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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/25/2010 7:36:37 PM   
Maahsatti


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Greetings Cheryl,

  I am saddened to know the pain it must of caused you for your mother to suffer and your friends.
I am equally as happy though to hear your friends knew inside that to keep doing whatever they could, despite the pain, really does help in the long run.
Thank you for sharing with us.

Hi Anne,
I am glad my little slice of experience in all of this caused you to want to share it with your cousin.
I found out last summer, when I took my boy to the pool, next to the complex office, that being in the water really does help ease the pain when trying to do exercise.


greetings zeph,
Good for you kiddo, thats awsome. Keeo up the good work.

Take care
Maahsatti



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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/29/2010 10:09:19 PM   
Nephilim


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I know a good personal injury and social security disability attorney willing to take on Goreans as clients.

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/30/2010 7:38:27 AM   
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My, you just shit everywhere, don't you.

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/30/2010 8:07:34 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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Greetings and good morning Mistress Maahsatti,

quote:

greetings zeph,
Good for you kiddo, thats awsome. Keeo up the good work.


Thank you, Mistress. Having had the experience of walking up a steep hill while I was with Master Tim, walking home is easy to do. It's all a matter of perspective *grins*

Your  writing that you make sure to walk to the store whether or not you want to is inspiring.

I wish you well, Mistress

zeph


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/30/2010 8:17:05 AM   
Nephilim


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[:****] <-  needs more fiber

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/30/2010 9:36:41 PM   
makeitmemorable


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"Hello makeit,  
Sounds like you need the full spa treatment! Heavy  
workouts, restrained from access to food and forced to obtain your food  
and liquid from a series of cocks...sort of a slave's fat farm if you  
will. Perhaps if youre very good you could be the spokesmodel for a  
nationwide franchise of such weightloss clinics??? Cheers"  
 
I know there are always gonna be idiots out there but damn... It is responses like this that make me want to just give up. Not to mention i'm not even a slave, I'm a FW. Now i will say that perhaps my profile is a it unorthodox, but it is honest, and clear in what i am seeking right now. Another  
responded with a statement saying i need someone who will lock me up and starve me. WTH? First of all, that is ridiculous. As i stated in my profile, it is meds and the inability to exercise that got me here. I used to walk 5 miles a day before i got sick.. sometimes twice. Now i  
can walk two on a good day before the pain hits and 2 1/2 before i have to stop. I'm sorry but i'm offended at the assumption that every woman  
who gains some extra weight does so by gorging themselves on food. It has taken me damn near two years to get to the point where i can start to exercise almost normally again.. having to relearn how to walk tends to slow down things like that. So to those of you who have responded with common sense, and intelligence, or even curiosity, I thank you. To those of you who are sending messages to just be a smartass and show how little control you have over even your own actions and minds, I hope you little boys take some notes from the real men around here and grow up before your balls decide that they descended prematurely.

Respectfully, (to some anyway... *smirks...)

~memorable

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 1/31/2010 4:34:50 AM   
Maahsatti


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Greetings Makeitmemorable,

  Well said.
spending even an ounce of energy towards morons like that, truly is not worth a second of your time, it is they who need for people to feel sorry for, not a woman who suffers the pains and trials as you do yet pushes past it and moves ever forard in life.

I wish you very well,
Maahsatti


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 2/6/2010 7:01:59 PM   
patina


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Greetings all:

It has been a while since i have been back here i was not allowed. As i am no longer owned i have decided to return to what i feel is more of a home like site to me. i am hoping i am not intruding with a question on a subject that is probably medicore compared to most of you but it has caused me a lot of discomfort- pain- and a whole lot of inconvenience. i was wondering if anyone else had dealt with this problem?

The cartlidge in my left knee is no longer there or little of it is left. My knee has to be kept straight and elevated. i have to put a arthritis cream on it and i am now taking some inflamitory pills. i am unable to stand or walk on it for more than 3-5 minutes at a time before the pain is so bad i have to sit down. When it is going to snow or rain it is worse. There was no warning this was going to happen, My hip started hurting one morning and that lasted for about a week then it started moving down my leg to my knee and it just sent terrible bolts of pain like something was stabbing it. i made a Dr appt. and he said due to my left leg being a different length than my right the hip had pulled the kneecap over, this allowed the caetlidge to be scraped out. Surgery will not help it. Cortisone shots, will for a while but best to wait to use as last resort. to jusr stay off it, elevate it, do the anti inflimatory pills and move to a better climit as winter is what will hurt it more.

Sorry to ramble, i am wondering if anyone else has dealt wirh this problem before and if so can you tell me how often does it flare up? how much does bending your knee affect it? eventually are you able to return to normal standing and usage of your limbs?

patina

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 2/8/2010 5:01:33 AM   
AnthaofTabor


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Greetings patina,

I have sent you an email on CM

I wish you well

Antha

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/18/2010 12:25:00 AM   
Daddystreasure


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Greetings Masters
Greetings Mistresses
Greetings owned
Greetings others

This girl is new here and very happy to have found this thread.  With her Master's permission she now posts carefully so as not to offend anyone.

This girl is 44 years of age and in a full-time, 24/7 Gorean relationship.  Before she even became her Master's property she told Him everything about herself and her health issues.  She gave her Master plenty of time to decide if He honestly wished to collar her and hown her full-time.

