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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 8:39:35 PM   
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Now, given that each combination has exactly the same chance to come up, we add the probabilities together for combinations that yield the same number:

There are 6x6x6 = 216 possible combinations from three dice, therefore the chance of rolling a total of 3 is 1/216, but the chance of rolling a total of 6 , just from the table posted is 1/216 + 1/216 + 1/216 = 3/216 = 1/72.

You see?


Yes, I see and understand.  But you're comparing two different things... on one hand the probability of rolling a specific number combination, and on the other hand the probability of rolling a specific face value of the three die.  They're two separate issues, with two separate probabilities.
 
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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 8:41:03 PM   
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Greetings Masters and Mistresses:
Greetings fellow slaves:

imho to break a slave is not just conditioning them to the Masters/Mistresses wishes, but is also used to help rid the slave of prior training, bad habits, willfullness, stubborness, brattiness and other things unbecoming of a slave.

by helping rid the slave of prior training i mean that what is right for one Master/Mistress is not always right for another, therefore the new Master/Mistress has to teach the slave what they like, what they expect and the concequences of disobedience, or inappropriate behaviors.

example: Master knew when He collared me that i have a strong will and was in need of someone taking control of my life, teaching me what is and is not acceptable in His view versus the prior training i had of just speaking my mind no matter whom i was speaking with. now i know that if i don't agree with what Master says the last words out of my mouth are "yes Master," or "may i please say something Master?" this leads to things being worked out and my understanding of what He is trying to teach me becomes clearer.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 8:44:25 PM   
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Now, given that each combination has exactly the same chance to come up, we add the probabilities together for combinations that yield the same number:

There are 6x6x6 = 216 possible combinations from three dice, therefore the chance of rolling a total of 3 is 1/216, but the chance of rolling a total of 6 , just from the table posted is 1/216 + 1/216 + 1/216 = 3/216 = 1/72.

You see?


Yes, I see and understand.  But you're comparing two different things... on one hand the probability of rolling a specific number combination, and on the other hand the probability of rolling a specific face value of the three die.  They're two separate issues, with two separate probabilities.
 
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That's exactly right, the factors and combinations that go into producing a particular woman, and that set where she sits psychologically on the slave <--- ---> submissive spectrum, are represented by the dice rolls themselves. Each woman is unique and individual, but different women occupy the same position in the spectrum.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 8:51:25 PM   
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Now, given that each combination has exactly the same chance to come up, we add the probabilities together for combinations that yield the same number:

There are 6x6x6 = 216 possible combinations from three dice, therefore the chance of rolling a total of 3 is 1/216, but the chance of rolling a total of 6 , just from the table posted is 1/216 + 1/216 + 1/216 = 3/216 = 1/72.

You see?


Yes, I see and understand.  But you're comparing two different things... on one hand the probability of rolling a specific number combination, and on the other hand the probability of rolling a specific face value of the three die.  They're two separate issues, with two separate probabilities.
 
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That's exactly right, the factors and combinations that go into producing a particular woman, and that set where she sits psychologically on the slave <--- ---> submissive spectrum, are represented by the dice rolls themselves. Each woman is unique and individual, but different women occupy the same position in the spectrum.


So what is the relevance of comparing two unrelated probabilities?  And how can anyone establish a slave/submissive spectrum that is relevant for the entirety of the lifestyle (making for even less relevance)?
 
I'm seriously trying to understand the issues here.
 
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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 8:58:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster

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ORIGINAL: Rover

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ORIGINAL: SixFootMaster

Now, given that each combination has exactly the same chance to come up, we add the probabilities together for combinations that yield the same number:

There are 6x6x6 = 216 possible combinations from three dice, therefore the chance of rolling a total of 3 is 1/216, but the chance of rolling a total of 6 , just from the table posted is 1/216 + 1/216 + 1/216 = 3/216 = 1/72.

You see?


Yes, I see and understand.  But you're comparing two different things... on one hand the probability of rolling a specific number combination, and on the other hand the probability of rolling a specific face value of the three die.  They're two separate issues, with two separate probabilities.
 
