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Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 4:03:26 PM   
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My first Dominant trained me to cum on command using certain words and phrases. My current Master does not use this training so my training is no longer active.

Do many Dominants use this kind of training?
How does this training make the submissives/slaves feel?

For me it made me feel completely submissive. I knew that at any time, where ever we were I could be made to cum with just a single word. I loved the control it gave to my Dominant. At times it was used as a punishment because when it was used repeatedly it would cause my muscles in my lower stomach to cramp. I was amazed that someone could control my body that way. I find sometimes I miss that type of control by my Master.  

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 4:33:12 PM   
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pig,

that takes alot of training and effort methinks.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 4:52:27 PM   
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My first Dominant trained me to cum on command using certain words and phrases.


Oh brilliant what was the word pass it on please.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 4:55:48 PM   
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That must have taken an incredible amount of discipline and training.  I think of Pavlov's dogs.............how did he condition you to respond so dramatically to the spoken word?

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:04:39 PM   
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Pavlov's dogs is the way that I look at it. If you have a submissive that is open to that kind of training, it is very easy. I was able to hold my orgasms until given permission, so when the permission was given it was a word or phrase that was the same every time that i was allowed to cum. The word is associated with the action of cumming and within a month I could be triggered to cum without any stimulation. It just takes using the same word every time to set that word in the submissives mind. Once trained it is easier to add other words as well.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:06:23 PM   
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Mm mm mm mm mm. If CoC works as often as we hear it does, such psychophysiological magic needs to be taught in med school. Never mind the HMO or the copay, and put that apple a day to better use.

Not to discredit you or your former Master, piggy. I'm only jealous.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:09:59 PM   
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If it is that difficult to be trained to cum on command, than I am glad that I am one of the lucky ones that find myself easily trained.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:14:06 PM   
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I have been taught to cum on command and I love it.  He loves whispering the command to me in public places like the bowling alley or at the mall.   It makes me feel completely submissive and it is a beautiful way to serve.  After years of cumming on command I find it difficult to cum unless given the command though which Im sure my Master also sees a bonus.  LOL 

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:24:36 PM   
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Thats one skill that would be worth learning.  Is your former dominant on this site?

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:27:33 PM   
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That is so amazing to me that such a pattern can be established.  I would have to say my admiration for such a close affiliation is tinged with a small amount of envy.  I am guessing there were some trials along the way that were filled with some failures and some tears.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:27:34 PM   
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My slave cums on command. Sometimes I tell her that she will cum when I touch a certain part of her body. She obeys so well.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:31:06 PM   
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No, my former Dominant passed away 8 years ago.

I am sure there are other Dominants around that use this training. I was just curious how many use it. I have known two that train submissives this way.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:33:43 PM   
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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 5:50:25 PM   
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Well, I've talked about it before on here.  Yes, I enjoy training a sub to come on command.  Nothing like it in the world.  Just make sure (for her sake) that you plan on keeping her for a while if you do this.  It's not always so easy to UNTRAIN.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 6:12:26 PM   
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It is not easy to untrain. It took me a long time to learn to cum without the command. It think once trained that way it is difficult when it is not used, I know it is for me. I know I will always miss my Master having that kind of control over my body. It is an awesome feeling to know that someone controls your sexuality like that.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 7:42:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: piigwh0re

My first Dominant trained me to cum on command using certain words and phrases. My current Master does not use this training so my training is no longer active.

Do many Dominants use this kind of training?
How does this training make the submissives/slaves feel?
My dominant has had sucess with this in the past, and is working on it with me.  It is hard though becuase I only get to see him every couple of weeks, though we do it over the phone also.  I do have to ask permission to cum with him, and when he gives permission he gives it in the way of an intense command.  I'm quite open to it because I so enjoy being so sexually owned.  It very much makes me feel like his good little slut to be working towards this with him, which makes us both happy.  Needing permission though is a bit hard on my pride, and distracting, which is frustrating sometimes, but it kind of goes hand-in-hand with the training and is also hot in it's way because of how it rienforces his control over me, but it can be frustrating.   I don't have any negative thoughts about cumming on command in its self though, I don't think it would even be humiliating for me or anything, even in public, just fun.  I enjoy getting myself off in public, the quieter and more reserved, and more crowded the place the better (libraries, seminars...) so it would be even more fun to do it on command. 

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/20/2007 8:15:41 PM   
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It was very hard on me when i was first being trained to ask for permission to cum but the training to cum on command seemed to help or i just got used to asking or begging to cum. I really love the control that it gives a Master over me.


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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/21/2007 6:07:24 AM   
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Over the years I have heard many Dommes claim they can make their boys cum on command. I will believe it when I see it. I can see how this might be possible with women, but men? I so suppose anything is probable in this universe.

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/21/2007 6:14:55 AM   
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Well, I've talked about it before on here.  Yes, I enjoy training a sub to come on command.  Nothing like it in the world.  Just make sure (for her sake) that you plan on keeping her for a while if you do this.  It's not always so easy to UNTRAIN.
So very true, I still have to ask permission to be able to cum, and I haven't been with the Master that trained me in over 2 years....

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RE: Training to cum on command - 10/21/2007 6:47:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: piigwh0re

My first Dominant trained me to cum on command using certain words and phrases. My current Master does not use this training so my training is no longer active.

Do many Dominants use this kind of training?
How does this training make the submissives/slaves feel?

For me it made me feel completely submissive. I knew that at any time, where ever we were I could be made to cum with just a single word. I loved the control it gave to my Dominant. At times it was used as a punishment because when it was used repeatedly it would cause my muscles in my lower stomach to cramp. I was amazed that someone could control my body that way. I find sometimes I miss that type of control by my Master.  



Why dont you ask your new master to do it, express that you really enjoy it and you would like him to use this control over you

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