Collarchat.com

Create a
Free Account
As the Collar Turns:
Collarchat.com - BDSM Forum

Home  Login  Search 
Espanol  Deutsch  Francais  Italiano  Portugues 

RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, Venting & More!


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Gorean Lifestyles >> RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, Venting & More! Page: <<   < prev  52 53 [54] 55 56   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/28/2009 4:14:09 AM   
donnaamarie


Posts: 335
Joined: 9/7/2007
Status: offline
Hi twinkle,

I'm glad you are on the road to recovery.  I hope that what they did helps better with pain management.  Take your time, get better, relax, watch bad talk show television and be good to yourself!!!

donna

_____________________________

Life is not about waiting for storms to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1061
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/28/2009 11:51:59 AM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Mistress

Am looking forward for the chance to try things it's been a long time not doing. She really can't wait to play with the Wii Fit. Maybe try to take small walks. Serving the man better again is her first priority after healing.. ~smiles

twinkle is glad you are starting to feel better, Mistress.

She will be looking forward to your call.

ooo, you said love... We might really get it now. ~laughs

Thank you,
~twinkle



quote:

ORIGINAL: Maahsatti

Hey twinkle ,sweets,
I hope you are feeling better after the operation. My biggest wish was for this surgery to actually help this time and work at making your pain as minimal as possible.
I am starting to feel better myself, as I told you in email, so I will check on you this weekend hon, so expect a call. mean time, get plenty of rest.

love ya girly,
Mistress Maah

I guess that expression will give fuel to the lezbo theory *some* like to entertain...LMAO...Oh freakin well...*waggles eyebrows*



_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to Maahsatti)
Profile   Post #: 1062
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/28/2009 11:55:27 AM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Hi donna marie

Thank you so much. You made this one laugh with the "watch bad talk show television" because when nothing better is on... she does.

She hopes you are feeling well. Are you doing okay?

~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: donnaamarie

Hi twinkle,

I'm glad you are on the road to recovery.  I hope that what they did helps better with pain management.  Take your time, get better, relax, watch bad talk show television and be good to yourself!!!

donna


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to donnaamarie)
Profile   Post #: 1063
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2009 8:31:55 AM   
sweetgirlseeks


Posts: 131
Status: offline
Hi A/all,

For those of you who suffer from chronic lower back pain, you might find this of interest.

www.getback2life.com

I know the exercise shown is similar to manipulations physical therapists do for it, and this devise seems to allow you to do it on your own and maintain the motion for a long enough period of time to be effective.

~sgs

< Message edited by sweetgirlseeks -- 3/29/2009 8:32:19 AM >

(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1064
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2009 11:07:20 AM   
tazzygirl


Posts: 26040
Joined: 10/12/2007
Status: offline
greetings Free
hi girls

after speaking to twinkle last night, i realized that a well known product that has been available for years and widely known through the medical community isnt that widely known about  by patients, which is indeed sad.  the product is a skin barrier, sold originally for colostomy patients, but is a terrific use for those after surgery dealing with the itching of tapes, as so many seem to be highly sensitive to the adhesive in most.  it comes in a form much like alcohol swabs, and applies a layer of sticky protection between the tape and the skin.  most parmacies carry it, or, can order it for you.  the cost is typically between $15 and $22 per box, and well worth the money in my opinion.  the link below gives an example of such a product.

http://www.walgreens.com/search/search_results.jsp?term=skin%20barrier&is2Query=Y&wsection=P&N=604972&Ne=300000&nug=Brand

hope this helps

well wishes

tazzy

_____________________________

No body dies a virgin... life fucks everyone.

RIP, my demon-child 5-16-11

"There are no atheists getting blowjobs" ~Master Ron

+20 Heresy Points - Hard earned!

Duchess of Dissent 1

(in reply to sweetgirlseeks)
Profile   Post #: 1065
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2009 2:41:36 PM   
OrionTheWolf


Posts: 7232
Joined: 10/11/2006
Status: offline
~FR~

No where near twinkle's but seems I did my back in a bit today. I am building a room for my youngest son, and put the plate down and insultaion up today. Did something stupid, from a kneeling position I reached across a bundle of insultaion, picked up an air compressor with one hand, twisted and set it down a couple of feet away, and the damn thing locked up. Having to use the muscle relaxers, ice packs, and anti-imflammatories. Looks like a couple of days of nursing it is in order.

