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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/15/2009 3:40:59 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		greetings Masters
greetings Mistresses
hi girls

i want to start by thanking everyone for their well wishes on the boards and in cm.  its been so long since i have felt such concern... well... it was touching.. thank you all!

i had my surgery, as most know.  today i went for my checkup.  according to Master and my surgeon, it took 5 hours for me to wake up from anesthesia.  never had that problem before, then again, i only got three hours of sleep the night before.  could have been partly the cause. 

the surgeon explained the damage to my knee, including pictures.. lol.  one tear to the meniscus needed no repair, the other was major.  along with this, there was a tear in my ACL, requiring a few stitches.  he explained that the ACL was stretched and loose, but not to the point that it needed to be replaced.  we discussed pain management, because the past few days have been terrible.   naproxen was given as ibuprofen seems to have been the cause of some pre-op hives (yeah, i was a mess).  apparently i got one of the best surgeons in the area according to Master.  he said while he waited for me to recover, people commented on how lucky i was to get this surgeon on workman's comp.    so, now its on to rehab for a month before the surgeon will even begin to think about returning to work.

wow!  how i miss working!!!  Master insists i take it easy around the house.  and its driving me nuts!  im used to working two to three jobs.  to drop down to nothing is driving me crazy.. lol.

anyways, thought i would update everyone and give this thread a soft breath to add some life.

well wishes

tazzy

< Message edited by tazzygirl -- 5/15/2009 3:43:16 PM >

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/15/2009 7:21:04 PM   
Maahsatti


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Status: offline 		Hi taz,

Glad that your surgery is behind you now.
be careful though naproxin is just souped up ibuprofen, or rather alieve it is an ensaid or however ya spell it. so, dunno if you will still have an allergic reaction.

Mistress Maah


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/15/2009 7:37:33 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		hi Mistress!

i reminded Master of that, and he is keeping a careful eye on me based upon your warning.  thank you!

well wishes and much love

tazzy

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/15/2009 7:39:37 PM   
Dinnardin


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John, AKA Dinnardin

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 5:02:37 PM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline 		Greetings each of you

Greetings Master Orion

This one is about to begin a 7 hour a day, 5 days a week for 6 weeks program on Tuesday, May 26th. She'll be away from home from 7:45 a.m to 5 p.m each weekday until completion. It's an intensive multi disciplinary program consisting of biofeedback, physical therapy, psychological healing and more. She mentioned it awhile back in this thread. She had to be considered a candidate, meet with each doctor seperately, meet with the team of doctors together and wait for an authorization to continue after making it through.

She was made Group Leader in a RSD/CRPS support group about 5 weeks ago and has been spending her time leading.

This program is to give people with extreme disabilities and incurable illnesses the opportunity at a better life by learning how to get through flare-ups without being over medicated. She has agreed to give up some of the meds and do as instructed through out the course of the 6wks. She will learn to wear shoes again, possibly drive, get back into school and get her Corporate Publishing diploma, she only has 3 courses left to achieve it, eventually work outside the home depending on progress. They will assist her in trying to get hand gears for the van so that she can drive using her upper extremity instead of with the lower. On the same day that she begins, she will be 8 weeks Post Op surgery from having the revision to her lead/wire and the additional one added to her spine. She has healed well, no infection.

The doctors told her this will be one of the hardest things she's ever done for herself in the last 8+ years. She knows this and is ready.

Not many of the programs exist, for anyone who is interested here is a pdf file of one identical in another state 

http://www.neurologynow.com/pt/re/neuronow/pdfhandler.01222928-200905020-00017.pdf;jsessionid=KQ8dhw4PQWdDRRRYyGnX9TYQDyY3q87dh7pLy2ggqn5S12rKdLpF!-631265884!181195628!8091!-1?index=1&database=ppvovft&results=1&count=10&searchid=1&nav=search

Am nervous but excited at the same time ~smiles

Thank you Master

Wishing you all most well,
~twinkle


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 5:28:34 PM   
OrionTheWolf


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Status: offline 		Good girl! You can do it, and good thoughts to your recovery and rehab.

serve well,
Orion

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 6:44:03 PM   
amelliagrace


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hiskajirah


The doctors told her this will be one of the hardest things she's ever done for herself in the last 8+ years. She knows this and is ready.

Am nervous but excited at the same time ~smiles



Hiya, twinkle!
 
Know that I'll be offering special prayers, and sending you positive thoughts, for the duration of this program.  I'm proud of you already.
 
