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A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 8:52:31 AM   
xBullx


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Greetings Goreans and assorted Guests,

I’ve been very preoccupied lately, but I’ve peeked in from time to time and read a thread here and there, I haven’t had much to say so I only made a post every now and again. I have noticed a few tendencies lately, and at that, some that aren’t all that impressive. I’ve been trying to come to terms with some things on my own and noticed some of you are trying to force this a little to much, so to help get your minds kick started again I’ve just typed out some rambling thoughts.

I have been pondering on a couple questions lately since they have been on my mind and can tend to be a primary focus of our little board. One is the eternal question about what a slave may or may not be. While that isn’t a priority for me I’ll address that after a bit. I’m more interested in addressing the “what is it to be a Gorean” issue. This is another never ending debate; one that seems to need to be redefined whenever someone new wants being Gorean to fit their own personal needs, wants and desires.

The other day I came home from my brothers; he and I had watched the movie 3:10 to Yuma. All in all I liked the movie, well apart from the fact that no one other than Russell Crowe could shoot straight. But it had several subliminal messages about the nature and character of men. When I got home I walked in I told Natalie the movie had some rather Gorean like messages in it. She proceeded to ask me why I thought manly like movies were only something for Goreans and why I didn’t realize that I had been the same man I am now even when I never talked about or claimed to be Gorean.

Well this response from her rather bit my ass and I asked her what the hell she was talking about. She just heard the comment about being Gorean, not that I said it had a Gorean like message. While she loves our Gorean friends and lives as a submissive free woman in my world she is not as devoted to understanding the practical Gorean philosophies; that could be due to the fact she is quite overworked for a free woman, and considering I can’t find kajira that fit my prerequisites she might not have time for spare reading anytime soon.

Her concern is that I place to much in being Gorean and in doing so have forgotten that this man that now calls himself a Gorean has always been the same. While she could be right looking at the big picture it’s the details that I believe have been affected most by my studies of the Gorean philosophy; the details that outline the very essence of what maintains a man’s morality and beliefs. The details that provides structure and organization to a man’s daily existence, but most important the details that define what he is to himself, and that define him to likeminded men; these men that he will establish a social bond with; create natural allies in life’s daily struggles and triumphs. A man can tell you that he is a loner and exists just fine keeping to himself and while that may bear some truth to some, it is most likely a load of crap for the majority. Humans are social creatures, we have spanned the ages by bonding and establishing communities that provide for social order, stability and mutual benefit. Not all of these benefits are all that obvious, but absolutely no man can survive as an island.

But what is it to be Gorean? That my friends will never be anything outside of individual perception; and while we will discuss it over the years ahead and perhaps even come to some more centralized definition, one that the collective might even accept. There will never be one true definition simply because as we evolve within the Gorean ideal, the definition of the details themselves evolve and in effect change to varying degrees. The thing is; it seems Norman intended for Gor to encompass all things human and even more. He must have been intending Gor to embody all things natural and in that we come back to the one consistent, live true to your nature, be that which you are. Humans will in the books define their Gorean existence differently than the Priest Kings would have, or the Kur, or even peaceful little Nar.

I do believe in the end that to define what is Gorean can best be found by asking; what would Kamchak think or do? What would Marlenus think or do? What would Tarl think or do? And most importantly, what would Jason think or do? Remember all the rest were native or had Gorean blood in them, but Jason evolved into a Gorean and in doing so was accepted as a leader of Gorean men. He will be most like what we can become. That in itself seems to be of a rather unlimited scope.

So perhaps like the title and accomplishment of becoming a master of women; being Gorean is something that must be desired and must be conquered, taken and worn as your own. To care enough to work hard within yourself to develop the selfish and selfless character most admired in men. In the end like the movie 3:10 to Yuma, not all Goreans are noble, physically fit, honorable or masterly in the eyes of all other men. What is truly seen as honorable to one may be lacking to another. Gor is not and can not be a one size fits all; the books are filled with countless cultures of their own much like any compilation of various humans would.

To sit and demand that you must be this or that to be Gorean will be fruitless. It is possible to define things that would most likely be or not be Gorean. By using the consistent behaviors within the various Gorean cultures we can define for the most part what is a Gorean. But this to has been or will have to be settled through debate and discourse among those of us that would be Gorean.

In General a Gorean is firstly a sovereign entity, or at least aspires to be. I believe freedom as a much used word that is more an adjective than a state of being; Acquiring supposed freedom may even be an illusion that distracts you from pursuing life’s more important objectives. In stating that perhaps we should evaluate a couple of these objectives.

As I see it, a Gorean is proud of his people or his Home Stone, which is more often than not his first allegiance. Not all Gorean had Home Stones, but all had their sense of community, even the thief or the Rogue.

After the largest group it is often seen that a man would have a caste, and in this caste he maintained deep personal pride in the man he is, the quality of his labor and the honor of himself and his caste members. All are born into a caste, but even at that a man would be only claimed as such by approval of his caste, he must earn his “wings”. Nothing worth its salt is given, a man most values what is earned. That is especially true in the Gorean ideology as I have read it.
While beyond these first two stated Gorean hallmarks there social group specific traditions that coincide with cultural ideals from our past. Even the first two ideals are nothing groundbreaking or patent pending. So you see while being Gorean may be discovered in the pages of the series; it is also in the memories of our past, the traditions in our own cultures and the strands of our DNA.

