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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 8:03:25 AM   
ygraine


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ORIGINAL: akbarbarian

I haven't really interacted very much with the culture that sprung from them till now.


Never too late to find another culture to interact with.


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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 2:02:46 PM   
Sweetsubbie1


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Status: offline 		How to make this more suitably Gorean?...hmmmm Lets see here first of all You are the Master she is the slave. A slave isnt allowed to negotiate You tell her how its gonna be and if the situation isnt to her liking then her only choice is to either do her duty or leave....and thats realistically speaking. By You allowing her to choose You are not keeping her in her position as a slave. By allowing her limits You are allowing her certain freedoms slaves do not have and by her coming to You with this so called Manual its her topping from the bottom which is the biggest NO NO in my opinion.....and all of this is just another slaves opinion nothing more.

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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 2:45:54 PM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		Sweet or not, that has been covered extensively throughout the thread, and isn't really where the bottleneck is at.

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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 4:35:26 PM   
akbarbarian


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ORIGINAL: Sweetsubbie1

How to make this more suitably Gorean?...hmmmm Lets see here first of all You are the Master she is the slave. A slave isnt allowed to negotiate You tell her how its gonna be and if the situation isnt to her liking then her only choice is to either do her duty or leave....and thats realistically speaking. By You allowing her to choose You are not keeping her in her position as a slave. By allowing her limits You are allowing her certain freedoms slaves do not have and by her coming to You with this so called Manual its her topping from the bottom which is the biggest NO NO in my opinion.....and all of this is just another slaves opinion nothing more.

She's doing more of what I want now, just not in the obvious "Conquer or banish her!" way.  It's not what I would have expected, but I can't argue with the results.  She's been tricky to figure out how to manage, but I'm starting to figure out how she operates and I'm finally using that to my advantage.

< Message edited by akbarbarian -- 9/16/2007 4:36:13 PM >

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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 9:33:02 PM   
slaveofKaos


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Status: offline 		Greetings everyone,
  I would like to make it clear that I am not a Kajira nor do I claim to be one. I am a slave in the BDSM lifestyle not the Gorean lifestyle. As of right now I am just me and will not pretend to be anything i'm not. And for the record I did not write this so called manual to say here is what you should do, I was asked what I would do in a certian situation I gave my answer and then was told by my Master to write it out, thats all. Thank you.

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RE: Limits, safewords, empowerment - 9/16/2007 9:36:13 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Greetings jodi,

Let it end. Those of us that read regularly understand that the manual was for a particular reason, and kind of an experiment. There is no need to defend those actions, as those were what your owner allowed to happen. If your owner is in fact Gorean, then you are a kajira. You may be in training, or moving towards being a better kajira, but if ak is going to claim to be a Gorean Man, then you are a kajira and a reflection of his Mastery.

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ORIGINAL: slaveofKaos

Greetings everyone,
I would like to make it clear that I am not a Kajira nor do I claim to be one. I am a slave in the BDSM lifestyle not the Gorean lifestyle. As of right now I am just me and will not pretend to be anything i'm not. And for the record I did not write this so called manual to say here is what you should do, I was asked what I would do in a certian situation I gave my answer and then was told by my Master to write it out, thats all. Thank you.


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