RoughFN -> I'm completely devoted, but... (1/8/2008 2:27:57 PM)
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I was reading the other thread in here about voting and was a little surprised at the responses. I opted to start anew instead of hijacking that thread. But basically, the question was if your master would force you to vote a particular way and the responses have so far seemed fairly universal of "NO, and I'd be pissed if he tried!" It just struck me as such a contrast to the people who regularly post and claim that everything about themselves is their master's and their master's alone to command. Most people (everywhere on the 'net, for all times) tend to come back to something along the lines of, "we're a fairly normal couple, it's just that he makes all the decisions he wants to make." So voting struck me as just another thing in that "decisions he wants to make" category." Personally, I would have no problem ordering my girl to vote a particular way, and I assume that she'd do it with minimal question. Incidentally, it is something I've considered doing but it's not high on my list of things to do, and I probably won't bother. Extrapolating, how many of the slaves here would get really pissed off if their master ordered them to do something outside of a bdsm context like this? And, likewise, how much of a contradiction is this compared to him making all of the decisions? Dwelling on this example, I'm not claiming that you can't have your own opinions, or even potentially argue with him to prove him wrong (or at least that you should be able to vote your own way); those extras are points for your own relationship. The end of the day though, if he makes the decision, exerting the claim that you've granted him all power in your life, why would you protest? The argument could be made that you hadn't considered this because it was clearly outside the realm of BDSM so you didn't think it would be an issue. The counter argument is that you should have, you've already granted yourself over, and now you should be prepared to live with that decision. So what would happen if something similar comes up? It's a non-sexual order, it's not something you'd ever considered he'd exert control over, he feels he's well within his rights to tell you to do it, and there's no harm to you in doing it (again, with the voting example we're glossing over the concept of voting in the "wrong" guy who would enact policy unfavorable to you). Does that turn into a discussion about limits? Do you acquiesce and do as you're told? Do you get livid and leave him? What if you do have those discussions and he absolutely refuses to back down? Then what? I always find it interesting where people draw lines and what they do when they're crossed.
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