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Hair Bondage - 7/2/2004 10:19:21 AM   
ahairfetishfella


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Has anyone experienced this most awesome or devilish form of torment upon their sub/slave? How long were they able to stay suspended off the floor? Was any serious damage done to their scalp?
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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/2/2004 12:24:13 PM   
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HAHAHA
OOOhhhh
the things I
could tell You
about H A I R!

I became fasinated with hair
at a very early age. I went to
the circus and A female artist
was held up with her hair. High
up in the circus tent, she swings
upon her whole weight, with
another person and all sorts of
circus paraphernalia, all hanging
by her hair. I was hooked.
Fact:
ONE strand of hair has tremendous
strength. ONE strand of hair can carry
a weight of ONE-HUNDRED grams.
Therefore, ten strands of hair can carry
a whole kilogram. Amazing! By making
use of this principle many hair Fetishers
undertake Our hairplait-hanging I was
telling You about earlier.

Ive done everything
imaginable with hair
and even sum things
unemaginable. Not
only have I had suspended
by the heads of hair but
suspended by pubic hair
back hair eyebrows and even
hair of a chinnie chin chin.
There will always be sum
breakage of hair but if it is
handled properly and taken
care of tenderly healthy
hair can hold its owners
weight. If you add in
motion then this is where
the time frames tend to
close as this strains
the hair. Learn how to
properly braid hair for
strenth and have unlimited
time frames for suspension
or you can always add
strenth by adding ribbons
and the like. Of course like
any kink it takes time to
toughen up the skin it effects,
and there will be sore scalps,
headachs, eye aches, ear aches
and proper care of these extremities
needs to be addressed as well. Its
just like preparing your area of
concentration. You wouldent say
apply a tat with out first shaving and
cleaning properly the area being
used and also tending to its aftercare.
after suspension check for any skiin
breakage or discolared areas where
a bruse under the hair line might
be forming and like any across the
body tend to it properly. Hair like
nails will show you as it grows if
there is a problem with it. Im
sure I will not have to tell You to
check the hair daily if suspended
on a regular basis.

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/5/2004 3:10:52 PM   
sadistic


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Sadly I don't have the necessary equipment to suspend somebody at home, by their hair or otherwise.

However I have had a lot of fun in the past with a pair of long haired ladies - plaiting their hair together, (not too tight because it's a pain to undo in a hurry), leaving them back to back, hands tied securely, both kneeling with their backs arched.

Hours of fun .. :)

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/6/2004 6:14:20 PM   
MistressDREAD


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Ohhh yes Sadistic
Double delite with
tangled treses must
of been a grand desert.
hmm a quick release
sounds like You were in
a precarious place doing
this as well and could be
caught at any moment..
~wicked giggles~

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/7/2004 9:35:57 AM   
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while braiding their hair, have you thought of incorporating the rope into the braid? - it makes for an interesting hogtie variation without involving the hands - just her hair holding her ankles off the floor

enjoy, and play safe y'all

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/7/2004 9:42:04 AM   
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quote:

while braiding their hair, have you thought of incorporating the rope into the braid? - it makes for an interesting hogtie variation without involving the hands


Now that sounds fun, maybe i need to let my hair grow out. But then i would have stay out of reach of MistressDread.

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/7/2004 11:40:54 AM   
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Hello,

While hair bondage is amusing, personally I get extremely sexually aroused by the act and sight of it.

I have done a couple of approaches to this.

1) Tie the hair TO something, especially around my waist level. In the martial arts this is referred to as a "head control" since a person whose head is locked in a specific place cannot move. Since their arms and legs are free, the mental effect of doing this on the person tied is rather interesting to hear described. Throw in a blindfold. It is all good.

2) Braid the hair into rope bondage. This especially works for me if the head is pulled way back and braided in place.

As I normally state, this is just me and I could be wrong, but there ya go.

Sinergy

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/18/2004 9:13:57 AM   
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My first serious girlfriend, Susan, and the first woman I start to explore my interest in D/s with entered into a formal contractual D/s relationship with a couple in Phoenix. The first thing they did to her was ritually shave all her hair off. She knew that this would be a difficult thing for her but she had no idea of the impact on her of such an act of surrender.

If you consider it body modification, it is the most superficial but the most emotionally impactful especially in our culture. She said it was like going into the army or a new religious order or even prison. It was a radical departure from who she knew herself to be even though she had been pursuing her interest in D/s for almost 20 years. When she first saw herself she resembled one of those Collaborators punished by Dutch resistance from World War II. Further, she told me she had never felt so vulnerable or without identity and that is was both a scary and liberating feeling. To further augment this sense of shifting identities her new owners purchased an array of wigs so they could have a redhead or brunette or blonde or blue haired slave.

Susan works as a teacher so they shaved her at the beginning of summer. By fall she did have a very stylish new short coiffure for the new school year. She said the whole experience was very emotional and humbling. In deference to me, her first Dominant, she did send me a lock of her hair. At least I possess a part of her.

I would be interested in people's comments and perspectives and experiences, both of submissives' and Dominants', on the ritual shaving of a submissive.


G de W

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/19/2004 3:58:46 AM   
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I love the idea of having my hair braided with another woman's, with us being unable to move away from each other. Then perhaps with some fun play

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/19/2004 8:51:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gaulthier

My first serious girlfriend, Susan, and the first woman I start to explore my interest in D/s with entered into a formal contractual D/s relationship with a couple in Phoenix. The first thing they did to her was ritually shave all her hair off. She knew that this would be a difficult thing for her but she had no idea of the impact on her of such an act of surrender.


