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Would you use the another man's slave sexually if she w... - 12/31/2007 11:09:59 AM   
nephandi


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There have been many treads about what slaves would feel about being used sexually  by another than their Master and about if owners would let their slaves be sexually used by others or not. So i was thinking what about a tread from a little different viewpoint. Masters would you use another man's slave sexually if she was offered to you, and would you expect such hospitality if you visited the home of another Gorean. i am here thinking about safe sex off course.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 12/31/2007 3:15:18 PM   
Totalmaster4you


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Tal nephandi,
 
Aswad I should address this opening question to you. I know English is a second language for you and nephandi but I wondered if you would like to be made aware when you misspell something or not use a phrase correctly?
 
As for the question I would never "expect" a slaves sexual services to be offered. If I'm not mistaken it was the same in the books. Each Master decided if a slave would be available or not. It was much less likely in the home where there was a single slave as compared to a Master who had many slaves. As for whether I would accept or not would depend on how I was feeling, if I had an attraction to the slave in question and if I was there with my slave and there was an expectation of quid pro quo.
 
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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 12/31/2007 3:57:31 PM   
AtlantisKing111


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Status: offline 		I personally would not, even if it was safe sex.  I have no desire to have a slave sexually who is sexually active with another man.

As for expecting such hospitality, the answer is no.  I would not expect it.  I've never been offered another man's slave sexually in any Gorean setting I've been in so far.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 12/31/2007 6:30:53 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		If a master offered me the use of his slave and I was attracted to her, then yes, I'd accept.

But I'm not very likely to offer my own property.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 12/31/2007 6:40:53 PM   
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If I gave a definite, something would happen to cause me internal conflict.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/1/2008 7:00:32 AM   
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While I would not *expect* such an offer to be made, if it was, and I found the slave attractive, then yes I would accept.
Too, if I had a Gorean Man visiting, and I found Him to be honourable and decent, then I would probably offer My property to Him also. But then, I'm not ruled by 'vanilla' thinking - I prefer the Gorean philosophies and *lifestyle* rather than the 'fantasy' of it.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/1/2008 7:14:22 AM   
Sadisticforslave


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Status: offline 		Well I am not Gorean.  However, I have been in this life as a Master/Dom (which ever one you want to call it) since 85 and all the slaves that I have had including the one I have had since 92, have been used by others that I have allowed to use them.  Most of the time it is another Master with his slave that I found cute, or beautiful so I would offer mine in exchange for his.  Yes I treat my slave like property.  Some she has enjoyed being used by, others she has not but still she has been used by them because I ordered it.  Every once in a long while there is another Dom/Master that does not have a slave that I find is honest, safe, and true, so I offer my slave for his use but only with me there.  I would love to find a Male Master/Dom and female slave couple, where I trust the Master enough and he trusts me enough to be able to use his slave and he use mine at any time even without the other there.  But so far that has not happen. 

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 9:28:44 AM   
backseatbebe


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Status: offline 		im curious how many Masters have a monogamous relationship with their slaves?
because it seems those who have answered so far dont enjoy sharing their slaves

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 9:34:47 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		I don't share mine however I have had property of another sent to me for hard use..I have no problem using a slave/sub if the said property is attractive and pleasing...

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 10:09:56 AM   
xBullx


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Status: offline 		Greetings,

This is generally a rather redundant topic for Goreans, but in seeing the below quote I decided to chime in….

As you may have noticed bebe, most of the respondents that would not typically share their “property” with others were not Goreans. While I see absolutely no problem with this position, it occurs most generally due to the fact that other lifestyles may view slaves in a separate capacity to that of Goreans.

While safety and health are serious concerns for anyone, most generally the Gorean slave is simply a slave. Now some Gorean men are indeed in possession of their love slave, the fact remains that many are not. They simply own a wondrous and pleasing slut.  This slave is a creature that craves to be pleasing to all free. She would in order to find a smile on her owners face use her wiles to please him or his orders in any way commanded. If the man is holding back his slave due to her taste or demands, is he truly her master? These are just a few things to consider that I see from time to time.

So if a man is secure with health concerns, if a man is wanting to express deep compassion to a guest or wants a favored guest to envy his place in owning such an awesome creature, it is quite possible that the slave would be sent to the guest for his  comfort and pleasure. It would however never be in good taste to offer a slave to a guest that has not displayed interest in the wench. I am also not comfortable accepting the use of a man’s only slave; she will most likely be treasured by him, even if he does not display this affection openly. He may just be offering a sense of courtesy to a valued guest.  I like the example in the novels of the peasant offering his wench, but the offer being declined gracefully and respectfully. Just consider unwritten man laws, in such situations. Honorable actions are always found traveling in continuous circles.

Many that say that they wouldn’t sexually share their wench are either possessive of something that is much more than simply a slave to them, or are insecure that some man beast like me would steal their slave’s heart. (winks) Some men have an internal kink that loves to know that their possession is submitting sexually to another man, while she remains their property. Some men have multiple wenches and to have them serve guests is part of their purpose.

So the answer of would I use another man’s slave is simply put as, it depends on the situation.

Bull

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ORIGINAL: backseatbebe

im curious how many Masters have a monogamous relationship with their slaves?
because it seems those who have answered so far dont enjoy sharing their slaves



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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 10:21:55 AM   
YourhandMyAss


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ORIGINAL: backseatbebe

im curious how many Masters have a monogamous relationship with their slaves?
because it seems those who have answered so far dont enjoy sharing their slaves


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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 10:38:33 AM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		Im not a Master, but if someone offered their slave to me, hell yea Id jump in bed with her.

Oh, is that not what you're asking? sorry..heh...