Look at the lead of our column; note the banner we march behind, the plain white flag with three orbs positioned around a larger one. It has little meaning yet, it is only starting its trek. “The quest of natural co-existence” might seem a fitting mission statement for now. Consider the United States flag at its conception; it was made so that it could be adaptive to change, (stars added and such as we evolved) as our Gorean beliefs become more defined and hopefully unified in time I believe the “flag” will become more colorful and proudly hoisted higher. (There is no actual Gorean flag, this is simply a metaphor)

So remember that the Gorean experiment as we know it is in its infancy and only learning to walk on its own; while we grow, remember the principles and ideals that defined men like Marlenus, Tarl, Rask, Hup, Jason, Grunt, Kamchak and countless others. It is probably more important maintain a close bond to the ideals that these forbearers presented in their stories will present us with a consistent set of examples of what it is to be a Gorean in our daily lives; if not always practically, at least symbolically.

So then what is Gorean you ask…

Gorean is ______. If you are still asking; I guess you’ll have to get back to me on that. I didn’t write this to be of any great service to anyone but me. You can read it and find what you want in the words provided. My journey is my own sovereign path, if my out loud rambling helps you in anyway, good enough. If you are one of those that is at a higher spiritual plain or an advanced state of enlightenment I would ask you ignore my drivel.

While this is simply my thoughts spoken outloud, feel free to contribute or respond, add to it or rebutt it. It's simply meant to inspire a more indepth philosophical thought then just arguing about who's allowed to sleep with who's slave.

Oh and about that slave post, it’s coming soon…

Live well,

Bull


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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 8:58:36 AM   
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Greetings Friend,

Sounds like Archimedes was right; listen to your wife. 

I think if the focus of my life were to 'be' anything, I would have an incredibly difficult time being what is most important; me.

I'm not saying give up the ramblings, or the deep thoughts, or the ponderings of the universe.  I'm saying that sometimes you have to just be yourself.  The things that Goreans often find admirable in non-Goreans (in song, verse, or the flesh) are often qualities found admirable by non-Goreans alike.  Certainly it helps to have a common dialogue based on a mutually understood topic, but do you think one could have written a story that is Gorean, without having set it on Gor?

Regards,

Stephan


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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 9:08:56 AM   
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Underpinning the whole gamut of the question here:

We are all human animals at our core.  So it is easily argued that we share some values (or philosophies) with the pope, some with Ghengis Khan, some with Tenzin Gyatso, some with Vlad the Impaler, and even Vidkun Quisling or Benedict Arnold.

Hup the multifaceted jewel of an animal (and Fool)

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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 10:07:33 AM   
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Hello Bull, Stephann, and Huppie -
 
Three great posts, by three men I always enjoy reading, for myriad reasons.
 
After reading your three posts, I've one comment to make.  Several times over the last month I've found myself commenting to friends that, "I'm as much, if not more, Gorean than most goreans".
 
Regards-
Grace


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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 10:47:13 AM   
xBullx


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Hiya Stephan,

That sure is a tasty lookin’ little slut you have in your photo.

I’m curious if you were intending to illustrate one of the key points in my post. If so you did an excellent job. It seems we are all quite capable of reading something and then in the end drawing from it that which suits our desires or our perspective. While I was certain that someone would characterize this point, having it be you seems to give it more impact.

You see I wasn’t out to imply that Natalie sees being Gorean as some random meaningless title; but rather that in her lack to pay attention to the detail of my comment she misunderstood the entire context of my point, by drawing forth from only hearing what she perceived to be my intent she misconceived the entire message. I stated to her the movie had Gorean like messages. Not at all implying that it was a Gorean film.

What brought this on was all the past reference to movies like 300. Many of us like to only see the Gorean side as the good and honorable fellow. The fact is Norman provides many examples of yen and yang. So what is Gorean is not simply being the mighty Spartans; after all how do you identify the conception of nobility as seen in the Spartans without the contrast provided by the Persians. Hence both exist much the same as Tarls advisories do in the novels.

I would be of the mind that Archimedes had never met a Gorean free companion.

It might seem Stephan, that in your desire to deny yours or anyone’s need to identify within the Gorean contingent that you have misplaced its most valuable traits and ideals.

But hey, we all hear our own drum beat.

Live well my friend,

Bull


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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Greetings Friend,

Sounds like Archimedes was right; listen to your wife. 

I think if the focus of my life were to 'be' anything, I would have an incredibly difficult time being what is most important; me.

I'm not saying give up the ramblings, or the deep thoughts, or the ponderings of the universe.  I'm saying that sometimes you have to just be yourself.  The things that Goreans often find admirable in non-Goreans (in song, verse, or the flesh) are often qualities found admirable by non-Goreans alike.  Certainly it helps to have a common dialogue based on a mutually understood topic, but do you think one could have written a story that is Gorean, without having set it on Gor?

