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ORIGINAL: plantlady64

Hello There,
In my opinion a full true slave, weather Gorean or not, has her Masters wants, desires and happiness at the center of her universe. She submits to, and works towards her Masters contentment with no desire but to be what he wants her to be. It's to be owned fully mind, body, and soul and to keep no part of her private or held back from him in any way.

For me the deeper I yield to my Masters will and ownership of me, the more content and free I am. I don’t know if my Master ever died if I’d be willing to trust someone else literally with my whole self and life like I can my Master. It took him being the most honest, mature and compassionate man I’ve ever met to allow me to trust him on this level. I’ve never met anyone whose views and desires mirrored my ideals of love, life and family.

Again this is only an un-educated opinion I present here, so if I am incorrect I'd welcome the comments people will have about my statements as I honeslty want to understand more deeply what Gor's differences from BDSM than I do now.


Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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ORIGINAL: starshineowned

A few months back Master and I had a not so pleasant exchange. I honestly do not even recall what it was about, except that I felt absolutely horrible inside the rest of the night, and He did not want me around or near him. He did not even sleep in bed.

The next morning when I woke Him for work, His reply was gruff, short, and curt..it just was not that same affectionate tone that was use to. To Him he was just waking up and there was nothing about it. I took it as his still being not happy with me and not wanting me around so i dismissed myself back to the bedroom, and layed back down. I did not do what was suppose to do which was make his coffee, breakfast, get meds out, make his lunch for day, and lay his clothes out. Again under the feelings that he did not want me around and out of his way.

I assumed ..deadly mistake.

I learnt that day without a doubt what it meant to be a slave, to serve, and what obedience was. Bad days and my emotions are never an excuse to not serve. Ever.


starshine
Happy slave of Master Delvin

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ORIGINAL: Thadius

Tal and Greeting,

I guess the biggest difference between Goreans and the others in the lifestyle, is the understanding of the natural order (hierarchy). As a Gorean I have disrobed from the general Political Correctness that our culture seems to try and force feed us and our children. Men and women are different. I also believe that this is where most of the "confusion" comes in, as people usually refer to Gor as harsh and brutal. It is anything but harsh and brutal. I find the ceremony, traditions, and poetry to be very uplifting and freeing of the stigmas that the vanilla world tries to make us conform to.

Be safe and Be well,
Thadius...Proud owner of thalia.

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Searching for the right person to submit too is at times a place of vulnerability and caution is high, i wonder if others found at times they didnt always show the person that resides within their hearts