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baileythorne -> RE: Submissive etiquette? Or...."pass the sub, please?" (7/17/2004 8:06:05 PM)
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ORIGINAL: cityslaveforuse
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ORIGINAL: proudsub
I would think you would have to trust your own dom to know who is safe to play with since he knows your limits, and trust that he will be watching over you. If you don't want to play with anyone other than your own dom then that should be a respected limit of yours.
I have been in situations like this and for me that here was the point. As long as I knew I could trust my Dom to be there and watch out for me I could submit to the other "experts". It worked well for me because it heightens the awareness of that trust factor.
I have been in this position as well. It seems to really solidify the trust in the relationship or cause it to crumble.
I think you have every right to negotiate that you do not want to play with others. It took me several years of public play to want to try this. When I was ready, the opportunity was there. There was no need to rush.
--bailey
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