Heartisan
Posts: 21
Joined: 10/21/2007 From: Denver, CO Status: offline
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I agree with everyone who said that subs need to take their own safety into their own hands. The need information on how to trust instincts, set up safety protocols, etc and not simply be told that this or that person is dangerous. Personally, if I meet someone real life, and I know someonw who knows that person personally, I will ask opinions, but then I will take the varied opinions (considering who they are from) and add my own observations and my instincts and make my own conclusion. I used to have a chatroom for subs where they could learn the safety things and even set up safe calls with some of us. I heard a lot of bad stories about experiences... but usually somewhere in the midst of the story would be "I had a feeling something wasn't right" or something similar. Trusting the instincts is the best advice I've ever gotten, or given. The one other thing is that no one has said anything about is that Doms also need to do safe calls and use common sense. Although the majority of problems are with men posing as Doms, there are some dangerous female Doms, and female and male subs out there as well. EVERYONE needs to use common sense and think about safety when meeting anyone online, for any type of relationship.... even vanilla ones. *trying to post a lot so she doesn't have to be vanilla anymore... ick !*
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Jewel Bi, Poly, and Switch... I don't believe in limiting my options "I'm a bitch, I'm a tease, I'm a goddess on my knees"... Meredith Brooks "The Bitch"
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