I've had two men ask to shave my head in the last year. My response: Marry me and I will. And I meant it. Neither took me up on the offer :-)

I've been from long hair to very short hair over time. Attached is a photo from the short phase.
If I did this right, this link shows the current length:
http://www.collarme.com/forum/upfiles/32189/A33FB0A3E8274A31B870B21D9357DFCA.jpg

I'd like to think with the ups & downs I've tried that going bald would not phase me too much, but I know it could not predict my reaction totally. It's tied to self esteem... truly believing that you are attractive, wanted, loved, no matter the length of your hair. Many women are brought up with brain washing like "I won't love you any more if you cut your hair". I was. I've tried to leave that behind.

Going bald would be edge play for me. But I can see from your description how it would cement a relationship -- or possibly destroy it if the person shaved couldn't handle the extreme.

thank you for an informative post.

--bailey




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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/19/2004 11:56:05 PM   
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I have seen a number of female submissive profiles where they state one of their 'interests' is having their head shaved/shaving their head

while I might do this as a punishment (something along the lines of humbling a slave who has grown too 'haughty' for her position), I have something of a long hair fetish (goes back to a crush I had on my one cousin when i was about 8 - she had long straight hair - and also ties in with my preference/fetish for asian women [who usually have long straight hair]), so for me, the longer the subs hair, the better - it is just too much fun to wrap your hand in and around a nice thick hank of hair to pull her head back, exposing the soft frontal parts of her neck (to make her feel vulnerable, if that is your desire), or to lead her around with, or whatever

on the other hand, I feel that the only hair a woman should have is on her head, her eyelashes, and her eyebrows, but thats just me (again, my fetish for 'bare floors') - and a bonus to having her shaved bare 'down there' is you dont have to worry about the carpet matching the curtains [or collar matching the cuffs if you prefer] if she is not a 'natural' whatever colour her hair is

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/21/2004 7:58:31 AM   
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Dear Bailey,

Thank you for your comments. I agree that there must be a very strong commitment before either the Dominant can request or order the submissive to shave her head or that she agrees to submits to being shaved. Susan, was in a committed relationship with the couple for a few years before entering into her service as a their slave and before they shaved her hair.

When we talked about it months after the event and after she had time to process the whole experience, Susan did say she felt like a part of her was destroyed or at least left behind. Her whole conversation about self-esteem and femininity was altered. In fact, her identity was altered. But at the same time, she assured me, that she blossomed as a submissive.

My experience of her was that she had definitely changed. Where once she was bratty, a bit defensive, opinionated and stubborn now she was confident, self assured, very comfortable sexually, and loving. She was no longer the cute coed I dated in college but a beautiful and sexy woman who happened to be a slave.

I have never made such a request of a submissive. For me, I am fascinated by the idea, not just because of the edginess or the sense of power, but by the profound sense of intimacy and trust that would allow a submissive to give herself so freely and completely. There definitely would have to be a deep relationship between Dominant and submissive. Much like in your anecdote, My Summer Vacation, which I enjoyed reading.

G de W

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/21/2004 8:34:40 AM   
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Actually yes. We are a married Mistress & Master with an incurable long hair fetish. Suspension as well as intricate hair weaving with chain, rope, cord as well as flogger tresses are a few of the hair sessions we really enjoy.

The longer hair (as we have) the better...

Diva & Daddy
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http://www.deliciousdecadence.com/

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RE: Hair Bondage - 7/21/2004 7:36:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gaulthier

Dear Bailey,

Thank you for your comments. I agree that there must be a very strong commitment before either the Dominant can request or order the submissive to shave her head or that she agrees to submits to being shaved.

Susan did say she felt like a part of her was destroyed or at least left behind. Her whole conversation about self-esteem and femininity was altered. In fact, her identity was altered. But at the same time, she assured me, that she blossomed as a submissive <snip> now she was confident, self assured, very comfortable sexually, and loving. She was no longer the cute coed I dated in college but a beautiful and sexy woman who happened to be a slave.


That which does not kill you makes you stronger.

I do believe that losing part of yourself, coming through it, and seeing first hand that those close to you love you regardless has to positively affect on your self-esteem. That is why, when given the option with the right person at the right time, I would also agree to being shaved bald. Your description of the changes above reinforce that decision.

quote:


There definitely would have to be a deep relationship between Dominant and submissive. Much like in your anecdote, My Summer Vacation, which I enjoyed reading.


That is a very new relationship, and no matter how giddy I am with Lawrence at the moment, it's not at a "shave me bald" level. Yet.

Trust is built in small steps and risks that begin in a limited range then expand. At least for me. Letting a man cut off my clothes and restrain me for impact play in a public play space felt like a very, very low risk situation to me.

Now, when he pulled the motorcycle behind an adandoned warehouse at 1am the following evening and told me wanted to tie me to the bike.... I had to think very hard about where my level of trust was. I believe my intial response was, "well, if you are looking for a place to hide the body, this would work nicely".

But: I had verified his ID and left that information with a good friend who expected to hear from me he next day - or he'd call the cops AND Lawrence had just taken me to the local bar where he's a regular and introduced me to his friends. I thought he'd have to be nuts to snuff me under the circumstances... but I did think about it before saying yes.

--bailey

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