TwoFourSevenPoly
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I fail to see how cuckholding and your question is a "Polyamorous Lifestyle" question. You might try the General BDSM Discussion or Off Topic Discussion board.
Because sexual power exchange between more than 2 people is soooooo 'Off Topic'? 
"polyamory (n.)
participation in multiple and simultaneous loving or sexual relationships "
Webster's New Millennium™ Dictionary of English -
"Cuckoldry
couples wherein the female is dominant and she takes on additional partners
...contemporary practice suggests the possibility of something altogether different. Rather than passively acceeding to the infidelity and desires of an errant wife, this cuckold is more in keeping with the male partners defined in polyamorous, open, or swinging relationships.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold
Here is what the Collar Me site itself has to say:
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Administrative Guidelines:
This isn't a place to insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others.
Polyamorous Section Guidelines:
As the description for this section states, this is a forum for the open discussion of topics pertaining to polyamorous lifestyles and related subjects. All members are welcome to join in the conversation here regardless of experience or interest...
... do not insult the kinks, preferences, lifestyles, etc. of others.
The key term here is "and your question is polyamorous lifestyle?" the OP did not indicate that they were in a poly relationship. The OP did not give background about their poly relationship if they were in one. The OP posted a one liner about cuckholding. In my view (your mileage may vary) it was asked in a more casual manner as in "hey cuckholding is cool" is anyone else doing this type of cool thing in real life context? The "in real life" comment stuck out like a red flag, in comparison to what..... "in your fantasy life"?
Alumbrado, You however were quick to assume that I was insulting the OP. I was not "insulting", there was not one insult word in my sentence. So to spout off that I was "insulting" anyones kink is a incorrect assumption on your part, but thanks for the CM, TOS review. And since you so graciously pointed out the CM TOS, per the section guidlines ALL members are welcome to join in on the conversation, which I did. Your opinion, the OP's opinion or heck My own opinion is no more or no less than anyone elses opinion. No we are not all going to agree on what Poly is or isn't, but then I don't wish to be a cookie cutter. And it is ok to agree to disagree. And bye the way quoting the dictionary on Poly was so very elementary, I grew up in a Poly house and activly practice poly relationships, so websters dictionary definition is not needed. But hey if you need to look things up to understand them go for it. Poly IS different for every person. I personally view Poly as a relationship dynamic and do not define poly by actual sexual acts, such as "cuckholding". Now if the OP had made the post more detailed, my view might be different. My view is not wrong, it is what is right for me. And again in a forum of 1000's of people you are never going to get two answers or people to agree on anything.
To Alumbrado, take a chill pill, you don't need to quote CM TOS or Rules. We are all grown ups and know how to read. And last time I checked you were not the MOD of CM. We are just going to have to agree to disagree. But one observation, you were quick to attack me, but yet you did not add anything to the conversation for the OP? So was your motive to "insult" me or to add value to the topic? Bye the way I am not insulted, just bringing it to your attention. Hmmmm.
Now back to the OP, would you care to share more background? For Example you are currently in a poly relationship and perform the sexual act of cuckholding or was it more of a one liner along the lines of "hey this is cool" who else does this cool stuff? Usually if you post onliners, without background you are going to get one liner answers. Or people are going to mis-understand your post based on lack of information. Care to elaborate? Be glad to discuss the subject if you would give more background.
< Message edited by TwoFourSevenPoly -- 5/11/2008 9:27:17 PM >
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