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RE: Cuckolding - 9/20/2009 11:39:50 PM   
dominomask


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I have some fantasies that involve cuckolding, with myself in any of the three roles, actually. But my fantasies are mostly sort of soft-core, where the cuckolding is done to teach the cuckoldee a lesson about being more assertive or appreciative or whatever and things resolve so that the cuckoldee is assured and brought back into things by the end. Does that kind of condition ever factor into your interest in cuckolding, or is it all about the humiliation/power? I've never played it out with anyone that was more hard-core about the potential emotional edge to such a scene, so I've never gotten to ask about that.

I'm such a wuss.:)

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RE: Cuckolding - 9/20/2009 11:50:59 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

  I have been cuckolding my submissive husband for years. Its not like what many see, read and think about, especially the "online versions". You know, 14 guys, all black, with 14 inch dicks, in a trucker rest stop, blah, blah, blah.



This made me giggle.:) Thank you.

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RE: Cuckolding - 9/27/2009 7:43:04 PM   
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(For those that love it :) )

http://xxxbunker.com/590577

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RE: Cuckolding - 9/29/2009 6:49:33 PM   
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The summation of my previous romantic relationships has led me to ultimately desire only a cuckold marriage. That removes the shadow of FemDom in the sexuality between my bride, and I, in marriage. ALL THE CARDS are on the table; no deceit! That works for me. So, I am a cuckold-wannabe seeking a bride. And I'm ALL FOR TRUTH as a hopeful cuckold.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/6/2009 2:15:54 PM   
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Over the years I have discovered something quite unusual and unique about cuck couples:  Invariably (in my experience) they are astonishingly happy.  Their dynamic seems to produce an incredible bond and I believe it is the result of them being the flip side of the same coin.  It is my sense that both of them know where they are heading from even the earliest part of their relationship.  Yes, even the prim and proper girl who in her mind would not dream such a dream senses something in him that she knows is important -- even crucial -- to her happiness.

To give you a sense of my history with the couples, I received an email about 10 years ago on aol from a young married woman who had spent a year looking for a dominant.  Her husband was aware of her search ... he thought he was vanilla.  I ended up "managing" their sexuality for a year (long story how this came to be) and in effect they placed their sexual relationship in my hands.  Today he is sub to her and her cuck.  She also shares him anally with a few of her girl friends who enjoy strap-on play.

Since then I have been involved with five other cuck couples and have enjoyed each relationship enormously.  I don't refer to myself as a Bull ... it just doesn't ring right for me.  I am closer to average size rather than hung to my knee and that may be part of that.  I don't know.

Two of the six couples were new to the experience and it is incrdible to watch them find their repective "places".  I am a straight dominant with many years of D/s experience hoping to either meet a couple new to their cuckold desires or a woman that would like to "shop" for her cuck with me by her side.  I find both of those "twists" to be added juice.  I am not adverse to an experienced cuck couple if we hit it off.  It is always more about the people than the kink.  But ... lol ... it is also about the cuck dynamic.

It is his shame that fuels the fire!

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/6/2009 8:01:32 PM   
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My Mistress has found herself a bull in another state.  They are making plans for him to visit her soon.  I can hardly wait to pick him up from the airport and deliver him to her.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/6/2009 8:29:30 PM   
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Now.....this is what every cuckold dreams of....a loving wife....and.....http://iamcuckold.co.uk/blog/2009/06/cameron-love-in-forced-bi-cuckolds/

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/6/2009 10:04:21 PM   
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I just want to be a full-blown cuckold ASAP; I want to see my beautiful wholesome bride ravished by monster-like black poles impaling all of her orifices. Ladies?

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/9/2009 8:01:07 AM   
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I am becoming just a little bit disenchanted with the Collarme.com site. But since it is free, I guess, that I have no reason to complain. It is simply that, I have been active on this sight for 4 or 5 tears now, without meeting more than one real person in real life. And she was a real time, local sub, whom I already knew from the local, Denver area D/s support group community. But anyway, hey, damnit ladies, I am disabled, NOT DEAD !!!! Good God !!!

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/14/2009 3:57:58 PM   
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I have observed over the years that people define words differently from one another.

I have observed ads looking for cuckolds and looking for 3rd members of a relationship in which the man is a cuckold and they are all different.

Hence the tempest in the teapots above.




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RE: Cuckolding - 10/17/2009 6:52:23 AM   
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I was recently cuckold and have now found what I had been missing and embrace it completely!

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/21/2009 1:01:19 AM   
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I adore cuckolding.  My marriage has recently ended.  Unfortunately, it has left me quite empty.  Before we were even engaged, we had already evolved into a cuckolding relationship as I caught her cheating.  At first she explicitly denied the occurrence.  However, as we talked, she fully admitted that at the time it took place she couldn't help herself and at the precise moment she decided to have sex with this guy, my feelings really didn't enter her mind.  She said she reasoned later that she had hoped it would not mean that we would no longer see one another.  And that's how it started.