Grace

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 6:48:49 PM   
Maahsatti


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Status: offline 		Hi twink,

Good luck baby girl. My prayers are with you, as always. I know I have not called lately, butnot from a lack of interest, just been sick and in and out of the hospital myself lately...just got home from a 2 day stay the other night.
Cardiac issues, if it aint one thing its another aye?...lol I feel like 43 going on 83 for crimady sakes...lol...ahh well..such is life.
I will try and give ya a call tonight toots.

much care,
Mistress


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Gorean women, whether slave or Free,know, that their simple presence, brings joy to men,and I cannot think but that this pleases them.
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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:11:31 PM   
eponavet


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Status: offline 		Hi twinkle,

I just wanted to add my positive thoughts to everyone's else's....

It will be hard, but it sounds like a wonderful opportunity and i know how much it means to you to not only improve the quality of your own life, but to help others too.

Good luck!

~ epona

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:21:21 PM   
Hiskajirah


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Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline 		Greetings Master

Thank you so much for your encouragement. She will be keeping one sentence in mind every day that she's there...

"She's soft as silk and strong as steel" Your own words to her all these years.

Warmest wishes,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: OrionTheWolf

Good girl! You can do it, and good thoughts to your recovery and rehab.

serve well,
Orion


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"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:22:39 PM   
Hiskajirah


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Status: offline 		Greetings Mistress

Am grateful for your support. It means a lot to her.


Sincerely,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: amelliagrace

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hiskajirah


The doctors told her this will be one of the hardest things she's ever done for herself in the last 8+ years. She knows this and is ready.

Am nervous but excited at the same time ~smiles



Hiya, twinkle!
 
Know that I'll be offering special prayers, and sending you positive thoughts, for the duration of this program.  I'm proud of you already.
 
Grace


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:25:44 PM   
Hiskajirah


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Status: offline 		Greetings Mistress

Very nice to hear from you. Am sorry you haven't been doing well. Been thinking of you. Looking forward to talking on the phone when you are able. Thank you for the prayers.


Sincerely,
~twinkle


quote:

ORIGINAL: Maahsatti

Hi twink,

Good luck baby girl. My prayers are with you, as always. I know I have not called lately, butnot from a lack of interest, just been sick and in and out of the hospital myself lately...just got home from a 2 day stay the other night.
Cardiac issues, if it aint one thing its another aye?...lol I feel like 43 going on 83 for crimady sakes...lol...ahh well..such is life.
I will try and give ya a call tonight toots.

much care,
Mistress



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"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:29:42 PM   
Hiskajirah


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Thank you epona. Am very much looking forward to helping others by this. Will be keeping a diary so that she doesn't forget details, too.

Your support is appreciated
Warm wishes,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: eponavet

Hi twinkle,

I just wanted to add my positive thoughts to everyone's else's....

It will be hard, but it sounds like a wonderful opportunity and i know how much it means to you to not only improve the quality of your own life, but to help others too.

Good luck!

~ epona


_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/21/2009 7:32:04 PM   
snappykappy


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Status: offline 		twinkle u go get em and please use this moniker and put what u have in place of sarcoidosis and my name put urs

i have sarcoidosis it does not have me
i will kick its ass
i refuse to lose

thomas michael kappler

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 3:19:24 AM   
Zevar


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Status: offline 		Greetings twinkle:

I have not posted here in this thread until now. I was looking at the various postings and wondered in here to quietly read. A light bulb went off as I read the many wonderful supportive postings. Forgive my intrusion to anyone and you of course if my being here is not welcome.

So here it goes my late night or rather early morning assorted thoughts. I was thinking how this opportunity you have earned hopefully will only foster an environment where you can not only be someone who is an inspiration and much more yet also this seems as though you will gain more than you might imagine from giving what you have learned and earned. It is odd how that happens in life. Situations just have a way of turning to good sometimes when we least expect it as the fog clears.

I recall when I was recovering from a work related injury and a nurse told me that my situation would only become a blessing. Of course I grumbled. I thought " yeah sure as I half way chuckled. Yet you know she was right. It did turn to good. I learned much more than I could have ever while recovery was taking place and the Drs. and medical staff worked their " majic ".

I recall a Dr. saying as he looked me straight in the eyes " Failure is NOT an option!" He left the room. Off I went in my wheel chair thinking more about how I " could do " than not so much about " how I could not do" more and more each day.

Well anyway it sounds like you are surely on a pathway to healing. Keep up the good work and much good health and hope to you while doing your most needed and valuable gift of giving back what others deeply need. Hope! I know I could not have healed without it.

I wish you well,
~ Zevar ~



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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 7:07:11 AM   
kajjirus


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Status: offline 		If one may offer congratulations on what looks to be a terrific program and a positive attitude, twinkle, he hopes you will accept them.


