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Just starting out - 1/1/2008 4:47:59 PM

ZeeandTaz

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Greetings Masters
Greetings Mistress
greetings fellow slaves

my name is tazzy i belong to Master Zee

my Master and i met online in a diffrent chat server we met in the online gorean lifestyles and from there its become real life also we now live together and are exploreing Gorean in this new way for us both... we are not newbies to the gorean life as He has been gorean for 15 years ( just never had the chance before of going real life with it ) i have been gorean for 5 years ( again the same as my Master) we have a family together and our family has just sorted out so we can explore more of Gor
i have spent a few nights reading the diffrent posts on here and found it all very intresting and informative and really wanted to introduce myself and my Master and thought this would be a good way to do so and also i can ask a question or two

my question is
How did Y/you all start out in the lifestyle ? was it just something Y/you fell in to or were Y/you introduced ?

another question if i might ask that is
Was the lifestyle Just right for Y/you or did Y/you have to work at fitting in ?

i thank You for Your Time and wish all a Happy and pleasent 2008

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RE: Just starting out - 1/1/2008 11:36:53 PM

nephandi

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From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen!
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Greetings

my Master and i started out like vanilla boyfriend and girlfriend then got into kink, then D/s and just recently Gor. We was introduced to it by me first having an interest in the books and then the lifestyle itself, then Master begun to read up on it and got to know pepole on this forum that where Gorean and eventually found out it would be something fitting for us.

Master is progressive that means that he look for the philosophy and accepts those but very little of the customs. And he then works whit the philosophy to create a lifestyle that works for us, so yes a little fitting was needed, after all not everyone is the same, very few are in fact and Master was never interested in accepting dogma and becoming the same as everyone else.

But it is a bit hard to enter into this lifestyle, it have many challenges and it are not an easy road to walk. i wish you and your Master the best and have a wonderful 2008 you to.

i wish you well

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RE: Just starting out - 1/2/2008 8:58:13 AM

kieraB

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greetings

i started out looking at the BDSM side of things, learning the difference between submissive and slave. i knew that i was submissive and felt that with the right Man i could be a slave. Master is a Gorean Man, and since wearing his collar i am learning more about Gor.

kiera

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RE: Just starting out - 1/3/2008 5:24:44 AM

ZeeandTaz

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thank you for your replies :) its intresting to see how one gets in to the lifestyle that they love so much

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RE: Just starting out - 1/3/2008 2:14:54 PM

suitemindcrime

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greetings tazzy!

i started out in BDSM, and in 1997 found online Gor. From there it became so obvious to me that it just "clicked" as to who and what i was. i was collared in 2000 to my first Gorean Master, and absolutely loved it and Him. He released me in 2003 because of "boredom," which hurt like hell. i still haven't found Another, but i pray that i will.

Welcome to CM! :)

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RE: Just starting out - 1/3/2008 3:35:05 PM

kisshou

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Greetings tazzy,

it is so funny looking back at your life and realizing how incredibly naive and romantic you were. Luckily for me Master PO found me and eventually allowed me the privilege of begging his collar. While he has made every romantic daydream I ever had come true the big difference I have found in living it 24/7 , instead of what I had imagined it to be , is that it is all about him. I work hard everyday to keep my place at his feet. While this is not something he holds over my head I know that there are women lined up out the door who would kill to be owned by him. I think it is funny that as a woman you can get so used to guys chasing all over after you but as an owned slave you are always chasing after your Master.

guess I better stop rambling,*grins* welcome to the Gorean forum here on Collarme

well wishes
kisshou

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RE: Just starting out - 1/3/2008 6:39:03 PM

Totalmaster4you

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{FR}

Tal to the Free and property,
Tal Zee and tazzy,

As others have said welcome to the collarme Gorean board. I sincerely wish that your experiences here are fulfilling and enlightening. From what I've heard about other online Gor sites and in particular the role playing ones I believe you'll find this considerably different.

I read the Gor books beginning in my early 20's and enslaved my wife in the 3rd year of our marriage for a 24/7 relationship. That was 36 years ago this week. We didn't find outside groups until many years later. Though we were expressly looking for friends that we could share our lifestyle and thoughts with what we found was very cliquish. Though we made many acquaintances we didn't find any close friends as we had hoped. I believe the advent of the computer and sites like collarme will make our experience less frequent for those who enter the "community" now.

I wish you well,
TM4Y

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RE: Just starting out - 1/3/2008 7:52:13 PM

GoreanGuy

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I started out in online BDSM rooms, yahoo to be exact, and my first girl that I had there was a kajira, which I didnt know at the time what it was, so I started out researching it

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RE: Just starting out - 1/4/2008 11:10:36 AM

kisshou

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Greetings Master TM$Y,

I just wanted to say congratulations on your anniversary!! 36 years is quite an achievement , I think that is so wonderful. Please give my regards to your girl.

well wishes
kisshou

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RE: Just starting out - 1/4/2008 7:48:26 PM

Musicmystery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou

Greetings tazzy,

it is so funny looking back at your life and realizing how incredibly naive and romantic you were. Luckily for me Master PO found me and eventually allowed me the privilege of begging his collar. While he has made every romantic daydream I ever had come true the big difference I have found in living it 24/7 , instead of what I had imagined it to be , is that it is all about him. I work hard everyday to keep my place at his feet. While this is not something he holds over my head I know that there are women lined up out the door who would kill to be owned by him. I think it is funny that as a woman you can get so used to guys chasing all over after you but as an owned slave you are always chasing after your Master.

guess I better stop rambling,*grins* welcome to the Gorean forum here on Collarme

well wishes
kisshou

ZeeandTaz -- Welcome

kisshou -- well said -- you are a credit to your Master.

