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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 9:12:29 AM   
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Too many times when we are looking for the answers, we look under every rock, and up in every tree. Only to find that the answer has been with us, if we had bothered to look at ourselves in a mirror.

Tal Orion,
 
We should perhaps remember the lesson that Torvald's cave was found to contain only a DIY kit.
 
IWYW,
 
Kirata
 

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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 9:15:29 AM   
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Tal Marcus:
   As for the "Do not ask how to live. Instead, proceed to do so." issue, I think we are both on the same page though your last post put it more eloquently than I did.  I certainly agree, and believe my post implied, that you need to question and examine yourself for the answers as to how to live.  Though that internal analysis is unlikely to occur without some outside catalyst, such as reading the Gor series.  A person could easily proceed through life, never questioning their societal conditioning. 

I wish you well,
Luther     

    

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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 9:25:47 AM   
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Tal, Luther!

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ORIGINAL: Luther6

A person could easily proceed through life, never questioning their societal conditioning. 


Absolutely.

Norman presents us with the Gorean argument through the Gor books. They are the mirror against which we measure ourselves, the crucible within which we burn our conceptions to purge them of impurities. The Gor books are the catalyst; Gorean Philosophy is the process.

When we "look within ourselves," we do so in order to understand the truths about what makes us tick as living components within nature. That informs us as to what we need to function at our best.

Then we have all the tools we need to function as Goreans.

I wish you well,

_Marcus_


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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 11:47:16 AM   
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Tal Marcus,

I read your post to Orion that popped up straight after mine and thought we had something we could debate and then continuing, again that wasn't the case.

I made the comment that life was simple, just be yourself and then seen where you commented that that being Gorean wasn't simply about being yourself, I’m not absolutely certain you can be Gorean if its not in your though. But my comment and yours were two separate issues so no debate in that; but I would like to address for the masses and get your thought on why we try to complicate matters.

I'll use the topic of females and the age old comment that women are complicated creatures and that there is no point in trying to figure them out. Obviously this premise applies to many things like the understanding of life itself, it seems that a great many men like to discard or deny existence to the proclaimed undoable or unsolvable.

I have my opinion that men attempt to make things appear to be complex for the reasons to do with ambition (actually a lack thereof) or something along that line. Looking at the female example, if she is supposedly so complicated and hard to figure out it gives men an excuse to not even try, telling the females that enough times and making it sound like a good thing has actually set in with them as reasonable and they too have accepted this as fact. The truth is that women aren't that complicated and when you get them to stop creating false pretense in order to appear diverse they become happy in their simple ways.

Appeal to the heart of a woman and you have the battle half won. Demonstrate yourself a man and more is accomplished. They have very little desire in most cases to override the will of a man they believe in. They just have trouble finding this man most of the time.

Take doing dishes, most men new in a live relationship start off helping a time or too, they do a bad job, intentionally a good deal of the time and then she doesn't want him around to help, which was his mission to begin with. Why not establish roles from the start so no one ends up feeling deceived in the end?

How many men fight and work to have the woman that is a housewife. Not all but many females would love to still be the woman they seen their Grandmother to be. But men just accept the fact that a wife or companion has to work and we go along with the flow. Are we lazy or afraid to buck the system? Perhaps we’re just too afraid to take a woman that we would have to support and see too. Give her an equal responsibility in this and she will also share in the failure that seems more and more common.

Anyway I can go on and on with silly examples, but I don't think trashing society is the answer, we as Goreans can identify what we see as deficiencies and attempt to establish what we would, could or should do about them as “Goreans on Earth”. Living by example does seem to be the best inspiration for men that just don't seem to have a reason to breath.

So while I don’t think life is all that complicated, getting it right as a Gorean, or understanding what we are as Goreans might be.

Maybe we have to start another thread for this, maybe is this topic. Perhaps its time for you and the others to take a turn in this direction.


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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 12:05:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MarcusofAr
But in the end, the great philosophical search for truth is like an attempt to reach the speed of light: the closer you get, the farther you have left to go.


Not strictly true.  The closer you get to the speed of light, the harder you have to push to continue accelerating.  To actually reach the speed of light, you must push infinitely hard which, of course, you cannot do.  Physics aside, your point is taken.  You ain't getting to light speed.

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But none of them has the answer to everything, because there IS no answer "to everything."


That is an assumption based on your extensive search.  Having found no answer, you seem to be concluding that there is no answer to find.  But there is an answer.

Have you ever lost an item in your house, like perhaps a set of keys?  You turn the house inside out, look in every possible place, several of them over and over again.  Yet you cannot find the keys.  A few hours or days later, when the keys are the furthest thing from your mind, you open a drawer - that you are certain you searched thoroughly - and there they are in plain sight.

Or perhaps you were trying to remember the name of that actor who played in that one movie... what the HELL is his name... you know it, but you can't remember it... it's on the tip of your tongue... but it just...won't... come.  You give up and wipe it from your brain.  An hour later, in the middle of something completely unrelated, when you were not thinking about it at all... the name pops into your head.

So how do you find the answer to everything?  Simple.  Don't look for it.

Don't ask how to live; proceed to do so.  Don't seek the answers to life; live.  The answer might just pop into your head when you least expect it.  And quite possibly, like the keys in the drawer, you will understand that the answer was there all along, you just didn't see it.

IWYW,
Zeb

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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 12:20:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MarcusofAr
The first step of becoming Gorean is to look within oneself.
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The basis of being Gorean is there, and naturally exists within all of us.
...
Goreans are not born, nor are they made.

