italianalala
Posts: 48
Joined: 6/10/2004 Status: offline
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Bob: Your question is confusing. Are you talking about the Domme's sexual preference in partners or are you talking about her role as a Domme and what qualities in a sub are repulsive to her? Her sexual preference is her concern, her private matter and has no bearing on you, the sub. If your question is what is repulsive about a male sub to a Domme, I'll tell you what I abhor. For a sub who is met online, his inarticulateness is offensive. Coming across as my buddy and asking me questions about myself while feigning friendship, all without introducing himself and sharing tidbits of information, leaves me cold. When you apply for a job, your letter of introduction needs to capture the recipient who is, typically, deluged with letters from many applicants. Paint a picture about yourself to pique the Domme and have her want to reply, post haste, to your application. For the sub who is met socially -- at clubs, in the company of kinky friends, etc. -- politeness, courtesy, charm, and sincerity capture me. Just be a gentleman. I will then want you. Understandably, it is difficult not to put your foot in your mouth, everyone does it! And because of our regret tendency, we live in retrospect, what if I had said this, what if I had done this -- forgedaboutit! Honesty, integrity -- write these qualities on your palms and keep looking at your hands. Sounds easy, and it is not, all of us suffer from living in retrospect. But a truthful sub is not repugant, a honest sub is not repugnant. My three cents.
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