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SirMichealspeach -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/21/2007 8:01:28 AM)
Master is training me to cum on command. I am still at a stage that I need a countdown first though...the countdown has become shorter as I master one number He cuts the countdaown by one . Eventually I will be able to cum with just the code word. It is the ultimate in submission for me. No matter where we are He can start a count and I am immediatly in submissive mode. It has taken a while to get even to this point though. He started by having me masterbate and tell Him when I was close and then made me hold till He reached the code word. (Now I can do it without touch from either of us ).After awhile I began associating the word with cumming. He has found that using this brings me back to a submissive state of mind when I'm wandering off somewhere else(lol) like that ever happens.(lol) Sir Micheals peach

seangrey -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/22/2007 9:13:53 AM)
I have trained two to cum on command, and my current slave has proven an exceptional study. I can control her arousal index pretty effectively now. She can lubricate on command, and have spasms on command, and yes cum on command in about three varieties. "gentle orgasm" "cum for me" (your average twitching groaning climax orgasm) and then my personal favorite (cum as hard as you can for me) if she is in top for physically, well rested, well hydrated etc. this third category will usually result in a series of rolling orgasms that continue until I tell her to stop cumming and often in squirting orgasms that will visibly soak her jeans. God that is fun. She cannot stand alone during the third category, so I have to be careful that she is safe before I issue it, although if she is in a soft open area it is fun to watch her fall down and squirm on the ground. I use a two step candence command for each. The first is her first name or the word "slave" the intonation and intensity of the command will decide what variety of orgasm that she will have when I release her with the code word. I will be happy to discuss this process further with anyone who wishes to explore it. I find that this is an incredible tool for control and to restablish focus when her energy gets a bit scattered. I use it in combination with various other focusing guided meditations for many different training and conditioning goals. Sean

PhoenixRed -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/23/2007 3:51:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xandriasboy Over the years I have heard many Dommes claim they can make their boys cum on command. I will believe it when I see it. I can see how this might be possible with women, but men? I so suppose anything is probable in this universe. Yup, it is possible, but maybe not to the extent that it's been accomplished in females. I have an online sub that I've trained to the point of being able to cum after a countdown from 10. We started with bringing him to the edge of orgasm and back so he knew where the edge is and to be conscious of it, even in subspace. Then we started with the countdown. We're working on decreasing the countdown to a single word. It will take time, but I have faith in him. He also practices on his own with a tape recording of the countdown. Now, having him be able to do it without touching his cock at all? That's going to be much more difficult. I like my boys to learn that skill, but it's harder for some than others.

CreativeDominant -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/23/2007 7:43:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: piigwh0re My first Dominant trained me to cum on command using certain words and phrases. My current Master does not use this training so my training is no longer active. Do many Dominants use this kind of training? How does this training make the submissives/slaves feel? For me it made me feel completely submissive. I knew that at any time, where ever we were I could be made to cum with just a single word. I loved the control it gave to my Dominant. At times it was used as a punishment because when it was used repeatedly it would cause my muscles in my lower stomach to cramp. I was amazed that someone could control my body that way. I find sometimes I miss that type of control by my Master. I use it and love to use it. As LAM said, it is not always easy to untrain the submissive. I have seen evidence of this in a submissive I dealt with whose former master had trained her to cum on command and since he allowed her to be used by other dominants, it got to the point for her where any dominant...that she respected and liked...could make her cum on command. This became more of a problem for her than fun because he left and never "untrained" her and she had a difficult time cumming on her own when masturbating because she kept waiting for that "permission" to be given. I helped her with working through that and getting her to a point where she could cum on her own but she still found it a bit difficult. Elusive's statement is further evidence of the difficulties encountered. I prefer to train someone...if she can be trained...to cum on command with a specific word while also "teaching" them that it IS O.K. to masturbate and cum on their own. That way, it seems to make it more of a special thing rather than just a Pavlovian response. Not easy and it takes patience and desire.

breatheasone -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/23/2007 7:48:11 AM)
I sincerely wish I could believe this is possible...it sounds fun.....