Glad I have a slave to do my running around for me, and getting blowjobs is part of any good treatment plan ;).

Live well,
Orion

_____________________________

Die die glauben fordern keinen Beweis. Denen die zweifeln genuegt kein Beweis.


(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 1066
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2009 3:18:10 PM   
Totalmaster4you


Posts: 1359
Joined: 6/19/2006
Status: offline
Tal Orion,
 
I'm saddened to hear that you've aggravated your back. I'm trying to figure out a technique where my slave can give me the back massage and blowjob at the same time without turning her into a pretzel. lol Feel better soon.
 
I wish you well,
T

_____________________________

Sometime ago I decided it was time to change my nic. However I didn't wish to disconnect from my original profile. Since then I've signed Touch your mind (TYM or Tym). Opinions in my posts should be taken as my opinion and my opinion only.

(in reply to OrionTheWolf)
Profile   Post #: 1067
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 12:52:53 PM   
donnaamarie


Posts: 335
Joined: 9/7/2007
Status: offline
Hi twinkle,

I am doing well, thank you for asking.  The syn visc injections did not work this time.  I am pretty bummed about that.  I thought I could buy another year of mediocre pain.  Now I'm not so sure what is going to happen.  This weekend I did something that made my right knee hurt a whole lot.  I'm just riding it out now and seeing if anything changes.  Seems I am going to have some pretty big decisions to make in a short time.

I hope your recovery is going well!!

donna

_____________________________

Life is not about waiting for storms to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1068
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 3:06:39 PM   
donnaamarie


Posts: 335
Joined: 9/7/2007
Status: offline
Greetings Master Orion,
Your post made me wince a little.  One of the things I am so conscious of these days is how I move.  I am careful about the surfaces I step on, the distances I step down and the terrain I walk on.  I think this weekend I hurt my knee because I was on call and at various homes where I did not quite know where the ditches and the like were, especially in the dark.  I think I jarred my knee.  I know what it feels like when you make one of those sudden moves and pay big time for it.

I hope it's getting better for you.  I am sure your girl is enjoying the massages.....and blow jobs....as much as you are!!!!

donna

_____________________________

Life is not about waiting for storms to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.

(in reply to OrionTheWolf)
Profile   Post #: 1069
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 4:58:11 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Evening donna marie

She hopes the pain in your knee eases soon. It's sad that the injections didn't work this time. Big decisions in a short time are rough.

If there's ever anything this one can do to help, please don't hesitate to ask or message.

Sincerely,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: donnaamarie

Hi twinkle,

I am doing well, thank you for asking.  The syn visc injections did not work this time.  I am pretty bummed about that.  I thought I could buy another year of mediocre pain.  Now I'm not so sure what is going to happen.  This weekend I did something that made my right knee hurt a whole lot.  I'm just riding it out now and seeing if anything changes.  Seems I am going to have some pretty big decisions to make in a short time.

I hope your recovery is going well!!

donna


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to donnaamarie)
Profile   Post #: 1070
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 8:20:04 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Master

Unless already doing so, maybe a blow job before back rub and a blow job after back rub and tending to will do you even better. ~smiles

Wishing you a pain eased night.

Respectfully,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

~FR~

No where near twinkle's but seems I did my back in a bit today. I am building a room for my youngest son, and put the plate down and insultaion up today. Did something stupid, from a kneeling position I reached across a bundle of insultaion, picked up an air compressor with one hand, twisted and set it down a couple of feet away, and the damn thing locked up. Having to use the muscle relaxers, ice packs, and anti-imflammatories. Looks like a couple of days of nursing it is in order.

Glad I have a slave to do my running around for me, and getting blowjobs is part of any good treatment plan ;).

Live well,
Orion


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to OrionTheWolf)
Profile   Post #: 1071
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 8:23:05 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings tazzy

This one thinks everyone should be aware of this product. twinkle thanks you for recommending it and then doing a search where it could be found.

Thank you again and especially for posting it to the group as well.

