littlesarbonn
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Joined: 12/3/2005 From: Stockton, California Status: offline
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A close friend of mine just went through this with his girlfriend a short time ago, and I had to chuckle the whole time it was happening, because all of his friends (both guys and women) warned him about it. She was SO needy. They weren't in a bdsm relationship, however. The reason I mention it is that I know that had it been me in the relationship, I'd have had zero problem with the need for validation that she had over and over again. I actually gave it a lot of thought because I'd never actually dealt with a needy girlfriend to that level before (for the record, I wasn't, and am not, interested in his girlfriend, even though they finally broke up due to the "needy" problem). For me, I think something like that wouldn't have bothered me as much because I kind of want to be needed. Our friend is a bit of a callous type, who thinks more about himself than anyone else, so it was interesting to see how fast it unraveled, however.c
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<---- FYI, this picture looks JUST like me http://www.littlesarbonn.com/Stickman/Stickman.htm The Adventures of Stickman and the Unemployed Lego Spaceman
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