John



That's exactly right, the factors and combinations that go into producing a particular woman, and that set where she sits psychologically on the slave <--- ---> submissive spectrum, are represented by the dice rolls themselves. Each woman is unique and individual, but different women occupy the same position in the spectrum.


So what is the relevance of comparing two unrelated probabilities?  And how can anyone establish a slave/submissive spectrum that is relevant for the entirety of the lifestyle (making for even less relevance)?
 
I'm seriously trying to understand the issues here.
 
John


I know you are, so I'm not the least bit perturbed at the questions. The probabilities aren't unrelated, they are intertwined.

If you take the qualities and traits that make up any given woman, they define her uniquely, she is unique. This is the specific combination of traits that define her, the combination on the dice rolls so to speak. Each combination in itself is equally likely, (1/216 for three dice), but the combination of traits yields a woman with a particular psychology in the slave/submissive spectrum (the total of the face values).

The terms slave and submissive represent psychological profiles, whether those profiles are recognised by these names in general or not. As I said, most women are neither extreme, but are a mix of the two, and therefore the distinction between slave and submissive becomes blurred, and indeed less important, but when you step down to the level of talking about truly breaking a slave, it is important to be absolutely clear that this profile is one in a million, if that.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 9:13:27 PM   
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Ok, so I'm with you that each roll of the dice produces a (relatively) unique result, and that this result can be analogous to the uniqueness of a woman (or man, or anything).  I still don't see the relevance of combining the face value of the three dice, as that face value is subjective in itself (arbitrarily assigned values that do not exist and are simply representations that the six sides of a die are distinct from one another... my previous statement that they could just as easily and accurately be representated by fruits still holds true).  And that one can take this (relatively) unique result and use it to plot a specific spot on a continuum.
 
And there's where it breaks down for me.  It's impossible to define and distinguish slave from submissive without either:
 
A.  The use of fictional concepts such as "no limits", "no rights", etc.
 
B.  The use of completely subjective criteria such as "feelings".
 
C.  The use of vague terms relative to other undefined terms such as "more submissive".
 
In other words, the slave/submissive continuum simply doesn't exist.  So you're going to all this trouble to ascertain a scientifically specific value, only to use it on a non-scientific, subjective and vague continuum that in all likelihood does not exist (and if it does, cannot be defined).  The net result is a false portrayal of the subjective as scientific.
 
Of course, I may still be missing something.
 
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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 9:29:42 PM   
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what does breaking a sub/slave entail?


If one doesn't know, one is not qualified to do so and then rebuild her.
Hence it seems less than ideal to go into the details of the harsher senses of the word.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 9:41:00 PM   
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Ok, so I'm with you that each roll of the dice produces a (relatively) unique result, and that this result can be analogous to the uniqueness of a woman (or man, or anything).  I still don't see the relevance of combining the face value of the three dice, as that face value is subjective in itself (arbitrarily assigned values that do not exist and are simply representations that the six sides of a die are distinct from one another... my previous statement that they could just as easily and accurately be representated by fruits still holds true).  And that one can take this (relatively) unique result and use it to plot a specific spot on a continuum.
 
And there's where it breaks down for me.  It's impossible to define and distinguish slave from submissive without either:
 
A.  The use of fictional concepts such as "no limits", "no rights", etc.
 
B.  The use of completely subjective criteria such as "feelings".
 
C.  The use of vague terms relative to other undefined terms such as "more submissive".
 
In other words, the slave/submissive continuum simply doesn't exist.  So you're going to all this trouble to ascertain a scientifically specific value, only to use it on a non-scientific, subjective and vague continuum that in all likelihood does not exist (and if it does, cannot be defined).  The net result is a false portrayal of the subjective as scientific.
 
Of course, I may still be missing something.
 