Wishing you a pain eased evening

Best wishes,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

greetings Free
hi girls

after speaking to twinkle last night, i realized that a well known product that has been available for years and widely known through the medical community isnt that widely known about  by patients, which is indeed sad.  the product is a skin barrier, sold originally for colostomy patients, but is a terrific use for those after surgery dealing with the itching of tapes, as so many seem to be highly sensitive to the adhesive in most.  it comes in a form much like alcohol swabs, and applies a layer of sticky protection between the tape and the skin.  most parmacies carry it, or, can order it for you.  the cost is typically between $15 and $22 per box, and well worth the money in my opinion.  the link below gives an example of such a product.

http://www.walgreens.com/search/search_results.jsp?term=skin%20barrier&is2Query=Y&wsection=P&N=604972&Ne=300000&nug=Brand

hope this helps

well wishes

tazzy


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to tazzygirl)
Profile   Post #: 1072
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2009 8:27:02 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Master

Lay partially on side, have slave lay on side (you know the position) shove slave face down there, have free hand rub back.

smiles

Well wishes,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: Totalmaster4you

Tal Orion,
 
I'm saddened to hear that you've aggravated your back. I'm trying to figure out a technique where my slave can give me the back massage and blowjob at the same time without turning her into a pretzel. lol Feel better soon.
 
I wish you well,
T


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to Totalmaster4you)
Profile   Post #: 1073
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/1/2009 8:30:18 AM   
snappykappy


Posts: 552
Joined: 3/5/2005
Status: offline
a little bit of info for those who do not know much about lung transplants

  • In 2005, approximately 3,500 people in the U.S. were waiting for a lung transplant, yet only 1,000 of them (25 percent) received a transplant.2 Unfortunately with the improvement of surgical techniques and the expansion of reasons for transplants, the number of needed lung transplants has not kept pace with the number of available donors. To learn more about becoming an organ donor, visit www.organdonor.gov.
  • Making the decision about whether to get a lung transplant when it involves life and death may seem easy, but getting the transplant has risks like any other major operation. There may be surgical complications such as major bleeding, pneumonia and pulmonary edema and possibly painful recovery. In addition, patients may have the burden of taking medication that lower their immune system response and expose them to serious side effects, including cancer.
  • Transplant recipients also have a high risk of rejection and infection.  Since the transplanted lungs are considered foreign to the body, there is a risk that the body's immune system will attack and reject the new transplant. Doctors prescribe immunosuppressive (anti-rejection) medication, which lowers immunity to prevent rejection, but also increases the risk of infection and other diseases. Rejection most often occurs the first three months after transplantation, but medication may need to be taken indefinitely.3
  • A team of specially trained staff (pulmonologists, surgeons, immunologists social workers, nurses and technicians) evaluates patients to establish whether he or she would be a good candidate for a lung transplant.  The person's physical and psychological health and suitability for major surgery are taken into account.
  • When a patient is considered to be a good candidate, their name is put on a national waiting list for an organ transplant. Waiting time may extend several years.  Unfortunately, the majority of qualified candidates will not live longer than 1 or 2 years without a transplant.4  In 2004, close to 533 people waiting for a lung transplant died.5  
  • Once there is a deceased lung donor, a ranked list of people is computer-generated. The transplant recipient is chosen based on certain requirements, including immune markers that match the donor, lung size, length of time on the waiting list and proximity to the donor. Each transplant center may have additional criteria also. Once a candidate is chosen, time is critical.  The lung must be transplanted into the patient receiving the organ with 4 to 6 hours.6
  • Depending on the chosen recipients' need, a single or double lung transplant may be performed. Double lung transplants involve an incision below the breasts and take about 6-12 hours of surgery. For single lung transplants, the incision is made on the side of the body where the lung is to be replaced; the operation takes about 4-8 hours. Once the lungs are replaced, the blood vessels and airway are attached.7
  • In some cases where the heart has been weakened, both the heart and lungs will be replaced. Until 1989, combined heart-lung transplants were the most common form of lung transplantation.  Since then, single lung transplants has become the most common form.8
  • After surgery the patient will make frequent trips to the medical center and have a prescribed home based rehabilitation program including physical activity, breathing exercises, nutrition and taking medications especially immunosuppressive drugs. Walking is recommended to restore strength and prevent lung complications.  More strenuous activity can resume when one is comfortable.9
  • Current survival rates are as high as 80 percent at 1 year following transplantation and 60 percent at 4 years.10
  • Lungs can also be transplanted from living donors, adding to the supply of available organs.11 A living lung donor can be anyone who matches the recipient, related or not. At least two other people have to donate lobes to form an entire lung for one recipient; lobes of the lung are donated depending on which sections of the lungs need to be replaced. Living lung transplants are advantageous because recipients do not have to wait on a list and the transplant can be scheduled at a time convenient for both parties. In addition, the recipient can begin to take immunosuppressive medication earlier, which decreases the chances of rejection. Living lung transplants tend to be more successful also because there is a closer match between the donor and recipient. Unfortunately, as of now, the living donor program for lungs is in its infancy, so it will not be available for most people needing a transplant at this time.