I know that if someone offered their slave to my Sir, he'd accept. He'd also probably offer me in return.

Well, to most people we'd ever be in that situation with at least..not to everyone Id expect..or hope...shrugs...

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 10:52:04 AM   
backseatbebe


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx

Greetings,

As you may have noticed bebe, most of the respondents that would not typically share their “property” with others were not Goreans. While I see absolutely no problem with this position, it occurs most generally due to the fact that other lifestyles may view slaves in a separate capacity to that of Goreans.

Many that say that they wouldn’t sexually share their wench are either possessive of something that is much more than simply a slave to them, or are insecure that some man beast like me would steal their slave’s heart. (winks) Some men have an internal kink that loves to know that their possession is submitting sexually to another man, while she remains their property. Some men have multiple wenches and to have them serve guests is part of their purpose.

So the answer of would I use another man’s slave is simply put as, it depends on the situation.

Bull


thank you so much for the responce Bull
i guess i should have asked how many gorean masters are monogamous
as your point is well proven with the responces given

and i have to say agree i with you and found it odd that gorean masters would give such limitations in sexuality to a slave. defeats the purpose of having a slave instead of sub or a fw. personally i find being shared a critical part in being a gorean slave.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 12:50:48 PM   
MasterEros


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Having give thought to the question(s) asked I would say the following:

The sole ownership of a slave is something I respect as the right of a man totally. I have had the property of other owners offered for the sexual use of his property. In my younger years I recall situations where I received a slave for my use from the owner, a friend of mine. The owner as a common act shared his property with other owners who were also his friends.

Obviously a slave when she is slave among Gorean tends to desire to please all Free, so it is thought. Naturally the owner retains sole authority who a slave pleases or does not, at least in My Household it is. 

I on the other hand have not with exception of two times offered my property to another owner. The times I did it was another close friend to myself and to my property also and the offering was accepted without complications. On another occasion the lending of my property occured with another friend to serve domestically and sexually as my friend who I allow my property to be lent to for a week-end was struggling with recovering from a terminal disease and the gesture was seen as a welcomed offering to him and myself.

I have likewise accepted the use of a friends' property and it too was without complications as much thought and discussion occured prior to the offering. I do not lean toward the use of what is owned by another man however as I stated in years past I have been on both sides, the owner who lent his property and the owner who was lent another mans' property for my use. And as I stated each time there were no complications what-so-ever as much communication occured in the negoiating man to man.

Further it is clear that Safe Sex is paramount and to have the information of another prior to engaging in sexual contact is required. Obviously most people have awareness of practicing safe sex and most do practice safe-sex some don't. I do!

However presently I would not accept another mans' property for sexual use as my perspective has altered drastically from years past now. Life is like that hindsight is 20/20. Even though there were no complications or health problems that arose out of the instances I spoke of herein, I simply changed my view due to personal preferences shifting.

I would not share my property sexually now nor never nor do I desire to use another man's property now nor never. Domestic use is another whole subject from my perspective and I have a whole other value system regarding such.
 
In the nutshell, to each man his own and what he owns do as he believes to be right to him and right for his property, after all he holds the reigns to his own fate of ownership responsibilites with which accountability co-mingles or can a male really call himself, Master /Owner? I know a total other topic. Deep waters run free with strength and power in a man who fears not his own manhood and rules his property wisely,  so it is said among my Indian brothers of me.
 
Satisfaction arrives in ways that occur unexpectedly and the acceptance of such has been integrated into my personal value system.

Thank you for the question. I enjoyed reading the feeback from others also.

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Master D.B.E

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 2:43:17 PM   
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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 5:49:57 PM   
Maahsatti


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Status: offline 		Howdy nephandi, dear,

  I, unlike the FW of the books, would fully expect any slave I owned to be fully prepared to serve men sexually...but the men she would serve would be well known to me and I knew for a certainty, he was clean and trust worthy.so, in essance a long standing friend of mine and then if would only be approved by me, for Gorean men's use, not just any and every tom dick and harry friend in my life...so to speak...lol

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 6:41:48 PM   
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I just wanted to say that Master loved your response!  He is exactly the same way.  He says, "No one else touches my truck, my guitars or my toothbrush.  They sure aren't going to touch you!"  If that makes Him a possessive bastard, so be it, He says.................luci

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 7:12:21 PM   
aeleberaNB


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Status: offline 		Greetings Masters and Mistresses:
Greetings fellow slaves:

Master and i have discussed this on a few occasions now, and while He is a Gorean Master and i am His property, He says that unless He knew the person well enough to let them use me that it would not be happening.

Master says He is very possessive of that which is His and does not trust easily therefore i have no worries about whether or not He shared me with another Master. i have told Him that i did not worry about whether or not He would share me, but that i was asking because of all the talk about it here on the forums. 

i am His to do with as He wishes and if He wished to share me with another Master, then i would everything in my power to please both Master and the Master He had decided to share me with.

wishing all well,
aeleberaNB

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 7:13:30 PM   
noyeh


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Greetings Mistresses,
Greetings fellow slaves,

I already know the response to this answer from my Master. He might bed a unowned wench but he does not like the idea of bedding a owned one. And not because he might not desire the wench but because he is a primitive christian and being he does not share he does not want strings attached if a girl were offered to him. He also feels its honorable to decline a generous offer. And I already know he won't share me... I went to several gorean Masters homes that I know and several that Master and I both know. His firm rule with his girl (me) was hands off!!! Master is really stingy when it comes to his girl(s) when he is around or not around. He does not like to share.

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RE: Would you use the another man's slave sexually if s... - 1/5/2008 7:34:01 PM   
BeingChewsie


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If she was a total hottie R would ride that sled for sure :).

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