John




I think what you're missing is a deeper understanding of psychology. Yes, the numbers on a die are merely symbols that represent a concept, but in the case of slave and submissive psychological traits, these are more or less defined. A profile can be expressed in a number of ways - for example, the Freudian system of ego, id, and superego. However, I'm going to borrow from Rule here, since the terminology is simpler and more precise:

Any individual person is , in their psychology, composed of three distinct parts - the Ego, the Soul, and the Ratio. To summarise briefly, the Ego contains the conscious awareness, it is the enactor of actions, the part of us that does things. The Soul is the part of us that has hopes, dreams, needs, and wants, it provides impetus and driving force to the Ego. The Ratio is the part of us that analyses, observes and makes sense of the world around us and within us, it is both extrospective and introspective congition. This is a rather simplistic view, since each component is then further comprised of other elements which in turn are comprised of still other elements. All that is necessary for this exercise however is to demonstrate that a person can pyschologically be quantified in each of these three different areas.

If you were to assess everyone you encountered in such a way, and the plot that data, you would have a set of spectra, mapping the correlation between different psychological traits, and the person that results. For instance, there is a spectrum defining the different degrees of passive or assertive nature. From these spectra we correlate the nature of submissive and slave, and as we move from slave across that band toward submissive we observe two things - that the plot when normalised approximates a bell curve, and that the dominant traits in Ego, Soul, and Id, vary in a consistent fashion. We can therefore assess a given individual into a relative position that they occupy on this spectrum. This is important only in that it can be done, and that we are concerned with only women who occupy that "left-most" position of 100% slave.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 9:49:26 PM   
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In other words, this slave/submissive continuum doesn't exist beyond a theory.
 
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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 10:10:08 PM   
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In other words, this slave/submissive continuum doesn't exist beyond a theory.
 
John


Correct Rover, no real continuum. My personal experiences with this sort of thing, come down to this. The ability to faccillitate. A person I meet has drive, and ability. The drive matches my ability to direct it in a certain course. I do so-watching for ambiguities and anomolies-depressing those I do not desire-and encouraging those I do.

As I stated previosuly-a simple conditioning process, based on observation and repetitve reenforcement. All humans do this-to a greater or lesser extent-it's simply education-no huge mystique there.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 10:35:06 PM   
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In other words, this slave/submissive continuum doesn't exist beyond a theory.
 
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Nothing exists beyond a Theory. Take that as you will.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/23/2007 10:37:28 PM   
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Not only do all humans do such things to a greater or lesser extent, RRafe, there is also evidence to support that all humans have some intrinsic understanding of such things as capture-bonding and the like, both in terms of being susceptible to it, and understanding how to do it. Exceptions exist, of course, like people with no empathy, but the broad lines seem clear.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 2:10:37 AM   
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what does breaking a sub/slave entail?

First of all one should never use the concepts submissive and slave as if there is no distinction between them. They are in fact complete opposites as to the configuration of their minds.
 
To break a natural submissive (or anyone else who is not a natural slave) is to destroy what is valuable, indeed priceless, leaving a worthless husk. Nobody should ever do this to a natural submissive for that is an abomination and even a sacrilege.
 
To break a natural slave is to liberate what is valuable, creating an incarnation of the Goddess of Slaves. This requires very specific conditions both on part of the owner and the slave and should not be attempted on a whim, nor by people that do not exactly know what they are about and have not been trained in this murder of a specific part of the mind - her tiny ego - of the natural slave. This should not be attempted on any other kind of slave.
 
As for what it entails, the procedure? My research indicates that the owner or master of the slave has to be completely reliable, to be committed and able to take full responsibility for the slave, as the person she was ceases to exist and she becomes an extension of her owner or master; as she will be utterly defenseless when she becomes an incarnation of the Goddess. The slave needs to be aware of his reliability and through service already have learned to rely on him. Also the slave has to want the transformation, preferably has to ask for it herself. (An evil dominant will of course do it whether she requests or not.)
I have so far discerned five ways to cause the murder and transformation.
1. Heinous torture - hopefully without permanently damaging the body. Presumably this is most effective provided that the natural slave has never been tortured before, as that would cause pain tolerance and require even more heinous torture. This is by far the most common way in which the transformation is achieved.
I have tried to find means that do not involve torture.
2. The Buddha probably experienced this transformation at the moment of his enlightenment, so it was a transformation from within.
3. When abandoned the ego may be reborn, resulting in two personalities in the same mind, provided that the two other parts of the mind have in the intervening time reintegrated. It is possible for the larger personality to murder the small ego-personality by some mental feat. (My murdered friend managed to do this the first time in a dream in which he felt murderous rage against another and inadvertently in his dream he murdered his other self, his ego; when he woke on the second day his ego was reborn again, as necessitated by the absence of a master.)
4. In very rare cases a master may simply command the ego of the slave to depart.
5. The slave might be eased into it, by learning to rely ever deeper on her master, evaporating her ego eventually. This fifth method is entirely hypothetical as I have only a slight indication that this is possible.
 
