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Who am I? - 6/29/2004 11:42:04 AM

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I am an ever evolving female. People call me what they wish. It really doens't matter what outsiders think anyway. I call myself a submissive female. Yet, only to my Dominant. I feel if submissive and submissive to all. Where is the special relationship you should share with your one and only? I was not put on this earth to do everyone's bidding just because they think I should. So, a sub to him and a Dominant in the world at large. Works for me. It makes me well rounded.
I run a BDSM group called Paddlers. Yes, being such a weak little sub I can even handle it. I say that because over the year's I have been told by many I am nothing but a weak little sub. Subs cannot even fathom doing something important in their lives. Yeah right.
In my group we discuss issues pertaining to real life. I do not discriminate like most groups do. If you're over 18 and have an interest we have a home for you. Whether male, female trangendered. Dominant, submissive or switch I can care less. You are still a human being.

I have said over the years. The day I die people will unite. People from all walks of life. From millionairres to homeless. People whose lives I have touched. They will reminise and get to know the person I was. The person with too many sides to count. It will be a grand day indeed.

So you tell me, who am I? A loving, caring person with more intellect than you can imagine?
A soft side and a hard side. Which side are you on?
My soon to be father in law passed away this past weekend. Yesterday we were looking through a retirement book his ex company set up for him. Each person wrote a paragraph on what (insert name) meant to me. Telling book indeed.

Anyway as you can see by now. This question has been posed at a time when all re-evaluate their lives. Which is sort of what I am doing. So, yes I am sort of rambling but hey that's what I do best I'm told. Perhaps that is me.

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RE: Who am I? - 6/29/2004 2:26:20 PM

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My soon to be father in law passed away this past weekend.

I'm sorry to hear that Gloria, prayers to you and your families.

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RE: Who am I? - 6/29/2004 2:37:43 PM

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Ditto on the condolences Gloria,,, hugs to you and your dom. I know he was ill for a while, and I'm glad you are finding things that *hopefully* help ease the pain...

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RE: Who am I? - 6/29/2004 3:06:08 PM

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So you tell me, who am I?

Gloria,

I am sorry for the loss you have suffered, I know it has been a long road and endlessly tireing and painful.

But for a moment I want to step out of the sadness, and answer the question.

While I do not know you personally, we have shared thoughts. I find you to be a very strong careing beautiful individual. I feel you have strong moral character and a heart that beats double time for others, in that you are there for anyone, even at the times it is you that need someone to lean on. I find you selfless and gentle. You have a beautiful mind, even if others do not choose to see it all the time.

You are in my thoughts beautiful one, and I hope that now you find peace as well.

My heart is with you today, and every day you feel pain. You have touched my life and I regret not telling you before, by allowing me to be *me* outside of the board, for listening to me through my pains and sufferings when you really did not have to, for offering yourself to me, if only just to listen to my own depths of saddness.

With deepest sympathy and sincerity,

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RE: Who am I? - 6/29/2004 4:00:14 PM

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I am really sorry to hear about your loss. You and your Dom will be in my thoughts.

You are a great person and we are very glad to have you here with us.

I know you dont know me from a hole in the wall, but if there is anything I can do to help please let me know.

Wishing you the best,

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RE: Who am I? - 6/30/2004 3:23:37 PM

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Thank you for your sentiments they do mean a lot. As far as his death goes. It was a long journey for us all. One day a weekend minimum has been spent with him since christmas when he was admitted. He had, I lost count of how many operations. Most he was given was a 20% chance of survival. So, yes emotions have been running extremely high for the past 6 months or so.
The funeral is Friday. We now start our journey to healing ourselves and our family. The road will be long and tough at times, yet we are more than ready to get on that road.
We put off our major vacations until next year. Never knowing if we would go and come back to a dead father.
We are relieved yet hurting at the same time. He is in a much better place. All of us can agree on that. Nothing was left unsaid, we have no regrets.
The hardest part is going to be making it through the funeral with the whole family there.
It's time to start healing.

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RE: Who am I? - 7/5/2004 6:16:08 PM

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I personally have found that I think that you ROCK Gloria.

For whatever that is worth tee hee!

My deepest condolences on your loss.

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RE: Who am I? - 7/6/2004 3:58:40 PM

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Thanks Shade the feeling is mutual. I have to say I respect more here on the boards than I have within any online community before. Sad but true.

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