pageturned
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Joined: 9/29/2007 Status: offline
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I agree that there's no obligation to reply to a message on here. Still, I think that there should be a distinction between messages received. A one-line one, a one-word one, a message that doesn't show they haven't even read your profile, a rude one shouldn't fall in the same category with a well-written message that shows that they have read your profile, possibly your posts, and that they have put some effort and some of theirselves in it. It should be different under a personal point of view (non-obligatory, but still appreciated, courtesy?), and from a "policy" point of view (creating an environment where people who send messages read your profile and send well-thought messages). Otherwise the risk is to favour one-line messages and rely on bulk. Besides, if no reply to a well-thought and written message is received, the sender might wonder whether you have really received his/her message, notwithstandng the collarme feature, and send it again. On the other hand, if you send a personal message where you show you've taken time to read their profile and to write something meaningful, and you get no reply, you're not compatible anyway, as you're not in the same sensitivity range. I understand that Dominant can be flooded by messages. But I have a question. Once you weed out the one-line ones, the messages that shows that they have not read your profile, the rude ones, do you still have so many? Actually, I have two questions. If you complain about being flooded by messages from rude, fake, superficial submissives, don't you think that discriminating would help in improving the quality of this community? The problem is, in my opinion,that you're applying to everyone the standards you apply to the lazy and to the fake. It's what might be called, ironically enough in this case, a "race to the bottom" ...
< Message edited by pageturned -- 10/14/2007 2:27:32 AM >
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