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2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 8:06:32 AM

littleone35

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I read that one of the girls her had 2 Masters. I was wondering how that works i always thought a sub/slave can only serve 1 Master.
Was i mistaken on that? I mean i see nothing wrong with it if they are happy (not that i would mater if i did anyway) i am just a little confused i guess.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 8:13:04 AM

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I read that one of the girls her had 2 Masters. I was wondering how that works i always thought a sub/slave can only serve 1 Master.
Was i mistaken on that? I mean i see nothing wrong with it if they are happy (not that i would mater if i did anyway) i am just a little confused i guess.

littleone

Here's a good rule- if you can imagine it, people out there are living it and very happy about it.

I was owned by a married couple for a year, they are both dominants. There are other slaves here who currently have two masters as well, check out the poly boards.

Serving more than one person is generally a matter of prioritization and time-management, most people serve more than one thing/person at a time (analogy: being a good parent to more than one child at a time).

Even though I am poly, before I was owned by the couple I didn't really "get it" or how it would be possible to have more than one owner at a time. But now I know it's actually pretty cool if the people involved know how to work it out together.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 8:13:28 AM

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quote:

I read that one of the girls her had 2 Masters. I was wondering how that works i always thought a sub/slave can only serve 1 Master.
Was i mistaken on that? I mean i see nothing wrong with it if they are happy (not that i would mater if i did anyway) i am just a little confused i guess.

I'd think it would be the same in a poly union. You are...well somebody is obeying more than one.

The only times it would'nt work out is when you are with someone who doesn't want to share. Or someone who cares so much about you they take up all of your time themselves.
There are a lot of people on both sides of the coin.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 8:13:43 AM

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Hello There,
Leather Families come in many shapes and sizes. I think as long as her Masters communicate together about her time it could be a wonderful situation for all three. Just like other sub/slaves can benefit from a poly family I think the Dom/Dommes can also benefit from having others in their homes on their side of the perspective.
No matter if you Dom or Sub you still are people, and I think there's no reason why a situation with two tops one bottom wouldn't work.

Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 8:24:13 AM

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I will go out on a limb and guess that it is I you are speaking of, littleone35!

Yes, I have two Masters, and yes, that is way far away from whatever could be considered normal. Yes, I imagine there will be howls of protest that I can only serve One. Yes, we are happy.

The way it works is that these men and I are the best of friends. They call themselves Statler and Waldorf, like the two grouchy old Muppets, they work at the same VA hospital, although not in the same building, they share a lot of the same interests and hobbies. Both of them have played with BDSM before, and although their tastes are a little different, we all share the same hard limits.

Often they will discuss what to do with me, usually when One will be coming home from work while the Other has the day off. "How will you want her?" is a common question. I get plenty of attention and hard use, then some aftercare for Round Two! I love it. Who wouldn't? These are the times when I am absolutely pushed to the limit - when One has used me most of the day and tires, the Other comes along, fresh and ready to roll, and I have to keep up no matter what. There are many days where their work schedules are opposite, and I serve one at a time. There are more days where we are all living as casually as a group of college room-mates.

One I married, about 19 years ago. The Other we both met over 6 years ago, and we all just clicked. There seems to be the idea that a Master can have all the slaves or subbies he wants, and that is fine - all I can tell you for certain is that all of our emotional/sexual needs are met in this weirdo set-up.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 12:18:56 PM

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yes Cheree i was talking about you and it is a different set up but it works for you. I am glad you cleard it up for me it is a litter clearer.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 4:09:50 PM

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My wife and I have 1 full time sub and one part time sub (we enjoy her but have chosen to let her find her soulmate, but when she is not looking ....;) We share nicely when we have to. Our kIT'N serves us both, without question and so far we have had no problems what-so-ever. "Never tamper with what works" I always say.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/8/2005 4:24:42 PM

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i belive it is possible, to have a slave or sub have more than one Master, i think it might need a bit of work, and atention of comunication and such, but basicaly it should work quite well, in my opinion, but then what do i know, i have never tried.

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RE: 2 Masters?? - 8/10/2005 10:33:17 PM

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Not a "weirdo set-up" at all, darling, you're just a very lucky girl! i've been there too with two masters, and i simply ADORED it. Now my triangle has evolved into a hexagon, and i'm discovering it's even more spectacular in some brand-new and unexpected ways. So rock on, babe, it sounds like you've found your master plan, so just hang on tight! Life really can be wonderful, can't it?

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