lytehaze
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Joined: 10/3/2006 Status: offline
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Having a Dom turn and say essentially “ok now your turn” is very disconcerting. Switching means you don't know what is going to happen tonight. It doesn't mean that you have to switch during the night, you truly act like a sub or a dom, for a day, a week or even more. The thing is that it will change, sooner or later. But as you pointed out, if you need to admire your dom, then it won't be the right path for you. There is no admiration in a switch couple as far as I know. You simply love your partner. "No admiration". Is this true of switch relationships? Do others feel this way? I don't mean to hijack I am just curious. Perhaps I'll make another post. A mate who has not one admirable quality/action/trait? I would hope admiration for ones partner would be desired in switch relationships as well. I think admiring your partner and loving your partner are not mutually exclusive. And for me it is not a need to admire it is simply something I do. I admire a great many things about Him and I would hope He admires things about me as well. The switching sooner or later, whether it be a day or week part is what I dislike. But that's me. Others will find the variety exciting. I think the many orientations are integral to the lifestyle.
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Obligatory disclaimer: Of course the above views are my own, as I can only speak for myself. Should others identify or disagree with my thoughts, that is their right. I in no way meant to offend, by malice or negligence any person or group.
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