Regards,

Stephan



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Live well,

Bull



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"A Republic, If You Can Keep It."

Caution: My humor is a bit skewed.

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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/29/2008 4:32:32 PM   
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Greetings Master Bull,

Master PO just rented that movie and we watched it together. It was really great! There was something so compelling about the men in it. I don't want to give the plot away so I won't comment further but I hope everyone gets an opportunity to watch it.


well wishes
kisshou

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RE: A day in the mind of a Bull - 1/31/2008 12:37:49 AM   
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First of all Bull, good post. Next is a warning for a long post, that what follows is MY take/ramblings/view/ponderings on your post, so be warned. It will be only that, no more, no less.

I do tend to think that we as Goreans after a certain time will godown that road you're passing along, that we think about what it IS to be a Gorean, It's normal, and too what I have been going for the las few years. Namely after coming to grips with the understanding and then acceptance of that I AM Gorean. One thing I always find interesting is that we tend to move along the same phazes of this. What you're going through is part of this journey of getting to LIVE as a Gorean.

One of the main reasons as to BE a Gorean is not to sit and ponder all day but to get up, get out and live with the philosophy and personal understandings in our day to day lifes. This is not a "think only" philosophy, but very much a "go out, live it as you have understood it within it's full context and enjoy it as much as you can". This is the part many tend to forget, that we have to live it, not just pondering and quetioning it, but to go out, live and get our own personal experiences of WHAT it means to BE Gorean at work, around friends and so on.

While you have offered one side of what to define what Gorean is by asking what the various characters in the books would do in a given situation, I go another way by asking; what would *I* do in that situation that Kamchak, Marlenus, Jason or Tarl? Or even in the case of Half Ear, Ost, The Keeper and the others that we get portaited through out the books. What would *MY* actions and reasonings be if I was faceing the same? Would it be that same or would I do something else? And if so, why the heck would I do that?

These characters that Mr. Norman have used though out the books is but facettes of what it means to be Gorean, they're all different takes on the same, that of what it means to live as a Gorean. Some of them we agree with, and some of them we don't, as is fitting for our own personal understading of what is Gorean to us, persoanlly.

Like it or not, but all of these defines what it is to be Gorean, as in the end they WERE Goreans. But in the end they have a long lead of what it takes, a a fully established society that supports this way of thinking and liveing. One thing we're missing here and too are fighting the war against.

Now, when that is said, we too tend to forget that tho much of what have already been re-worked, re-defined even re-hashed, we're not that far down the road as Goreans. Heck, we're just starting to have sorted out what we mean by Gorean. Most of us are first generation Gorena's, some are second generation, but we're still busy hammering out what this liveing and breathing is about, as Goreans, as us. We don't get it right at times, both personally but too on a whole, but part of defining what this is also about, is to make errors to learn from and move on.

I see nothing wrong with new people posting "I'm Gorean because..", as I see this as more of a personal benchmark for them to try and get to grips with their own take of what being Gorean is. Sometimes, thoughts and ideas are easier to comprehend when put to paper instead of being thrown around in the head. Only time will tell IF that is true that they're Gorean, and most often it turns out not to be so. But in just a few cases, they do pull it through the first phaze, and starts to grow. For me that is interesting to follow as that give me as Gorean an understanding of what Gorean means too, again, as long as its within the context of the books. And that's where we're defining this, through our personal interpretations.

I have stopped saying " well, you're wrong!" when I read some new post, instead I'm more interested in the "WHY are you thinking so and so?", sadly, there's more of the first case going around than the second.

I have already touched a bit on what I see and understand as being and too as liveing as a Gorean, in script, both here in this place, and too in a few other places. And I agree with that freedom is one of the biggest cornerstones there is for a Gorean, this both in the personal sence, but too within the functions of supporting a society. Well, freedom for some of us, that is, as others find it better to give up that freedom to find their own personal fullfilment and place in life.

Too I price my Cast that I belong to, I also take pride of the Home Stone I own and too belong to, so do I take pride in what I achive. These are defining what a Gorean is too, the questions then is just "why?". Why is it that these two things have so much weight for a Gorean? These are some of my present ponderings, amongst others, that are filling my head.

There's a few movies out there, that I find of interest to watch, both as a Gorean as they tend to touch subject that I personally find of interst The Unforgiven, The Seven Samurais, Yojimbo (later re-worked and cast as Last Man Standing) just to name a few. All of these I have mentioned touches some of the Gorean  issues that I have thought about. In this case, The Seven Samurais are interesting in this sence, as we here have a defined Cast but the takes of what it means to the individual for the Codes and too Cast, is so different from each of the members. Very interesting indeed.

You have already spoken about the flag we're marching behind, I rather see it as the Home Stone we share and belong to, for good or for worse. This is who and what we are, Goreans, forever defining what that means, as individuals, within the context of the books and in todays society. I don't think we'll ever get more than a strong consensus on this subject, and that is good, for that means we can live and let it live and more importantly grow into what we as human beings was ment to be, man and woman.


These are just a few of my lighter personal thoughts/views on an early Thursday morning, and now it's time for breakfast.


Be well

  Camerius









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