(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1074
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/1/2009 11:53:36 AM   
amelliagrace


Posts: 1792
Joined: 8/4/2007
Status: offline
FR -
Hello, everyone!  It has been a while since I looked in on this thread, though you folks are ever in my thoughts and prayers.
 
I wanted to pop in and share a bit of encouragement.  When dealing with chronic pain, it often feels like "forever", and it can be terribly discouraging not to have a day of real relief, day after day.  Something that I've learned from experience is that life goes on.  Reminds me of those old style, simple, merry-go-rounds in the playgrounds of my childhood.  At times it seems that the merry-go-round of life is simply going to run over us and crush us, because we can't seem to keep pace with it.  Other times, we hold on for dear life, throw back our head, and just enjoy the thrill of the ride.  Now and then we stand there, watching it go by, despairing we will never be able to work up the courage or skill or timing to take the leap on.  Then there are the days we run alongside, exerting our own  force to influence the speed, pacing it, and feeling the excitement of being in the dirver's seat.  Life is like that.  It is also often much the same when dealing with chronic health issues.
 
It has been almost two and a half years since that fateful little fender bender of mine, and this week I celebrated a mile stone.  One full week with no serious pain.  Five of those days just about pain free.  I'm back to doing some exercises that were simply pain prohibitive for a long time.  If the rest of my life is this comfortable, that will be heavenly.  It isn't likely to be, however, and I know that.  That is ok, too.  I've learned that life can be lived as much in spite of as because of.  Life can, does, and will go on.
 
Chin up, folks.  Keep plugging away at the things that help, and dealing with what can't be.  Keep up the encouragement of each other, for in encouraging others, we benefit ourselves as well.  Know that this woman keeps you in thought and prayer.  And above all, know this......Things can, and do, change for the better.
 
Don't let that merry go round get the best of you.  Life is good stuff.
 
Gracie

(in reply to snappykappy)
Profile   Post #: 1075
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/1/2009 10:30:55 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Mistress Grace

You spoke of something that's so true in many ways and in using the roller coaster example. twinkle often calls life as being ."just a ride", and your post made so much sense to her because of that.

Thank you for sharing.

Chins up, Mistress

Wishing you most well,
~twinkle


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to amelliagrace)
Profile   Post #: 1076
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/5/2009 10:28:27 AM   
snappykappy


Posts: 552
Joined: 3/5/2005
Status: offline
I remember going to the bright lights of Atlantic City and watching
people play roulette. I would just walk around and watch people. I
liked to watch the “high rollers” because they seemed so carefree with
amounts of money that would make me sick, if I lost. For a moment, I
would love to be able to be one of them and not have a care in the
world, and be able to bet freely. I stayed long enough to watch the
same older man, win big.
Roulette-Wheel.jpg

People were cheering for him, as he bet black. He looked like luck was
on his side that night, but then he just broke even, no cheers that
time, but no big disappointments either, he was safe. Just as I was
about to walk away I watched as he lost it all. He looked frustrated
and even a little mad, but he continued to play anyway. In a matter of
minutes I saw such a wide spectrum of luck and emotion. I laughed to
myself knowing I couldn’t even afford to play. I walked away and never
forgot thinking “that is my life… a roulette wheel. I never know what
I'll wake up to, what I can do, or how I am going to feel.” It’s all
a risk, an unknown.

I have heard the same judgmental questioning from many people in my
life, when I can do some things and at other times can't function at
all. The most difficult things for me to deal with are the misperceptions
and attitudes of other people. Before I developed more serious complications
I did not appear to be ill, I still don’t look very sick. Family and
co-workers accused me of being hypochondriac, lazy, whiny and yes, even
crazy. Sometimes it’s the judgmental looks, or whispers that hurt more
than when people actually ask. I wish they would ask so I can at least
try to explain. It is hard because although I expect some judging or
questioning, the people who seem to voice it most are those who supposedly
love me and know me best. Maybe because they love me and know how good
my good days are, they don’t understand when my bad days are so bad and
it is such a drastic change. If they could just understand, I am just
as frustrated with not knowing when I'll have energy and strength to do
the things I want to, as when I actually cant. I hate not being able to
be relied on. Maybe that is why, when I can do things; I always give 100
percent, because I don’t know when I might not be able to.