This girl has rheumatoid arthirtis in every joint in her body.  She also has diabetes type 1, asthma, allergies, deep depression, ADHD, PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) [Due to ex-Master.] and diabetic neuropathy (nerve damage caused by diabetes.).  Had brain cancer in 2003.  Had breast cancer in 2004.  Suffered a heart attack in 2007.  Had three stints placed in her heart in 2008.  Had a stroke in 2009 and she is newly diagnosed with thyroid cancer in March, 2010. ((Are the Priest Kings playing with this piece of property giving her all these challenges?))

This piece of property's life may not be easy in a 24/7 relationship but her Master works with her on everything to keep her on track.  She is truly blessed to be owned by a very patient Gorean Man.

After this girl had her brain surgery she lost about 50% of her memory so Master had to start at square one with her.  It was a challenge but one he really stepped up to the plate to do and one she stepped up to the plate for as well. 

This piece of property has many challenges every day and though she cannot use her legs to walk very well and uses a walker she is blessed to have the kind of Owner to fashion things such as the bike basket on the front of her walker to help her serve Him better.  This girl serves with 1000% of her heart daily and her Master's happiness shows!

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/22/2010 2:57:14 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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~FR~

Greetings to Free
Greetings girlies and lurkers,

I had an email from Thomas yesterday giving me an update and he has given me permission to post it here to let everyone know how he's doing.

"

this is a short notice to give update as to
my status   got home to socal from madison wisconsin on feb 13   not walking as much as i should and am gonna
have to remedy that as soon as possible   but it is good not having to drag the oxygen tanks
around   this still blows me away with the transplant
and what incredible doctors and staff at the
the w and the va hospital   and the caretaker which i had who will
always be a part of my life did a very thoughtful
part of her life which she did not have to   i cannot say enough about her giving up her life
to help me out and there is quite a story behind
that also   but as it is i do not take the opportunity of a
second chance with the lung transplant lightly even
tho there are things which need to be always looked at
and always observed just to make sure things go along
as they should and no complications   will be going back to madison every three monthes
for follow up with the transplant team for the next
year then every six monthes for a year and then every
year one time for the rest of my life   i have sarcoidosis it does not have me
i will kick its ass
i refuse to lose
thomas michael kappler"

I wish all well,

zeph


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/22/2010 5:36:50 AM   
fluffypet61


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Thanks for the update.

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/22/2010 3:01:10 PM   
zephyroftheNorth


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You're welcome, fluffygirl *grins*

zeph


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/22/2010 8:40:17 PM   
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Thats such great news, thanks zeph

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2010 6:42:39 PM   
ODschainedangel


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Greetings Masters
Greetings Mistresses
Greetings kajirae

I am the slave of Lord Laraby. I have been in a wheelchair since age 2 , this some of you already knew. In Oct I got very sick running fevers and had to go to the hospital. They found that i had Osteo in my hips and Pelvis. Two hospitals truly did not know what to do to get rid of it. I finally came to our big hospital here in New York called Albany Medical Center. It is a teaching hospital. They agreed that Had Osteo and MRSA. The doctors presented to us an operation to get rid of it but it would mean removing the bottom half of my body. I am still in the hospital and have decided to have this done. It is called Hemicorporectomy. It means they cut the body bellow the belly button, removing legs, hips, pelvis and all sexual organ inside and out and the anas. The bowels and bladder are rerouted.
I found there to be no website from the person having it done point of view. So with my Master's permission and another Master helping we started a site.
I wanted to share it with you all and share My Master and my journey through this. I have an operation that will be done on April 13th to reroute bowel and kidneys. Then about 4 weeks later I will have the Hemicorporectomy. After some healing i will go to rehab for about 2 months.

This is and will continue to be a hard time for my Master and I but we are working through it one day at a time.
Any thoughts and prayers would be appreciated and you can join the site for updates and leave messages.
I thank you in advance for your time. The site is
http://hemicorporectomy.org/

LL's slave girl angel

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2010 6:52:34 PM   
takemeforyourown


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greetings, twinkle

I don't live Gorean, but I read the threads often. I thank you for this place. It is the first thread of its kind I have noticed on CM (please feel free to correct this statement if it has been made in error). This girl suffers from debilitating depression and anxiety. It is comforting to find others who struggle with bodily/spiritual/mental ills while still celebrating the lifestyle.

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/29/2010 7:21:39 PM   
allyC


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Hello, angel. I will keep you in my thoughts.  I cannot imagine how difficult this all must be and I genuinely offer my best wishes for you and your Lord - truly. Sending love, warm thoughts, and hugs across the miles to you, angel. -Cav's ally

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2010 5:19:13 AM   
nephandi


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Greetings

I do not think I have chatted with you on this forum before. But when reading your post I wanted to offer my best wishes. I can not imagine what you are going though, but I wanted to write and say that I will keep you in my thoughts and I hope all will go well.

I wish you well


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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 3/30/2010 11:20:25 PM   
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Greetings Masters
Greetings Mistresses
Greetings slaves
Greetings others

It is nice yet sad to know this girl is not the only one in the world with handicaps.  This girl will keep you all in her prayers and thoughts daily.

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RE: Goreans with Disabilities- Support, Advice, Info, V... - 4/2/2010 4:34:51 PM   
Hiskajirah


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chainedangel,

I truly wish you the best on your journey. Your post gave me shivers. I appreciate the link to your site. I bookmarked it. I'll do all that I can to promote your site so that others might learn from it. I know it's not a lot but it's something.

I wish you and your Master all the best. May new dreams come true for the both of you.


Sincerely,
~twinkle

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