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RE: Teasing and Denial - 2/6/2008 12:44:37 AM

sillyfrillyboy

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I must say some very interesting ideas. As an avid fan t/d I have read amny a story surrounding this theme not to mention audio content that is availalbe out there. My really heavy denial stuff generally comes into play with my love for sissification. Although I like it in boy mode to.

Ideas hmmm I think I have a few.

One story I read was about a Lady who kept here subbie in her room with her and at bed time she would brink him to the brink over and over before bindng him so he could not masterbate and telling him to go to sleep. At this point she would go to here own bed and masterbate with a vibrator till she had multiply orgasms while he listened to her.

I also read several where the the submissives Mistress would not use a time frame for chastity but use a system of points or demerits. At the end of the week the points would be added up and if the subbie got the enough points he would be able to have is reward. The story was very exciting as she would often push his limits by using this system to make him do things he may have not wanted to do before. And ofcourse if he failed to get enough points over several weeks he was highly motivated to earn him some. It was an interesting idea because as apposed to being all mean or punishing to make him do stuff she would just say " Oh ok thats fine darling I just have no idea how you are going to earn enough point by tomarrow to earn your reward but ofcourse it is up to you if you dont want to..."

ummmmm HOT!

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john

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RE: Teasing and Denial - 2/6/2008 7:16:02 AM

dareformore

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I have to admit.....this is My first post here.....but since the subject is near and dear to My heart, I'm jumping in with both feet !LOL

Let Me begin by saying I have absolutely no interest in chastity at all. NONE. To Me, chastity implies the cessation of sexual energy/activity. And that holds no appeal for Me. But the control of sexual energy...holding it back, directing it, building it by holding orgasm in abeyance until a time I choose...? Now THAT is a process I can wholeheartedly enjoy!

It is all a matter of intention. In chastity, I believe the intention to be stripping the submissive of sexual impulse so that the energy can be refocussed on service. In tease and denial, the intention for Me is to exascerbate sexual energy - to build it up higher and higher so that the resulting focus is more intense, more desperate. I suppose it's the same destination....the trip is just so much more fun for Me, personally, when My sub is thrashing, whimpering and over-the-edge of reason ...LOL

Thanks, Aakasha, for finally providing a subject that I could sink My teeth into... so to speak LOL

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RE: Teasing and Denial - 2/6/2008 5:16:55 PM

MistressDolly

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That abstinence itself does nothing for the male is precisely why I enjoy enforcing chastity; I like to use it as a fundamental test of his devotion. "Tease and denial" on the other hand, is a play activity I incorporate for both our enjoyment.

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