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Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 10:25:54 AM

nephandi

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i am sorry for asking two questions at once and taking up pepole`s time but somthing moved inside me when i heard aboute being fed the first bite by your Master, i have never considerd it, but my Master love to put things he want me to taste into my moth, and i have alway felt an intimate moment when he do so, but we never realy considerd it lifestyle related. Now i am not Gorean but well can anyone tell me a bit more aboute this and its meanings and practice, for i found it werry interesting. Thank you.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 11:04:54 AM

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i have found this to be excurciatingly erotic.
To have something, food or other wise, placed in my mouth by someone other than myself. its such a lack of control. i havent had much experience with this, but i too, would like to hear more about it .
Someone once told me it is a trainning tool.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 11:13:04 AM

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Hiya nephandi,

When you become a Gorean slave everything changes. One of those things is that you own nothing and that everything that you have comes from your owner.

Hand feeding is a ritualistic reminder of this. That only by his will do you get food. It can be an intimate or non intimate as the Master wishes. It is, however, normally very emotionally charged for the slave.

Granted, some households use hand feeding only occasionally and some use it daily, but the meaning behind it is very powerful.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 11:16:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: barefootprincess

i have found this to be excurciatingly erotic.
To have something, food or other wise, placed in my mouth by someone other than myself. its such a lack of control. i havent had much experience with this, but i too, would like to hear more about it .
Someone once told me it is a trainning tool.

It cuts both ways. In Pomprab, a section of Bangkok is The Galaxy. There you select a woman or several who sit next to you and feed you. This is why it's called "The No Hands Restaurant." Of course, this leaves one's hands free to do other things.

Libby and I occasionally give No Hands parties where submissive feed the dominants who are reclining on pillows.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 1:58:35 PM

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I like to hand feed a slave. It is a treat which she has earned. It is intimate and erotic. Yet on the other hand I love to lay back and have a slave feed me grapes or Lebonese sweet meats.. that to is a treat.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 2:05:14 PM

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Thanks for the information, yes it is werry erotic, and i can imagine it will be both ways.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 2:50:27 PM

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Feeding a slave has special significance in Gorean culture. It is an expression of ownership. The girl taking food from her master's hand expresses that her nourishment comes from her owner, at his discretion. A deeper meaning could be inferred that both slave and master are acknowledging that her life is in his hands.

It would probably come as a suprise to non-Goreans that there are circumstances under which I would gift another man the sexual use of a slave of mine, but under no circumstances would I allow another man to feed my slave.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 4:34:30 PM

nephandi

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It do not come as a suprise, there are many things that means so mutch more than sex.

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RE: Being hand fed. - 9/28/2005 8:10:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Leonidas

Feeding a slave has special significance in Gorean culture. It is an expression of ownership. The girl taking food from her master's hand expresses that her nourishment comes from her owner, at his discretion. A deeper meaning could be inferred that both slave and master are acknowledging that her life is in his hands.

It would probably come as a suprise to non-Goreans that there are circumstances under which I would gift another man the sexual use of a slave of mine, but under no circumstances would I allow another man to feed my slave.

Fascinating! I didn't know that at all. Good to learn something new.

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