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 7:20:31 AM   
Maahsatti


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quote:

you have earned hopefully will only foster an environment where you can not only be someone who is an inspiration and much more yet also this seems as though you will gain more than you might imagine from giving what you have learned and earned.


Greetings Zevar,
You are indeed correct, about twink having an oportunity to be an inspiration. The only thing I would like to say on that is. she has already achieved that by starting this thread to begin with.
twink is a selfless woman and has been from the time I met her.
While I know there have been those out here that have griped about this thread and stated it is nothing but a pity party. All I can say to those people is (I feel bad for you) if that is what you see in this thread.
This thread was created,intended and kept going out of many things and reasons, not one of them being a ploy for pity though. Quite the contrary.
This threads intent is nothing short of inspirational, a hope to give others who suffer from whatever they suffer from a means to know they are not alone and there are others out there who suffer but still hold (compassion and understanding) for others who are in pain. We appreciate the oportunity to let others know, that we are not so wrapped up in our own miseries that we have no room to try and help or comfort others.For that chance, I feel this thread is a blessing. People do not have to post or share, they are also invited to just read in hopes that what they read will be uplifting to them and if anyy of us can offer just one person who feels like giving up a moment to reflect and understand, that they are not alone, then IMO, that is something to feel great about.
Compassion and understanding for our fellow men and women are free in this life, at least so far, so I can not imagine why anyone would want to stomp on that save maybe they are stuck in their own kind of misery and feel misery needs company.
I have spoken with twink at length many times because of comments she has been given for starting this thread and I am over joyed to know, she will never again let some lonely, hurtful person ever make her doubt the good she has created here again.
Thank you for your posted participation as well and sharing a little bit of your own thoughts.

I wish you well,
Maahsatti


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Gorean women, whether slave or Free,know, that their simple presence, brings joy to men,and I cannot think but that this pleases them.
Outlaw of Gor, pg 54

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 8:34:48 AM   
smilezz


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Status: offline 		Hiya twinkle!

You shine through in everything you do.....this too will be your moment, and of help.

I am thinking about you!

-smilezz-

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 10:42:33 AM   
Hiskajirah


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Status: offline 		Greetings Master Thomas

Thank you for your support and the words. They mean a lot to this one. She hopes you are feeling as well as you can be.

Warmest wishes,
~twinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: snappykappy

twinkle u go get em and please use this moniker and put what u have in place of sarcoidosis and my name put urs

i have sarcoidosis it does not have me
i will kick its ass
i refuse to lose

thomas michael kappler



_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 5/22/2009 10:59:13 AM   
Hiskajirah


Posts: 929
Joined: 1/9/2008
Status: offline 		Greetings Master

Please feel welcome to this thread. This one lives with a tremendous amount of hope which flows through her entire being. Facing challenges and overcoming them is what life consists of. She will have to keep in mind that failure is not an option. ~smiles

She wishes you most well,
~twinkle


quote:

ORIGINAL: Zevar

Greetings twinkle:

I have not posted here in this thread until now. I was looking at the various postings and wondered in here to quietly read. A light bulb went off as I read the many wonderful supportive postings. Forgive my intrusion to anyone and you of course if my being here is not welcome.

So here it goes my late night or rather early morning assorted thoughts. I was thinking how this opportunity you have earned hopefully will only foster an environment where you can not only be someone who is an inspiration and much more yet also this seems as though you will gain more than you might imagine from giving what you have learned and earned. It is odd how that happens in life. Situations just have a way of turning to good sometimes when we least expect it as the fog clears.

I recall when I was recovering from a work related injury and a nurse told me that my situation would only become a blessing. Of course I grumbled. I thought " yeah sure as I half way chuckled. Yet you know she was right. It did turn to good. I learned much more than I could have ever while recovery was taking place and the Drs. and medical staff worked their " majic ".

I recall a Dr. saying as he looked me straight in the eyes " Failure is NOT an option!" He left the room. Off I went in my wheel chair thinking more about how I " could do " than not so much about " how I could not do" more and more each day.

Well anyway it sounds like you are surely on a pathway to healing. Keep up the good work and much good health and hope to you while doing your most needed and valuable gift of giving back what others deeply need. Hope! I know I could not have healed without it.

I wish you well,
~ Zevar ~




_____________________________

"Do not try to force me to be what you want me to be! Accept me for what I want to be,&am!—one who knows she belongs at the feet of men!&desires to be at the feet of men!-their slave!!—their loving slave!” Witness
www.CRPSAdvisory.com

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