goodgirl08
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My best friends know about it, although some know the extent more than others. So, there are 8 people in my life who know I'm into this nasty shit . Only one knows that I am actually being trained as a slave. It was really important to me to 'come out' about being kinky, because I have trouble not being honest with people close to me. I feel alienated if I'm skirting around the truth too much. So, my closest friends know that A) I met someone on the internet and B) we have a kinky relationship. I feel that they do not yet need to know the full extent of it, but it felt REALLY good to talk about it. I'm a senior in college and I feel like my friendships are cemented enough, and that we all know enough crazy shit about each other, for me to 'come out' about this. Some I told just recently, some have known for a long time. Their only worry was that I would be careful, and a couple of them shared similar desires. So how cool is that! It did a lot for me in terms of not feeling isolated and slipping too much into my own little universe, which I am sometimes prone to do without the right tools to combat it. It helps that we live in an environment where people define themselves in all kinds of unconventional ways that might make you go "what?" for a second, but you love them anyway. I know transgendered/transsexual/gender-rejecting people, gay Catholics, full time students who moonlight as strippers or dominatrixes, bisexual polyamorists with ambitions of being a Buddhist monk, everything you could imagine. It's just kind of accepted here that being a total weirdo is unrelated to being a good person/friend. Family is different, things are more unspoken there. I know from looking at our internet history that my kinks are apparently hereditary...gross! At least my parents are having fun . I think it would be a lot harder to tell them. To the OP, I hope you can find at least 1 person to talk to, maybe just start with one at first instead of making it a big production. Like I said, it can really help you to feel less isolated in the lifestyle.
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