See also the website that I refer to in my profile.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 3:08:19 AM   
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I do not personally believe that method 5 could work, since the very last restraint is one that must be completey broken - and it is this that is refered to as breaking a slave. Hypothetically he could get her to the point where she releases the last threads and wisps herself, but from my experience it is much more likely that she will hold tenaciously onto those threads and that the further the ego is eroded the harder it is to breach the final defense. Most Masters will settle for what they have achieved long before it reaches that point.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 3:15:15 AM   
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I defer to your insights in this matter concerning the entirely hypothetical fifth method, which is why I put it last. I am merely a theoretician.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 3:25:57 AM   
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Greetings Masters and Mistresses:
Greetings fellow slaves:

imho to break a slave is not just conditioning them to the Masters/Mistresses wishes, but is also used to help rid the slave of prior training, bad habits, willfullness, stubborness, brattiness and other things unbecoming of a slave.

by helping rid the slave of prior training i mean that what is right for one Master/Mistress is not always right for another, therefore the new Master/Mistress has to teach the slave what they like, what they expect and the concequences of disobedience, or inappropriate behaviors.

example: Master knew when He collared me that i have a strong will and was in need of someone taking control of my life, teaching me what is and is not acceptable in His view versus the prior training i had of just speaking my mind no matter whom i was speaking with. now i know that if i don't agree with what Master says the last words out of my mouth are "yes Master," or "may i please say something Master?" this leads to things being worked out and my understanding of what He is trying to teach me becomes clearer.

wishing all well,
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Hi Aelebera... 
  Your post brings up other questions in my mind.
I understand [Master/Mistress has to teach the slave what they like, what they expect and the concequences of disobedience, or inappropriate behaviors. ]
  and in my relationship with Master ( i am his submisssive) he did this as well, through training, clear communication of his expectations of me and his rules.  I didn't come to him knowing what he likes and desires/wants, but I want to please and serve him and so I desired to know everything that would.
 
You mention having a  strong will.   So do I.  But not with him.  I gave him my control and my will and the authority in our relationship.  He didn't strip me of it. He didn't need to.
 
This doesn't sound so different from what you describe happened with you in yours...
 
a question Aelebera:
    re: your Will
  in dealing with others, the public, friends, family, employers, ( anyone other than your master)  do you still use your will?
 have your opinions and express them?  make basic choices for yourself?  a strong will generally indicates a good dose of self-esteem> do you feel you now have a sense of yourself as before ( your conditioning ) or has that gone away? how different?
 
I really am trying to understand.
 
I am reading what others are saying "breaking" accomplishes and, so far, I do not see any difference in their outcome compared to my experience/relationship> which for me was accomplished with no breaking me down in order to build me back up to his desires and expectations. 
 
 
 
 
 
 




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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 3:40:05 AM   
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I am reading what others are saying "breaking" accomplishes and, so far, I do not see any difference in their outcome compared to my experience/relationship> which for me was accomplished with no breaking me down in order to build me back up to his desires and expectations. 

You say that you are submissive. This 'breaking' of the natural slave is not applicable to a submissive, as that would destroy the very essence of the natural submissive, leaving a worthless husk.
 
There is no build up of the 'broken' natural slave. What is gone is gone and cannot be replaced, unless in the absence of her owner in self defense her tiny ego is spontaneously reborn.
 
