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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/23/2007 4:52:11 PM

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I can't tell you anything else a bout the other problems but I can recomend ALWAYS using lube to do anal sex, and never force anything in there, take it slow becareful do lots of prep forplay. Next time someone asks or demands no lube say sure right after you stick an 8 incher up YOUR ass with no lube.* being sarcastic of course don't reallyd o it if they do it first*

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visited my gp for the sixth time within the I'm really worried. For my anus I think I might have a tear. My ex wanted me to sit fully on his 8 inch dick without Lubrication. It hurt alot and after that encounter my anus has been leaking.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/23/2007 5:00:28 PM

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It sounds like you might have a tear. I'm not a pro so don't quote me. I'd def take everyone elses advise and see another doctor cause that doesn't sound like somthing that will clear up in a week or two. When it comes to below the waist take everything seriously and don't stop seeking whats wrong until you have a positive answer and everything is cleared up. I hope things get figured out. Until then take care of yourself.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/23/2007 5:52:13 PM

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Yup, sounds like the G. vag (BV) thing to me. Lab techs used to do what they called the "sniff" test on wet prep smears from women with suspected bacterial vaginosis - for the fish smell.

There's a line in Hamlet somewhere, that refers to fishmongers. Someone told me that in this case they were referring to prostitutes. Ewwwww. Not implying that about the OP, but just as an aside.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/23/2007 7:12:45 PM

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get yourself to a real doctor real fast before this turns into something much worse that could possibly affect your future fertility and cause even more damage. you are going to have to bite that bullet and get to a real ob/gyn. remember one thing, not every doctor graduated at the top of his class, some doctors barely passed their med school training and their boards, but as long as they passed they get to call themselves doctor. get yourself to a good one and quickly.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/23/2007 8:32:52 PM

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Obeyzyanka: best of luck! If I were you, I wouldn't even wait for 1 week to see a doc. If it were here, I'd go to the local ER asap.
Have you had a fever with any of this? Abdominal pain?

As another poster said: 3 months is a very long time to have these kinds of problems and it poses several risks.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/29/2007 9:59:27 AM

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Plain and simple find another doctor. You're in Australia so you should have free national health, if I remember correctly. If your gp is a clod, take your ass to another doctor. Personally, I would go to the ER at this point, since it has been ongoing. Either way, get better and find another doctor. My doctor is an hour away, and I wouldn't trade her for anyone closer!

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 12/29/2007 10:16:28 AM

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when i had my second child we had to drive 2 and one half hours to get to the hospital. (or to go anywhere else for that matter, including work and the grocery store)
i cannot believe youre bothering about a 45 minute drive to Anywhere.

wth is wrong with you?!
get your booty in the car now! stuff coming out of your body that isnt even supposed to be there in the first place is pretty serious business.

i cant believe some the the stuff i read here!

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/19/2008 10:25:18 AM

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hey there.
on cable here, we have a show 'talk sex with sue' who is a sex educator/RN (i think). she's in canada, but her show is on all over the US. her web site is: http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html - it's great! (if you can't watch the show.) very no-nonsense thorough and non-judgemental sex advice.

it's a call-in show, and lots of people call in with the fishy smell problem. it *is* trichynosis, and eminantly treatable. the gp who kept treating you for thrush is an idiot. keep going to others til you find one you like.

as far as the other problem, that's awful for you, and i have no idea. but again, keep searching. you might actually want to try a sexual health clinic, to deal with docs/nurses who are unafraid and actually used to dealing with these issues.

good luck, feel better!

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/19/2008 10:56:12 AM

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A friend of mine (a nurse) had something similar. She had torn the lining of her anus while going to the bathroom. It developed into an absess that worked it's way through the wall into her vagina. It's called "Recto-Vaginal fistula". She went through several courses of antibitotics and finally had surgery.

