JerryInTampa
Posts: 138
Joined: 2/19/2004 Status: offline
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For most people I know (myself included), Dom/Sub was something instinctual. "Learning how to be a master" would be analogous to "learning how to be a boyfriend"... that is to say that there is a great deal that you can learn to improve aspects of relationships (what I'm hoping you are looking for) such as communication, but not to teach you to be one at all. OTOH, BDSM involves a lot of play, and play requires some skills for safety. Certainly any local group has many people happy to teach. Beyond that, I've never been one worried about embarrasment because I "did it wrong". My interests are my interests wheather everyone shares them or no one. I like books for new ideas, and I seek reasources for better understanding how to perform acts or ofr better understanding of others.
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