I think what makes it truly confusing for those surrounding me or anyone
living with a chronic illness, is that there are days when you feel like
you could run a marathon. I look great, I have a smile on and I do more
than most! Then as quickly as the energy came, it leaves in a flash, and
you are left with nothing. You are completely depleted of any ounce of
energy you had and are left with pain in its place. It is like living two
separate lives, and it is so hard to plan your life according to an unknown
schedule. You need to learn to accept help, even when you don’t want it.
You have to learn to always have a plan B, and be prepared for the worst,
while remaining positive and hoping for the best. It’s a difficult balancing
act.

In my case, anything can set it off at anytime; doing too much, a cold,
an infection, stress, or even the weather. It is living on constant thin
ice, never knowing when the next crack will surface causing you could to
start sinking. I think of it as that spinning roulette wheel, you never
know where that ball could land. There are times when I am winning and no
one would ever guess that I am sick. I have gone on vacations and hiked
through jungles, I have performed in shows, and been the life of the party,
I have exercised, worked, and played. Then it’s like in Vegas, when your
next spin could be the big bet that causes you to lose big time. I need
to know that I am taking that risk whenever I do something, and use up too
many of my “spoons”. Sometimes I have no choice; I lose before I ever wake
up. I had no chance at a spin. I am in pain, I have no energy, I can’t move
or I have been in the hospital. There are times when you break even, and
those have become the good days. The days when you get what you needed to
and wanted to do done, and at the end of the day you are not hurting more
than when you started.

The thing is when you are dealing with your health you can’t gamble, it's
not worth the risk. You are not given a choice. You aren’t rolling the dice…
your disease is. So you have to learn to ride with the rolls of roulette
and take it as it comes. I have gotten better at this, although it is always
a battle. I hate not being able to do what I want to do. I think that just
might be the worst thing about being sick, or at least the hardest thing to
get used to.

My true friends have learned that plans are never definite with me until
that morning, pending how I feel. I have come to use words like hopefully,
maybe and likely. My family has seen that there are times when I am the
life of the party, the happy hostess and helper. There are other days when
I can only sit there and answer politely that I am fine, just not my peppy
self that day. But what is worse about having to deal with your own highs
and lows of a forever “pending illness” schedule, is having to deal with
everyone else not understanding it. And although I am proud to say that
great family and friends, who most of the time understand or at least accept
my lack of commitment to schedules, surround me, there are times when it
becomes an issue. I have to constantly explain time and time again how I
am capable of things at one moment, but not at another. I have to fight
feeling guilty for breaking plans; I so desperately want to be a part of.
I don’t want to let people down, and I have to deal with knowing that
people are questioning me. Is she being lazy? Does she just not want to
do this? Don’t they know I would love to be just like them, and never have
to worry, and always be able to keep a calendar? I want also to pick and
choose what to do, based on nothing other that what makes me happy, but I
cant. I then have to fight the instinct to not make plans at all. Then the
only person I would let down is myself. It would be very easy to just not
plan ahead, but then I would lead a very lonely, boring life.

I want to do as much as I can, but then there are times when I can only do
so much. I have learned to deal with this; I am waiting for those around
me to accept this. Sometimes I think it is harder for them to grasp this
concept then for me, because I have no choice, this is all I know. A healthy
person can “push” himself or herself even when tired or even sick. How can
someone understand what he or she has never experienced? But someone dealing
with an illness cannot “push” anything without dealing with the consequences
if they can even “push” at all. The disease is in control, I have to accept
not being able to spin the wheel and I have to just live with the results.
Hopefully, those around me will learn to accept this too.

Essay written by Christine Miserandino, 2009 butyoudontlooksick.com

(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1077
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/8/2009 9:33:47 AM   
ShaharThorne


Posts: 7711
Joined: 2/24/2009
From: Somewhere in TX
Status: offline
Just a lovely update on me.