They are located, and awakened.


Hey, check you out!  Sounding pretty Zen there buddy :)

First there is a mountain, then there is no mountain, then there is.

Zeb 

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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 1:41:43 PM   
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Tal Zeb,

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ORIGINAL: ZebRarius


Hey, check you out!  Sounding pretty Zen there buddy :)

Add me to the club roster.

The books point us toward what we are, toward our natural endowment and heritage. But for all their effort, it cannot be simply laid out whole, in words, for someone to read, memorize, and thereafter "know" (except in an academic sense). The books are as guides and signposts.

You can learn about Gor from the books. But you have to find Gor in yourself. Often have I heard Goreans acknowledge that on reading the books, they found that Gor resonated with something deep inside themselves; that they did not so much "learn" the philosophy as recognize it. They just never had a name for it before.

One might say, perhaps, that "The Gor that can be spoken is not the true Gor."

IWYW,

Kirata


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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/20/2008 5:19:37 PM   
MarcusofAr


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ORIGINAL: ZebRarius

Hey, check you out!  Sounding pretty Zen there buddy :)



Well now... knowing my background as you do, and taking into account the 17 years I have spent in studying that very topic, that makes a certain amount of sense.

I think I can address your comments, Bull's comments, and Kirata's comments, all in one shot.

One of the best and wisest sayings that has ever appeared online in relation to all of this is the following:

"Gor isn't hard for Goreans."

You either get it, or you don't. If you do, then it usually happens quite quickly and easily. If you don't, you never will-- no matter how much you read, study, or attempt to mentally fortify yourself.

That is a concept which Goreans immediately recognize as true, and one which those who cannot actualize themselves as Goreans refuse even to consider.

I don't write any of this stuff for myself, or for most of the Goreans I know. They already understand it, either directly or on the subconscious level. I express my understanding of these matters in as clear and direct a manner as possible so that my fellow Goreans will be better able to cerebrally understand and defend their philosophy if challenged, and so that those who are struggling to discover whether or not they are Gorean will have the knowledge to correctly (and, hopefully, honestly) judge the matter.

No one wants to be told that they don't measure up, or don't have the inner combination of qualities to achieve a goal they earnestly desire. But-- in this case some people simply don't.

If they then pretend that they do, in order to continue representing themselves as something they aren't, then such actions fly in the face of anything Gorean.

In Yoda-speak:

Be, or don't be. There is no try.

So yes, Bull, this is all very, very simple. And quite easy. To do, that is.

It only gets complicated when one tries to explain it in such a way that those who do not inherently understand it can grasp it.

IMO.

I wish you well,

_Marcus_


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RE: Goreans on Earth - 5/21/2008 8:46:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Leonidas

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ORIGINAL: Quantumm

In a moral sense, none of those extra remediations would be warranted if my breakage were a simple instance of clumsiness, yet any or all of them might be morally justified (and therefore legally imposed) if I had deliberately broken that vase.



You judge the man that is prone to agression and violence more harshly than the man who is to a greater or lesser degree unthinking and clumsy.  That is a natural judgement.  He is more dangerous.  Where you and I may differ though is that your moral judgment sees his behavior wholly as a failing of his rational mind, rather than attributing it, at least to some degree, to the kind of man he is.



Tal, Leonidas.

My judgment of the man -- in this matter -- would begin with the observation of his behavior, but it certainly wouldn't end there.

Consider this idea: "behind every act, there's an intent; behind every intent, there's a belief."

Clearly the man behaved violently (the act).  Is the mere perception of that act sufficient for us to know anything about his intent or belief?  I say no.

On a practical note, it's utterly sensible for an observer to acknowledge the violence near him and to decide whether to flee or fight.  That's more an estimation of the behavior and it's potential impact on us, regardless of who it is that's behaving that way, i.e., it matters not if the man is 5'11" or 6'4" -- the risk of being hit with a vase flying through the air is the same.  That's a practical judgment.

On a moral note, what can an observer say about the violent man?  Is he a 'good' man, or a 'bad' man?  Is this kind of violence something he expresses consistently, or is this outburst an exception rather than the rule?  Are his outbursts associated with some transitory traumatic event in his life or does there seem to be no rhyme or reason to his temper?

None of these questions need to be asked, or answered, before making a practical judgment, but they ought to be asked when we aspire to evaluate the man morally.  And it's this kind of moral evaluation of a man that I think occurs far too often in this life, even by otherwise intelligent and thoughtful people.

To put this back into the realm of your reply, I remain persuaded that 'the kind of man he is' (a moral judgment) cannot reliably be concluded from a single exposure to a single behavior.

(Incidentally, the idea of being 'prone to' aggression and violence wasn't part of what I intended to convey in my hypothetical scenario; I chose a single instance of a single outburst precisely to simplify the discussion by intentionally eliminating additional variables: history of violence, motivating factors, etc.).

To further tie this back into the larger question of whether 'honor' is innate, I wonder now if I'm barking up the wrong tree?  Am I arguing against a strawman idea of my own unintentional creation?  I thought you were saying "honor undergirds 'right action,' and the reason some men behave dishonorably is because they have none of this quality -- honor -- from birth."

If that's what you meant, then I'll close with this:

If honor is innate at birth, and a man's behavior suggests the presence or absence of honor, it seems unreasonable to morally judge the man for something over which he had no choice.

For the record, I believe men are morally responsible for their actions, ergo, I believe it 'right' to hold men accountable for their actions.

If that's not what you meant, well... guess I'm having a dense moment here :)


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Genius hits a target no one else can see."
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