zimmeron -> What do you expect in a first contact email (12/27/2007 7:22:50 PM)
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Perhaps I'm just not experienced with this type of community and what people expect as far as initial communication. I'll admit trying to find someone online is relatively new for me. I've been on this site for a while and I think it's excellent but I have yet to receive any response back from any of the women I have contacted via mail. I know they are reading them, but they just do not respond at all. Obviously, not everyone is going to be interested in me, however I think I have made at least 20 attempts in over the past 6 months with no success. So I have to believe I must be doing something wrong, which is hard to admit but must be true. I take a lot of time to read the profiles/journals of the women in my area so I can get a good feel for them. In doing so, I've been able to glean what they don't like, none of which I do. I often read angry journals from women saying they are sick of being emailed by doms who immediately expect them to get on their knees and worship them, call them "master" etc. etc. They don't like men who demand them to relocate or do things that they clearly say they don't want to do in their profiles or who send them "stories" of what they would fantasy thing they would do to them if they met them. I don't do anything of these things, I never have. In the email I send to someone I think I might be interested in, I usually just introduce myself, mention why I decided to contact them or what in their profile got my attention and what things we have in common or have compatible. I tell them a little about myself and send a (clothed) picture. I don't believe being a dom means you're rude and demanding, especially to perfect strangers, and I don't expect a girl to immediately be submissive to me just because I am a dom and she is a submissive. I feel this is just like any other relationship where you need to get to know the person before you just "dive" into things. I feel a polite 2 paragraph or so email to introduce myself is appropriate, but maybe it's not. So I'm asking what a sub expects in the first contact email.
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