I had a nice PTSD episode back in February, to the point where I was not sleeping for several nights due to the nightmares I was having. I kept telling my other half that something was wrong, but no one wanted to listen to me until I made them realize that I was breaking down every minute, trying to keep my mind solid, but failing (I was raped as a child and at times, something will trigger the PTSD attacks without warning, but I use limitations to what I allow myself to do in order NOT to have an attack). IMHO a slave should be allowed hard limits in order to maintain their mental health, not push these limits to the point of a complete mental breakdown.

Luckily, the hospital realize that I was not responding to my regular meds and started me on depokate for a mood stabilizer and upping the Geodon to deal with the PTSD episode. I was finally able to get some sleep. I am drug-free for the fibromyalgia, but I am hardly dealing with any pain except when I sleep wrong. I grab some Advil and go back to sleep (unless the bloodly phone rings before the alarm clock does.

I reloted back to my mother's place since she has been alone since the death of my father. I can cook, clean, and since Monday, use the internet to check my emails now. As long as the mental health people keep me on my meds, I am content.

Now, back to Nomads...and hopefully SSI will kick in so I can order more books for my collection. I lost Assassin while moving...

Shahar

_____________________________

Crushed grapes

You are making two and a half feet of irresistible, tubular sex! -Lola, Kinky Boots

Founder: Bitch with Tits

Whip me, beat me, make me feel cheap and have great sex

(in reply to snappykappy)
Profile   Post #: 1078
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/8/2009 4:16:24 PM   
kazzaslave


Posts: 291
Joined: 12/12/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Masters,
Greetings Mistresses,
Greetings girlies and assorted lurkers,

kazza just came from her doctor and is feeling more than a little frustrated. she had seen him to get a prescription for her pain meds because at this point there's noone else to get them from. He treats her like a drug seeker and is more concerned with the possibility of addiction than controlling her pain - which is her priority. His focus is entirely on the aspect of addiction, he won't even order a new MRI to see whether there might even be something going on besides tendonitis. He says the thing to do is wait and hopefully it'll settle down.

To top things off, he won't give her any repeats on the Tramadol because it's a "controlled substance" so she will have to take time off work once a month to get a new prescription. kazza is well aware that the chances are she is addicted to the Tramadol she takes for her hip pain but her focus is on being able to function and keep her pain levels from returning to what they were this past summer it HAS to be, she feels the addiction can be dealt with when the pain is gone, assuming it ends. she has her doubts though as it's been more than 17 years and nothing that has been tried has worked.

kazza apologises for ranting but she just needed to get it all out and this has been such a good place to do so as the people here really understand.

she wishes all well,

kazza


_____________________________

I had no choice but to hear you ~Alanis Morrisette

All kazza's postings are approved by Master Malkinius

tsfka phoenix

Member of MoGa's In Crowd

Honorary member of the Fabulous Michigan Clique

(in reply to Hiskajirah)
Profile   Post #: 1079
RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/15/2009 1:00:43 AM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline
Greetings Master's
Greetings Mistresses
Greetings girls

Greetings those with pain

This one is healing well from the surgery she had March 26th. Still have 5 weeks of down time (confined mostly to the bed) and when this time is over, an additional 4 months of being easy on herself. She's been referred to an amazing one of a kind program that works with chronic pain patients, sufferers and survivors. One has to have a referral, be considered as a candidate, have a psychological evaluation, and additional screening to be accepted into the program and participate. Similar to the Neuro Stimulator screening.

The program accepts patients all over the United States and she believes outside it as well, though is not certain. The program administration works with the patients current doctors (the one who would put in for the referral), insurence companies and claims adjusters and will help find them hotels or motels to stay at during the course of the program.

It consists of 7 hours a day, 5 days a week for 6 weeks. This one's Pain Manager happens to be the founder and heads all of it with additional staff of course.

If anyone is interested in the name of the program to read about it's benefits and how it works, please CMail her and she will include the website address. She does not feel comfortable adding it to a bdsm related site where the program could come up in searches. She hopes everyone appreciates and understands the reasons why.

She hopes you all are doing well or are doing as well as you can be,
Best wishes,
~twinkle



_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

(in reply to kazzaslave)
Profile   Post #: 1080
Page:   <<   < prev  52 53 [54] 55 56   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Gorean Lifestyles >> RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, Venting & More! Page: <<   < prev  52 53 [54] 55 56   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2012
Collarchat.com is a member of the Free Speech Coalition
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.250