Aswad
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ORIGINAL: AbsitInvidia Okay, what if your ugly best friend had sex with your slave, and she had no interest in it? If I said it's okay, then it's okay. If I didn't, then someone has used my property without permission. Which basically translates to not being my best friend anymore, unless there is a damn good reason for it. That goes for all property I value. Ask your Master how he would respond if someone used his PC without permission. If his relation to his PC is anything like mine, that should provide a valuable insight as to the nature of this issue. What is your value to your Master, and how would you respond to such a thing? Therein lies the answer to the question at any given time. quote:
As far as the damage of rape, the majority of it is psychological. Actually, the majority of it derives from societal feedback. Rape in itself is no more or less traumatic than any other form of assault. But cognitive dissonance arising from the cultural expectations associated with the experience, along with the feedback from the surrounding society, aggravate this damage to the point where it becomes significantly greater. You might want to read up on that at some point, as it has much relevance to the process of flowering as a slave. quote:
From what I understand 'true' Goreans aren't the type to coddle a slave's fragile psyche. I'd never coddle her. That would be an insult, and one that is not called for. However, I always bear in mind what state she is in, what she needs, and so forth. Tim touched on this in his thread. I do not eat until every pet in this house has been properly cared for, human or not. And I do not mistreat any of them. Instead, like a gardener, I tend to my garden, whether that means weeding, fertilizing, watering, nipping buds, or whatever. Goreans aren't stupid; we know full well that humans have limitations and that choices have consequences. It would be a poor slave indeed that I valued so little as to run her into the ground. Which begs the question: why not kick such a slave out, instead? Indeed, why pick such a slave up in the first place? quote:
Is she not a piece of property who is to be pleasing to all? Even absolutes are relative. Search for the phrase "ethics of care" or "concentric circles" if you wish. The Gorean morality embraces the notion that our responsibilities are such that they are less relevant the further out from the center they get. And all slaves must have some manner of morality, even if it is one that is appropriate to her role. The one intended for kajira is a virtue ethic, with the virtues of Beauty (in effect, being pleasing in nature and behavior) and Obedience being espoused. And, as such, obedience to one's owner trumps obedience to anyone further out, like a random stranger. But the default position remains obedience, in the absence of a conflict. Similar things hold for beauty. quote:
Where does this psyche come into the equation? Where does the engine of a car come into the equation of owning and driving one? quote:
Fucking a slave is not the emotional act of making love - as long as all the holes are in good working order any slave can be fucked. Your point being? quote:
How can one claim to adhere to a philosophy, yet condemn the customs that are supported by that philosophy? One can question whether or not certain customs are, in fact, supported by it or not. And, further, these customs exist only in a given context; that context is Gor. Here on Earth, the context is different, and thus also the customs. Do you stone people? Probably not. Yet it's a custom of your faith (as I recall). Do you not have faith, then? See, the thing is that the custom of stoning doesn't fit in the current context, even if it fit in the old context. And so you don't do it. This is, I would hope, not because you are compromising your faith to fit with what is convenient, but rather because the modern context is an input that provides a different output from the same process. Health, al-Aswad.
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"If God saw what any of us did that night, he didn't seem to mind. From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way. We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.
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