ignore people who are not mature enough to work around it especially with as much as you utilize the internet to communicate. This is not the first time someone has told you that you are difficult to read. Its happened many many times over the years. And there are posts upon posts of your saying pretty much identical of what you have said here and the responses from people each time are pretty much the same. So why do you still let it bother you so much when immature people can't be adult about it?
You have been around these forums for a long time, there are many many many posts where you tell about how people were mean to you for how you write. People continuously try and passify you, they give you reasons for it, they pat your shoulder or sympathize with you over it, tell you how mean and bad these people were to you. But seriously, you need to learn how to ignore these people because you make yourself a victim each and every time you have to tell people about it. Your way of writing is not something you should use as a crutch, but instead it shuold make you stronger becasue of the success you have had in working with it, your improvement etc. If you allow these types of people to constantly bring you down or allow you to make yourself a victim of such people, you will forever be the victim of such people. Its not like you are new and have never had this happen to you before, its not like you don't know people say and do mean things in the world to people who are different, but the choice is yours on whether you become a victim to such people or ignore them and say, you know what -- i don't need to let you have an effect on me, my self-esteem or whatnot. There are more people who aren't mean to you about your writing, mons, than there are people who are. Perhaps your focus is off and you give to much attention to these negative people because they allow you to be a victim, than focusing on people who speak to you with no indication that you have writing issues. These people don't allow you to be a victim.
So its up to you, are you going to stay a victim, or not. Yes, i am sure you think what i am saying here is mean -- but actually its not. It makes me sad when someone allows other people to make them a victim all the time. Rise above your problem, mons, don't let it define you, and you will see that when someone says something mean to you about it, you will be able to let it slide off your back without a second thought because you will realize they aren't worth your time.
The choice is yours.
angel
< Message edited by barelynangel -- 7/27/2007 5:33:19 AM >
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