zhouwuatsien
Posts: 60
Joined: 8/28/2007 Status: offline
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They say you're not a real Dominant or a real submissive Then you ask what it means to be real, and find There are so few rules as to what a Dominant must be. A submissive must be. To the core aspect that a Dominant leads, a submissive follows. --- Why do they really care to say that others aren't real. Is it Jealousy. Is it fear. Are they actively trying to make others seem worse for their own benefit. Or maybe... That's exactly what they really believe. --- "All BDSM relationships are Abusive" I heard that today very randomly I might add. "They all involve whips and chains, and someone getting mentally traumatized" Though sadly we must admit, many of us know of someone who has been abused through the BDSM Community --- We have these people saying that they're 'real' Masters. 'Real' slaves. Going beyond the consent of the partner that they choose. No wonder we're so easily misunderstood... The worst stories, are also the most public ones --- So few ways we could possibly publicize the beautiful relationship Between Master and slave. Because such things are almost not meant to be publicized, maybe it's too special to be shown to anyone else They wouldn't understand anyway. --- I think though... Everyone knows what it is to be submissive, to be Dominant We see it at work every day And on the street, our own friends who haven't a single taste of BDSM Is the only difference between us and them... That we acknowledge it --- We acknowledge who we are? Or do we exaggerate it... [][][] Hi-lo, this is just a rant. Not really trying to organize a mob of Masters and slaves to come together and knock on people's doors. It's open for people to put in their own two cents. What I'm writing here isn't truth or fact, they're just the things I say. More than anything, take it as "These are the thoughts and the understandings of a Young Master. Someone who has done his own thing for some time, and then asked around, and was told to do his own thing... So he kept doing his own thing." However, I still thought it might be something nice to share... Ciao then [][][] ~ Motion without Sound, Ice inside the fire. Stillness in the Storm, Silence hides the Sniper. ~ Eagles come and go, to someplace much higher. When the Silence grows, can you hear it Sniper?
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