Gwynvyd -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/23/2007 8:29:42 AM)
I was trained to cum on command... when I was a sub. I took those lessons and expounded on them to know how to train my subs. It is harder for males then females of course.. but it can be done. For males it works a bit differently: If given a time limit to climax with masterbation, say 10 mins to begin with and they have to warn you when they are close... then you implant the word or command at the moment of climax ( do this over and over) it is a good begining. Then you start dropping off minutes. If they do not climax within the alloted time have an punishment agreed to and at the ready. I find talking to the sub and urging them on with my own words and thoughts tends to help them. If they do climax in the given time then lots of praise, and rewards... Eventualy you should be able to just walk up behind them, say the word, and they climax. Or even over the phone. My girl is trained to do certain things, and have physical reactions to certain phrases... I have been doing them for so many years she doesnt even realize it. The phrase "In your corner little girl" instantly turns her wet, and gets her ready for play. Saying the letters P,O,P gets her back in line with how she is supposed to be acting and thinking. There is alot of conditioning you can do.. cumming on command is diffantly one of the greatest. Gwyn

LatexHer -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/23/2007 9:01:50 AM)
We have trained our slave/wife to cum on command. We find it is a valuable tool to punish her as well as allowing her to achieve explosive climaxes! ENJOY! Master LatexHer

shootingstar67 -> RE: Training to cum on command (11/3/2007 6:54:17 PM)
Once you are trained that way it is impossible to leave unless he decides to let you go. I am glad I am not in that situation because mental bondage is not something many people understand. I have seen posters here that seem to think we all retain control over our minds and that is just not so. Sorry. Disagree all you want. Judging from the responses I see to other posters regarding Masters that refuse to release their subs or slave, if I ever become so enslaved that I can not leave, I wont come here for help

ownedgirlie -> RE: Training to cum on command (11/3/2007 7:15:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: piigwh0re How does this training make the submissives/slaves feel? I feel totally controlled. Sometimes he'll toy with me by starting and stopping them rapidly. Drives me crazy (in a good, wild sort of way). I feel totally toyed with and at his mercy. I call myself his yo-yo slave, since he flings me out and then snaps me back.

twistedreality -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:05:49 AM)
Most dominats dont consider the pavlovian training. Check this out: http://ondominance.blogspot.com/search/label/Milking

JustDarkness -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:25:35 AM)
why do people want to untrain, when they spent so much time to train? (was it a bad decision to train perhaps?)

akisha -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:32:07 AM)
Why are so many threads over a year old being revitalized in the last week??

JustDarkness -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:35:08 AM)
Some people complaint new threads were not so bdsm related anymore...so they revived old ones [:D]

akisha -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:40:38 AM)
LMAO thanks JD, i forgot we're supposed to be all BDSM all the time or we get demerits [;)] hehe

JustDarkness -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:43:47 AM)
hehehe we only do 24/7 bdsm else we are not twue

akisha -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:47:06 AM)
i have a midget at home i can only do 24/7 on alternating weekends S

leadership527 -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:48:52 AM)
~fast reply~ Well, I for one do not doubt that such a thing is possible. My general feeling is that the brain runs the body pretty much entirely. You can train all manner of things you'd never guess including heart rate, pupil dilation, etc. etc. I see no reason why this would be any different. But yes, I'm impressed anyway.

NuevaVida -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:53:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness why do people want to untrain, when they spent so much time to train? (was it a bad decision to train perhaps?) Wow, old thread. But to answer your question - not necessarily a bad decision to train, but if the relationship goes away and the submissive has been training to ONLY have orgasm when that particular person has ordered it...what happens when that person goes away? This is why transitions out of such relationships is so important, in my opinion. I was trained to orgasm only when he wanted, when he wanted. And then one night - poof - he went away. It take a LOT of work to take control of certain things back, after something like that. I mean, nothing like masturbating while sobbing your eyes out because nothing is happening, and then you find yourself angry and sad and confused...etc. But, I'm happy to say, a person can retrain his/herself, with determination, patience, and gentleness with self. :)

JustDarkness -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:54:58 AM)
Ty you answered my question in your last sentence. Because when the relation goes downhill..the D proby will not untrain you. Guess you have to do it yourself. I was curious about that.

NuevaVida -> RE: Training to cum on command (10/28/2008 9:58:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JustDarkness Ty you answered my question in your last sentence. Because when the relation goes downhill..the D proby will not untrain you. Guess you have to do it yourself. I was curious about that. I know of some who have taken the time to do this. But yes, I imagine it's pretty rare.

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