The military and crude, unsophisticated psychology brain washing concept of breaking down a personality and rebuilding it is both sacrilegious and does not apply to what happens when the tiny ego of the natural slave is murdered.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 3:48:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: Cyntilating
I am reading what others are saying "breaking" accomplishes and, so far, I do not see any difference in their outcome compared to my experience/relationship> which for me was accomplished with no breaking me down in order to build me back up to his desires and expectations. 

You say that you are submissive. This 'breaking' of the natural slave is not applicable to a submissive, as that would destroy the very essence of the natural submissive, leaving a worthless husk.
 
There is no build up of the 'broken' natural slave. What is gone is gone and cannot be replaced, unless in the absence of her owner in self defense her tiny ego is spontaneously reborn.
 
The military and crude, unsophisticated psychology brain washing concept of breaking down a personality and rebuilding it is both sacrilegious and does not apply to what happens when the tiny ego of the natural slave is murdered.


Exactly, it is a transfiguration that occurs in a matter of moments, the butterfly emerging from the crysalis - fully formed, and beautifully splending.

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 4:55:34 AM   
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In other words, this slave/submissive continuum doesn't exist beyond a theory.
 
John


Nothing exists beyond a Theory. Take that as you will.



Ok, that's a bit too existential for me.  Let's go a step further and say that the slave/submissive continuum of which you speak does not exist, cannot be defined in anything beyond the most vague terms, is not agreed upon even in those vague and indistinguishable terms, would (by necessity) be relative to the individual making the assessment (rather than the individual being assessed), and seems completely out of place in any mathematical or scientific "explanation".
 
I appreciate that you understand that I'm engaged in serious inquiry and consideration here.  In order to wrap my own head around the issue, I have to understand it in terms that are meaningful, logical and sensical to me (if no one else).  And the problem I'm having is that this line of thinking relies upon the same illogical and nonsensical assertions found in any one of a dozen (or more) previous threads about "what is a slave?" or "how does a slave differ from a submissive?".
 
It didn't make sense then, and it doesn't make any more sense wrapped up in a new package and bow.  If you'd like to tackle that issue straight on, I'd be genuinely appreciative.
 
John

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RE: Breaking a sub/slave? - 10/24/2007 5:11:32 AM   
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Been reading with great interest. 

If I'm undertanding correctly, the claim is that there is such a creature as a "natural slave".  In this theory of 'natural slave'; we are talking about the "1,1,1" on the dice...the tiny ego....the one that requires being broken ~and~ will not be harmed by it, but will be tranformed by breaking through her ~need~ for it. 

Now, as stated above- this is the working theory.  We don't know if there even IS such a person in reality- but I'm willing to go along with those that have experience, at least for the sake of this discussion.  So, assuming such a person ~does~ exist:  what characteristics make up such a person?  How does she (or he) ~know~ they are such a slave?  Perhaps even more importantly- how does a Master recognize it in her?  If He is the One doing the breaking, He'd better be darned certain she's what she claims to be, no?  How does He do that?  People are wrong about themselves ~all~ the time.  It's certainly not very often that you find a person that truly knows themselves that deeply...

So...what ~makes~ a 'natural slave' and how are they recognized by themselves, and by the Master's that seek them out?  Without some litmus test- is not "breaking" a slave ~always~ a huge risk?  What if the Master miscalculated, and she was a "1,1 and 3" on the dice, and He missed it?  Or is that 'close enough' to a natural slave to not have any negative impact?  What about a "1,2,1, "?  I'm certain You get the idea.  Where does one draw the line in such things and say "aha, THIS is the ~absolute~ cut off point at which no person could possibly be considered a "natural slave"?

Sounds as precise as brain surgery, with no margin for error, and yet- seems wrought with opportunity to make such errors.  If a mistake leaves behind an empty shell of a person when applied to anyone other than a "natural slave", how can a person safeguard that only those that will benefit are put through the process?  

Again, I'm not being facetious- this is something I have truly tried to understand over the years...

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