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RE: Just starting out - 1/4/2008 8:19:56 PM

Totalmaster4you

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Tal kisshou,

My thanks for you kind words. I do believe I need to clarify something though. she became my slave in the 3rd year of our marriage so the anniversary was actually the 39th. In order not to hijack the thread, even in the least, let me add that because we were Master and slave kept the marriage together through some difficult things. Had we not been M/s the marriage probably would have ended. If one is wondering how to keep a relationship going then the BDSM lifestyle or following the Gorean path may actually be the oil that keeps all the various wheels turning and working in harmony together. In my opinion people who choose to walk the Gorean path in particular work much harder on their communication skills and understanding each other is what makes for harmony.

I wish you well,
TM4Y

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Sometime ago I decided it was time to change my nic. However I didn't wish to disconnect from my original profile. Since then I've signed Touch your mind (TYM or Tym). Opinions in my posts should be taken as my opinion and my opinion only.

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RE: Just starting out - 1/5/2008 9:21:00 AM

backseatbebe

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twas here i found gor
and what a gold mine!!!

though it seems much harder to find locals interested in gor
as im active in the bdsm community here yet i never see or hear anything about gor
im very grateful you all share with us so openly

on a side note, i dont know if this is allowed
but can anyone post links of other useful or more gor focus websites/chat rooms/forums/etc

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RE: Just starting out - 1/5/2008 9:46:18 AM

jesszabelle

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Greetings, Master TotalMaster4you,

a quick note of congratulations and wishes for a happy anniversary!

wishing You well,
jesszabelle

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RE: Just starting out - 1/5/2008 2:18:04 PM

Musicmystery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you
If one is wondering how to keep a relationship going then...following the Gorean path may actually be the oil that keeps all the various wheels turning and working in harmony together. In my opinion people who choose to walk the Gorean path in particular work much harder on their communication skills and understanding each other is what makes for harmony. I wish you well, TM4Y

I absolutely agree with this, major league.

Tim

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RE: Just starting out - 1/5/2008 9:07:49 PM

slavetaboo

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I was first introduced to the concept of goreans by the first gorean man I'd ever met. I met him innocently enough in a store and through our developing friendship he began to teach me more of who and what he was and what he believed. In listening to him and getting to know him I realized quickly that I naturally fit into his world. I had been owned once prior to meeting him by a man with bdsm interests. In learning the beliefs of a gorean man I found that I shared his beliefs. I'd just never known it to be called gorean. Life's good isn't it? smiles.

It's my pleasure to meet you tazzy.

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RE: Just starting out - 1/6/2008 4:21:17 AM

AbsitInvidia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou

Greetings tazzy,

it is so funny looking back at your life and realizing how incredibly naive and romantic you were. Luckily for me Master PO found me and eventually allowed me the privilege of begging his collar. While he has made every romantic daydream I ever had come true the big difference I have found in living it 24/7 , instead of what I had imagined it to be , is that it is all about him. I work hard everyday to keep my place at his feet. While this is not something he holds over my head I know that there are women lined up out the door who would kill to be owned by him. I think it is funny that as a woman you can get so used to guys chasing all over after you but as an owned slave you are always chasing after your Master.

guess I better stop rambling,*grins* welcome to the Gorean forum here on Collarme

well wishes
kisshou

OMG this really hit home for me. For awhile now I've felt like I'm the one 'chasing' him...like I am more invested in the relationship, and that I'm making a fool of myself by always hanging all over him. It's doubly hard because I'm living in a foreign country...I can't get a job, I don't know anyone, and I'm pretty shy so I'm not the type of person who will just go somewhere social alone...but I feel like my entire life is wrapped up around him, whereas I'm just one of many things that he takes an interest in.

Is this healthy? I've been thinking I should back off...let him approach me, and find things to occupy my time...but at the moment we are visiting his parents and there's nowhere outside the house to go...nothing to do...I'm in the house with him and his parents all day and it's hard enough to find things to do without limiting them to things to do alone! But when we get home in a few days...I wonder if I should pursue more of a social life on my own, so that I'm not like suffocating him.

Any thoughts?

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RE: Just starting out - 1/6/2008 7:08:25 AM

dawntreader

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Greetings soshi,

This should be obvious, but have you asked your Master what he prefers in this situation? i would think that is where you want to start...
j

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RE: Just starting out - 1/6/2008 8:02:12 AM

kisshou

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greetings soshi,

i think that if he wants you to be spending your time in other ways he will tell you. Also (am grinning while I type this) you will find that when you are spending your time doing other things it all ends up centering on him anyways such as taking a cooking class or a massage class. Even reading the newspaper ends up so you have interesting things to talk to him about or finding articles that relate to his profession.

so as not to hijack this thread anymore, this would be a great discussion topic in the slave support thread , alot of the girls there have experienced these same worries and fears

well wishes
kisshou

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