Daddysredhead
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Joined: 11/6/2005 From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: KMsAngel i hate it when the ex has a new family and neglects his older daughters in favour of his new daughter. he doesn't seem to realise that they're not as fascinated with her poo and her sounds as he is. and they resent it because he was never there for them like he is to the new one. i hate it when there's nothing that can be said that will make them feel any better. *hugs Angel and her um's* My dad didn't neglect the others when I was born (we were all in the same house), neither did my mom. However, I have one sister whom I love dearly who apparently resented the fact that when I was born, I was the "baby," and she lost that title. It was only yesterday that my dad told me that after I was born, they had a terrible time with her, and her resentment and jealousy caused her to treat me very unkind at times. She is, strangely enough, my favorite sister, because she has also showed me and my Things a lot of love. But, that will never take away the awful things she has said to me during my life. It's her voice that I hear in my head, criticizing me so often, telling me mean things. If there's any way you can encourage your um's to try to love this wee one, please do. The wee one isn't at fault for the father's lopsided attention. *more hugs*
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