perverseangelic -> RE: Why do sub/slaves not want to be called what they have declared they are? (8/6/2005 8:05:00 PM)
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Well, I am -not- a slave, a submissive, or a sub. I don't want to be called by those names because they don't fit me. My submission to my partner is NOT my rank. Submission, to me, isn't a rank. It's an identity. I am not in the submisisve role to everyone, nor do I have the desire to be. Some people like the identity of "slave" as "below everyone, in a service possition to everyone, respectful and obedient to everyone--owned by one." I can understand that, but it isn't who I am and doesnt' appeal to me. As such, I prefer NOT to be called by a title that implies a service possition by someone who I do not serve. Additionally, to me, "slave" "sub" "submissive" etc, to me, mean a very spesific idenitty and type of relationship interaction. They don't suit me, nor my relationship, so I don't use them, and to be called such results in me politely telling the person in question that I am not a slave/sub/submissive and would prefer to be called by my name. I chose "slave" on collarme, because it's one of the few options I've got.
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