However, my first cuckolding experience took place in college, though I had not a single clue that there was a label for the situation.

As most college goers do, I met a woman at college bar.  It would seem she was eager for a tryst with me after only meeting that night.  We went back to my place which I shared with two other college guys.  It was a 3 bedroom 3 bath home.  After our initial sexual adventure, we both fell asleep or so I thought.  I awoke later to fine myself alone in bed.  I simply figured that she had gathered her things and decided to leave.  I left my room and went to the closest bathroom.  On the way I walked passed a roommate's bedroom.  What I heard was the unmistakable sounds of this lady and my roommate having their adult fun.  Being a college kid it really didn't bother me as I had no emotional attachment.  When I awoke in the morning she had returned to my bed and we had our fun again before she left.

Over the course of nearly a year, she and I stayed in contact.  She would come over and we would do our thing.. in the beginning.  Always after she would slip from my bed and head to the other bedroom.  It was never discussed by myself and her or my roommate.  However as things progressed, she would come over and lie with me.  She would tease me mercilessly.  Without a word she would smile, and boldly get out of my bed and leave the room.  I usually found I could not sleep from being so aroused.  Soon, she would return freshly having had sex with my roommate.  Most of the time she would be naked.  She would usually take my hardness between her thighs but never into her after this began.  She would tease me some more or maybe provide release with her hand.  Most of the time she would "promise that I would have my turn next time".  Next time rarely ever came!!!

What makes this so weird as I look back upon it is the fact that I was always her point of contact for making arrangements to come for a visit.  We chatted often, usually several times a week.  Our conversations during the week were not sexually oriented but more along the lines of a friendship involving every day type conversation.

When she would arrive over, she always took my by the hand to the bedroom and had her fun teasing me.  I suppose this might be where my addiction for teasing and denial arrived.

Well.. that's how I got started.  I crave a cuckolding relationship.  I miss it dearly.  I will definitely marry a cuckoldress if I marry again.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/25/2009 6:28:51 PM   
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In lay terms... the REAL meaning is when a wife sees other Men without the Husbands knowledge, however TODAY it was become a life in it's own.  Husband know and facilitate the Wife's NEED for others....

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/27/2009 6:43:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSean69

In lay terms... the REAL meaning is when a wife sees other Men without the Husbands knowledge, however TODAY it was become a life in it's own.  Husband know and facilitate the Wife's NEED for others....


Actually, whether the husband knows about it or not is irrelevant. The REAL definition of cuckold is a married man whose wife commits adultery (the definition of adultery being a legally married person having intercourse with a person who is not their spouse). You're right that the definition has been bastardized to mean virtually anything involving a person humiliating their (faithful) partner by having sex with others.

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/30/2009 11:30:20 PM   
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Yes, cuckolding is the best thing since sliced bread, as far as I am concerned. :oP :o) :oO Mmmm mmm good.. all I need now s a female to collar and cuck me !! <smile>

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RE: Cuckolding - 10/31/2009 5:39:37 AM   
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Cuckolding is absolutely, beyond a shadow of a doubt, My most favorite thing in the world!! I have not yet experienced it with someone I had a complete relationship with or marriage to as I have never married but from men I have dated and different experiences I have had.... it is sooo enjoyable. My best ever was a gang bang with 6 guys, and one of the men was not able to have an erection due to health reasons anyhow. He got to take pics, and fantasize about being allowd to clean Me and the men up. Unfortunately  not all the men in the room were comfortable with this so I withheld some of it. But having a cock in Me, doggie style on the bed, a cock in My mouth, and looking over at the men who so desperately wanted Me and the one who couldnt get it hard to take Me... was beautiful!!! I know that big girls are not for everyone.. but to be in a room filled with men who are hot for Me, and even having one or two that I own, and they are watching.. waiting... drooling... their hearts racing.. their blood pumping.. watching Me.. listening to Me cum over and over again.
 
OK--- so did I mention I love cuckolding?? lol
Now-- here is My next problem however.. *sighs*...
the submissive I love-- and care for deeply... and who would spend his life with Me... is not a cuckold. He is submissive, he is owned, he is caring, etc. I have informed him of course that I would have to have more than one live-in slave/submissive as I know there are certain duties he is unable to fulfill, and he is aware of it. And he has been aware of My sexual escapades down to My swinger parties but it is not where his heart lies.
Do you all think it would be possible to have the submissive and the cuckold---2 different owned men? I think its possible... but... just complicated.

off to fantasize some more... ;) and maybe go out with swinger friends.. they may not cuckold-but they love watching Me get it and give it... !
Lady Judi

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RE: Cuckolding - 12/9/2009 8:37:46 PM   
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SCREAMING: i WANT TO BE A FUCKING CUCKOLD----PLEASE HEAR ME!

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