hopelesslyInvo
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Joined: 2/10/2008 From: the future Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Justme696 MAny peopel don't tell others they are slave/sub or Dom(me), but then they want a tattoo...to show they are in the lifestyle. ISn't that contradicting. i guess it is, it made me laugh a little thinking about it. but i suppose it could be part of a desire to not feel like you're hiding it, by carrying the mark even though others will not understand it, or that perhaps you even would prefer them to not understand it, if it's even visible to those people at all. (just something us cool kids would know about, we could even have a secret handshake!) sort of as if to say, until people such as my friends, or others that i respect, or those who are simply important to me cause me to feel embarrassed about it i don't feel ashamed for it, but i want to be proud enough of it to bear a mark, but not something that will invite aspiritions from someone who just won't understand that part of me. it's pretty likely that vanilla friends will be just as befuddled by your other flavored interests as people in here would be when they find out StrictMasterBadass82 eats captain crunch and never stopped loving ninja turtles~ on both sides there are people who aren't surprised at all, and some people say "if they don't accept who you are, or judge you for it, then they're not really your friends", i figure it's probably true in some degree, but i'm not going to test their reaction =p
< Message edited by hopelesslyInvo -- 4/9/2008 2:37:59 AM >
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