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AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 5:07:09 AM

BIllCT

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Am I wrong in assumming female submissives all want to be loved, cared for, respected and trusted, as well as give the same to the Dom they serve?

Am I wrong in assumming a female submissive serves only the Dom/Me she respects and cares for and with whom she has built this sense of trust, respect and caring ?

And Finnally am I wrong in assumming that all of this type of relationship between a DOminant and Submissive takes time and effort to build by both parties involved?

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 5:09:41 AM

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well, you're off an 'm' at least, could be more, I don't know.

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 5:10:55 AM

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Yes.

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 5:53:20 AM

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You know that old saying about assuming stuff don't you?

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 6:31:45 AM

came4U

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sigh, I feel somehow that someone is in need of some dominant-handholding/leadership.

can you not find a Dominant mentor? in mail? or phone like an AA sponsor?

The questions are circular and frankly 'first kiss' confusion-like. It is a holiday here, this is becoming like work LOL.

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 6:56:03 AM

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I assume nothing, (or try to not assume.) It's easier!

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RE: AM I wrong in Assumming? - 8/6/2007 8:27:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Am I wrong in assumming female submissives all want to be loved, cared for, respected and trusted, as well as give the same to the Dom they serve?

Yes.

quote:

Am I wrong in assumming a female submissive serves only the Dom/Me she respects and cares for and with whom she has built this sense of trust, respect and caring ?

Yes.

quote:

And Finnally am I wrong in assumming that all of this type of relationship between a DOminant and Submissive takes time and effort to build by both parties involved?

And finally, yes. Any other stupid questions?

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