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LadyAngelika -> RE: profiles that are too Dominative. can it be? (7/25/2004 9:01:26 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Sinergy
From my perspective, a person who nitpicks to that level would be somebody I would not want to have in a relationship with.
So true Sinergy… but I’m going to take this quote out of context to make another point.
Male subs/slaves shouldn’t settle for someone who won’t treat them right.
I am very much aware that there is an imbalance in the ratio of male subs seeking Femme Dommes and Femme Dommes seeking male subs. That being said, I don’t see it as an opportunity for me to be more of a bitch or to treat male subs as disposable. A woman who does this does not respect men.
I’ve often been told by my male subs that they can tell I am fond of men. This has not always been their experience.
When I receive a note from a sub/slave and he or she has addressed me in a way I don’t want, I firmly, but respectfully, correct them. Here is a recent example:
“I very much appreciated your email. Thank you. First and foremost, please address me as Miss Angelika or Lady Angelika in future emails. I am not anyone’s Mistress until they are wearing my collar. And by that same token, you are not my slave. I am adamant about this.”
… and it goes on to specific questions I have.
On the flip side, I do not respond to rude messages. I delete. Though I have to say, I haven’t received many. Most of the men who have written to me have been quite respectful. Maybe it’s something I say in my profile? I don’t know.
And a note on Lawrence’s ass….
Simply irresistible
<swoon>
- LA
<edited for a misplaced sentence>
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