So, it's possible that this is what is going on. Personally, I'd go in there and demand that they actually take some action.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/19/2008 7:07:02 PM

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I seriously think you need to go see a gynocolgyst. It maybe a switch but you obviously have a medical problem and your general practioner is not getting to the heart of the issue. Sometimes seeing a different doctor for a second opinion is well worth the time money and effort it takes to feel whole and right again.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/21/2008 11:43:06 AM

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Some kinds of bacteria infections in the vagina are extremely difficult to cure. If antibiotics don't work, you may have to be scraped (d and c).

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/30/2008 10:09:55 PM

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*Update* I went to the second doctor and he prescribed antibiotics for Gardenella and Chylmidia (even though I didn't have it). It seems to have worked (the smell isn't as bad) although it's still there so I'm going back for a follow up but I can't get an appointment for another few weeks due to . Which sucks cause I have to go to a heart specialist next week and the following weeks later I have a Uni two week residences gah it's all complicated.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 1/30/2008 10:42:04 PM

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Well, at least you're on the right track to getting healthy.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 2/4/2008 12:21:25 AM

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That hole between rectum/ colon and vagina is called a fistula and it's serious.
Sitting on an 8 inch hard cock anally without plenty of lube is not a good idea- and at a certain point one needs to remember that the Dom/ sub thing is consensual and you ultimately don't have to do things that hurt or are likely to injure you. When something like that comes up- No, that could injure me and it's a hard limit, period is all you need to say. You only have one body and apparently the ex didn't respect that... So you have to.
Sometimes you have to just set limits right on the moment, but they still need to be respected. And anybody who won't respect that isn't worth your time. You can do better! There are Doms who take not injuring girls very seriously.
Just as well he's out of the picture.

I've had a jackass hurt me, so don't think I'm being a know it all- we all learn something the hard way sometime or another.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 2/28/2008 2:59:28 AM

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Thanks Morsel. Well I still have the problem. I did have the tablets, and I had my vagina looked at by a nurse and she said it looked healthy that it could be a fungal infection. When I did do anal that time, there was no blood, when I got off I ran to the toilet and wiped myself and there was no blood. I also monitered my bowel movements and the was no spots of blood. So I'm not sure. I'm going back to the doctor next Friday. I hope my periods will not come then because the doctor said he will check it out. And the only appointment I could get was next friday which fucking sucks. I will keep you guys posted.

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 2/28/2008 3:02:23 AM

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Hi Obezyaka, I was thinking about you the day before yesterday and wondered how you were doing. It must be very frustrating having this linger for so long, hopefully your doctor will sort it out soon for you.

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RE: This embarrassing but I need urgent help. - 2/28/2008 3:40:33 AM

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if your gp wont treat you call another one and or go to the other clinic. make sure you inform them of all the prior experiences with the previous gp and your sex practices, this should give a good indicator of the culprit. and a simple slide prep sent to the lab would confirm the culprit and the proper medication for it .

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 3/5/2008 1:49:48 PM

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Something that doesn't seem to be addressed is that if you got this "bug" from a guy, you can be treated all you want, but if he isn't treated and you sleep with him again, then you will get it again. The two of you need to be treated, as do any other women or men that you two are having sex with.
Having grown up in NZ , I understand the small country town syndrome regarding doctors, but as it stands you need to see a doctor that you trust - and that isn't the local one. You also need to be explicit about what was going on when you were damaged. I can guarantee you that it won't be the first time that he has heard it.

and speaking of that - your bf/dom. needs a reality check about what is possible for the human body to tolerate. And no lube for anal play is not good unless your anus is stretched out permanently. You also have a responsibility to limit dangerous play - and that is dangerous - you sure don't want to get an anal fistula and need surgery. Bad juju!!

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 5/15/2008 7:44:59 AM

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Don't even bother going to a different GP - you need to go and see a Sexual Health Clinic - there should be one in Bathurst, if not make the trip to Sydney!!

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RE: This embarassing but I need urgent help. - 5/15/2008 1:00:04 PM

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Get a new doctor. There are thousands of doctors. A drive is worth it instead of worrying about lack of care. Good luck

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